The confession was rejected, why did the girl talk to me more than before?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This may be that the girl is not ready to enter a relationship, and talking to you a lot means that her impression of the relationship is still good, and you can seize the opportunity to penetrate slowly. As long as the kung fu deep iron pestle is sharpened into a needle, there is a trick in chasing girls is "grinding", through your love, perseverance, perseverance and perseverance, you can basically get it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because this girl thinks you can afford her, have pride, and can use you as a backup for your feelings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Propose two possibilities to you, the first possibility is that he is raising fish, that is to say, he is raising you, this fish treats you as Beitai, and then when he can't find a better one, he has to make do with you. The second possibility is that he may like you a little, but not anymore. The moment you become a lover

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I want to treat you like a spare tire.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe the girl just rejected you tactfully, to see if you can still insist on pursuing her? There is also a possibility that he will treat you as a friend after making it clear to you, so he will talk a lot.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Vanity, know that someone likes to be proud of herself, although she refuses, but still hangs you, maybe she wants to know more about you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is a sense of satisfaction in being recognized. At least there is a strong sense of recognition in front of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After refusal, I can get closer to you, proving that you still have a chance.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe there's still some good feeling.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She's too bored? Is she sick in the head? She wants to use you as a spare tire?

    Yes, but not quite, is it so superficial that boys like girls? Then why would she choose to reply to your message, most boys don't want to think about it, they feel that girls have no feelings for themselves, if this is really the case, it is because you are not very mature, when a girl rejects your confession, but still chooses to chat with you, in the final analysis, it is for these three reasons.

    Most of the boys are confused at the moment, she originally rejected my confession, why did she say that she liked me? If a boy has such thoughts, it means that he doesn't understand girls at all. The boy's so-called rejection is nothing more than when the girl once said, "Thank you for liking me, but now I won't fall in love."

    This kind of sentence is called a rejection by the boy, but it's not, as long as it doesn't come out of her mouth, I don't like you, these four words are all solved according to not liking.

    Because maybe he can't accept some flaws in his body for a while, or the ambiguous relationship between them is not hot enough, or because she feels confused about the future with you. It may also be that she hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, or he is busy with his future, etc., which makes him full of suspicions about the relationship.

    After encountering such a situation, it is actually a normal thing for her to still talk to you after rejecting you. Therefore, boys must enhance their own value, expand their social circle, get to know more women, and let girls know that she is not so critical. When he creates a sense of distress in his heart, the girls will try their best to increase the distance between them.

    may be because the girl has a nervous personality, and she is worried about the lack of loyalty in business, and she doesn't want to make the relationship between the two so stiff. Especially when the two are still friends or friends, they are even more reluctant to get into a fight. Most of the boys began to open their minds after the girl replied to her news, speculating for most of the day, maybe she began to regret her death and wanted to be with her again.

    In fact, you can also see the reminder from the girl's reply, when he only politely replied to your words, it means that she doesn't feel like you, but she doesn't want you to chat so embarrassed.

    Some girls show that they can't be lovers, but they can make friends, which is actually just a small way for them, and they enjoy the feeling of being chased by others. But it is not enough to allow the boy's confession. Generally, after a boy is rejected, he will end his yearning for a girl, but they have a very big gap in their hearts, and they want you to be good to her again, and they will give you hints every once in a while, wanting you to be good to her again, pursue her again, and enjoy your investment in her again with peace of mind, in fact, she just wants you to be her spare tire.

    If you pursue a girl and she rejects your confession and still replies to your message, this is actually a very normal thing, and the point is whether the girl you love is worth it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Test whether you really love her and still love her after being rejected; Just to cheat you out of your money and continue to let you buy her gifts; She doesn't love you, but she just hangs you, so it's cool and attractive.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is possible that she thinks that you are still very good, but she does not meet her own criteria for choosing a mate, or you are very good to her, and she still wants to get some benefits from you, and she still wants to ask for your help when she is in trouble, so she chooses to chat with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Other girls have already rejected you, if they are still very enthusiastic about you, doesn't it mean that they have a good impression of you, and mistakenly make you think that rejecting you is a joke or fake, which increases your fantasy and makes you chase her. So being very cold to you is clearly telling you not to think about her anymore and completely give up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because she doesn't like you, and she doesn't want to have too much contact with you after knowing that you like her, and she is actively keeping her distance, so when you talk to her, her attitude will be very cold, and she just doesn't want to give you too much hope.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because she really doesn't like you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is said that it is easy to talk about feelings when chatting, and maybe you will enter an ambiguous state while chatting. After you confess to her, she doesn't accept you, but continues to talk to you anyway.

    That's when you start wondering, what the hell does she mean? Do you like me or don't like me? So what does it mean for a girl to continue chatting with you after rejecting your confession?

    1. Spare tire.

    The girl rejects you and continues to chat with you, most likely using you as a spare tire. She didn't promise to confess, which means that she doesn't like you, but there is no more suitable one around, so she might as well get along with you first. What if one day you come across the right one? What if one day you get better?

    In fact, it is very simple to know if you have a spare tire, because there must be more than one spare tire for this kind of girl. For example, she often mentions in front of you that many of her friends of the opposite sex, good brothers, and male girlfriends may be part of the spare tire, as long as we look closely, we can find out. It's normal to have friends of the opposite sex, but too many can be ill-intentioned.

    2. Not sure if you're serious.

    Sometimes when the other party confesses to herself, the first thing a girl thinks of is not to agree, but to consider whether you are serious. Maybe the girl likes you, but she's not sure if your confession was a whim, or if she was joking with her and rejected you out of self-preservation.

    If you ignore her, she'll be sure you're not serious. When you meet such a girl, you must be patient. Because she will in turn show favor to you and give you a lot of hints.

    3. I simply like to chat with you.

    If the girl is really not interesting to you, you will definitely refuse when you confess. But in the subsequent chat, there will definitely be a lot less ambiguous factors. For example, I used to send some kissing and hugging emojis, but now I won't send them; I used to be spoiled with you in the middle of the night, but I won't do it now.

    The difference between the third and the first is that one treats you as a friend equally, and the other treats you as a wrongdoer. When we face girls, we should think rationally.

    After the confession is rejected, since the girl is willing to chat with you, treat her as an ordinary friend. Don't pour out your heart and lungs for her like before, people who don't like you won't like you because they are good to her. And people who like you will not alienate you because of your coldness.

    If you are rejected, don't do anything that touches you, and don't comfort yourself that she has a chance to talk to you. You should be honest with this failure and make yourself better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the confession was rejected, the girl still took the initiative to contact you? Poke the girl and be careful!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I think she may have a clear division of the relationship between the two of you, and she thinks that you may not be suitable to be her boyfriend, but you can be an ordinary friend or confidant.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to be careful in this case, if she really doesn't like you, she is treating you like a small fish in the pond. One day her spare tire is gone, and she will find you. If you like her and are willing to pay without regrets, then you can keep her.

    If not, it's better to delete it as soon as possible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is likely that this girl still likes you in her heart, but she rejected you for the sake of face, and I personally think that you should continue to pursue in order to achieve the relationship between you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe it's because this girl is still a little interesting to you, just because she doesn't know what to do at the moment, so she temporarily rejected you, of course, there is also a possibility that she treats you as a spare tire, in this case you have to pay attention.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It shows that at least she doesn't hate you, and it's too early to talk about marriage. Although she rejects you, she can find self-confidence in you and satisfy her vanity. Maybe she wants to know more about you.

    Work hard, there are no absolutes in the world, and rejecting you doesn't mean you don't have a chance.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The biggest possibility is that using you as a spare tire and enjoying the feeling of being liked will make this girl complacent. It is advisable to stay away.

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