I m about to enter the third year of junior high school, but the people around me are always so na v

It's not that others are naïve.

It's your mind that's a little stubborn. 、

The third year of junior high school, you also know that it is an adolescent child.

Why do you have to suppress yourself so much?

I also had this problem in my first year of high school.

Such questions are common, and he teaches us what it means to be independent

Without this stage, you will never grow up

Now such people are the most common, and there is no need to have a deep relationship with them. If you don't go along with them, just maintain a certain relationship, he likes to hurt you, just look away, you can't cause you any loss, on the contrary, people may think you are generous. I'm in my first year of high school now, and I'll tell you the truth, people like high school are like ants, everywhere, if you feel lonely, talk to your parents more.

You can also find any learning groups, animation groups, and various groups on the Internet to chat with others.

Now I know why success always eludes me. Those who vacillate and hesitate will not in the end. Spring has arrived, the flowers have bloomed, the birds have sung, and the world is full of warmth; So why don't we.

Hehe, I'm about to enter the third year of junior high school. But I didn't have this kind of problem with you, although our brothers often quarrel together, but we forgot about it later, and we are still good brothers. I think you should take the initiative to approach them, (of course, you don't have to contact those **, just if they don't exist) and try to find some friends to get along with your speculation.

Ignore them, endure as much as you can, adolescence is inherently sensitive, look at people who are sunny, learn from their advantages, and lower yourself, you will definitely find good friends!!

If you want to make friends, it's not difficult, you can't always find good friends to study with, which I have also encountered in the first grade, I feel that those people are naïve, you can look at it from another angle, comfort yourself (he is naïve, but he is cute, he bullies the soft and is afraid of the hard, he can find a way to make this classmate become another person, kind and reliable. ）。You can also take the initiative to get closer to your more active classmates, because they are good at making friends.

You can also get to know the classmates in the next class by borrowing books and other methods, I believe you will be able to do it.

Childishness is not a problem, no friends is your problem, from the bottom of your heart to treat others as friends, people will treat you as friends, try to help others more, it is very simple, do more people will like to communicate with you.

This society is very chaotic, you have to see and experience a lot of things to have a certain life experience, and you will know it when you go out and walk around!

Today, society must learn to cope.

Find the goal of moving forward, hobbies or something, recall carefully, enrich yourself or go out on a trip or something, a big man is not self-motivated

Some friendships must be cherished, and don't reject people thousands of miles away.

First of all, you should thank them because they look up to you, so they play with you and treat you as the boss. Secondly, maybe you have experienced more than them, so mature, as the old saying goes, gentlemen are harmonious but different, so even if the difference is big, you can still be friends, and after many years, maybe what you miss the most is still these original and simplest friends. Finally, whether you are happy or sad, happy or angry, please cherish your time together.

Classmates, put yourself in the right position, there are many contradictions in your description, not only do you feel mature and disdain to be in the company of your classmates, but also express your pride as the "boss", the real problem lies in yourself, and when you grow up, you will know how rare it is for friends at this age to have no money and interests.

Oh, yes! I also feel that the people around me are very naïve ......Indeed, my own thinking is different from theirs......You have your own ideas ......It's already ruthless, and it's not ...... a childStudy hard! You have ...... that others can'tDo you want to be yourself, understand?

Don't look at how others are doing, just think about how you want to ......In short......

Maybe they can't understand it, but there is a certain difference in your mentality, do what you think, do what you are interested in, and in the end it is you who succeed, and others cannot help you succeed.

Look outside the environment if you're really a smart person. The protagonists in the network are all intelligent people, but they are still handy in dealing with friends. So your intelligence is not yet at ease, and when you are older, you will know that in fact, this is just early and late maturity, and everyone's intelligence is about the same.

Melancholy creates your reverse thinking, and Gates succeeds because of this, go your own way, and let others say go.

Does it matter? People are always different, do you hate them or hate them? If not, is there any need to worry about that? Sometimes it's fun to do stupid things.

Wow, that's cool, I'm a girl, I think a boy with a personality like you is cool, very individual, I have a lot of classmates like you, don't be afraid, I've just started high school, and my classmates have to spend three years together, and it's a little fun to get along, and if you can play basketball, it's even easier If you're a boy, of course, you have to start with boys first, and you have to go out and walk with boys often, if you think they're naïve, it's good that you don't talk too much, and it's okay that boys don't talk too much when they discuss problems with you If this classmate has any specific questions, you can mention that you are too general, and the teacher's ability is also limited

A truly mature person can easily adapt to any group.

Your so-called arrogant and introverted personality Unless you have a face like Rukawa Kaede, you are easy to be hostile if you pretend to be X.

And this situation of yours will sooner or later make you suffer a big loss, arrogant can you have to have arrogant capital introverted can change.

But in the eyes of others, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are not so naïve, and it is very simple to want to change, but it depends on whether you can do it or not.

Whether a person is naïve or not is not something that can be judged by looking at it, and no one can tell what naïve is. Can you be sure you're really not naïve? According to yourself, not getting along with your classmates, being alone.

Maybe it's just your personal opinion. Since childhood, it is to grow up in various experiences, and it is also necessary to get along with people, a person who is not naïve does not have to worry about such problems, obviously you are not mature enough. "The Girl We Chased Together That Year", have you seen it?

A group of naïve people show the beautiful memories of their youth.

In any case, you should spend more time with your classmates. There must be people who have the same interests as you, and no one will show themselves completely, and you will only know after you get along with each other. You can encourage yourself to attend more gatherings among your classmates, singing, camping, hiking...

If you like to read, I recommend a copy of "A Feast for One".

Since you recognize that you are arrogant, it means that you are not really arrogant, or that you are just not in the right way and in the way you get along with your classmates. It could also be because you feel that you have too few friends and always want to get their attention in a special way, thus creating a misunderstanding for them, they think you are arrogant or that you are unapproachable. You have to try to communicate with your friends, humbly ask for advice, take the first step, and the problems behind it will be solved, come on, you can do it.

If you can ask questions like this, it shows that you are aware of your personality problems, which is a good start. However, making friends is not an overnight thing, it takes the test of time, compare your heart to your heart, relax your mind, and be patient, you will definitely be able to make true friends, and it also depends on fate. People can make true friends before the age of 30, and it will be difficult after the age of 30.

If you want to make friends, you have to lower your posture, sincerity can be exchanged for friends, don't have an attitude of not approaching people, try to take the initiative to talk to others.

It's naïve to know yourself, isn't it?

There are a lot of people who are so self-righteous, very arrogant, and lonely, mainly because of their unpeaceful mentality.

Let's get a girlfriend! If you have time to feel that everyone is getting married and having children, it is better to act quickly.

There is no friend who can stay with you forever without anything.

If there is, it could only be that he likes you and embarks on the path of philosophy.

That's how it is in this life. If you come into the world alone, you will leave the world alone. If no one accompanies you for a lifetime, you can only accompany you for a while. Parents, loved ones, lovers, friends are like this!

That's how life is! Hurry up and start a family!

That's how life is, don't be too obsessed.

This means that you are old enough to marry and have children.

I feel the same way, I'm 24 you.

Heaven is making you experience something, and when you experience many failures, you will cherish success. It's the right person. will appear.

There will be, look for it slowly, emotional matters can't be sloppy, and you can't rush it.

Maybe you didn't find out that it was true to you.

Because this also has to be a coincidence, some people meet someone who has been with them for a lifetime for the first time they fall in love, and some people don't, because they still have to wait for the opportunity and don't rush it.

Don't worry, what you want, the years will give you.

Change your goal and like the other one. It's easy to like someone at your age. Take your time, don't rush, girl.

Start with your sister's identity, find something that interests him, usually have a common topic in small talk, and then feel that he has a lot of good feelings for you, and appropriately show your strengths or charms.

Accept the reality, and quickly forget.

Come to me, I've just fallen out of love:'(

The so-called things gather by like, and people are divided by groups.

Your values and personality dictate that you won't have too many "friends".

Let's start by looking at your definition of a friend. If you're just shopping together, drinking together, playing together, etc., it's easy for you to want such "friends". After so many years, there will always be a few peers or classmates who have played together, and now the most popular is to invite the wine, if you want to make such friends, in fact, every time you go to the banquet, you can organize a large class.

The question is, is this kind of friend, this kind of way of interacting with your values? Apparently not.

Don't look at some people yelling all day long, there is a group of people gathered around from time to time. If you pay more attention to those people, it is not difficult for you to find out why they get together, it is nothing more than a benefit, a advantage to take advantage of. These so-called friends are just some friends of wine and meat, and if you want it, it's simple, and you can spend money.

And then there's some ordinary socializing. For example, class reunions, activities organized by colleagues in the unit, etc., in fact, these interactions are at best a kind of socialization, and they are not friends at all. The reason why you feel a little out of place in these social interactions, and you feel that you can't fit in with them, is ultimately determined by your own personality.

To be more realistic, in fact, it doesn't matter whether the above two kinds of friends make friends or not, because those need "social value" as the foundation, not what you want to have. But you should actively participate in the social interactions around you, give others some opportunities to understand you, and also get the opportunity to get to know others. Don't ask what the meaning is, what the gain, when you get involved, you will find that the things that you originally felt out of place at first, in fact, you participated, and you will not exclude you, but you yourself have excluded yourself.

These will not allow you to have a large group of friends who revolve around you every day, but they will not exclude you when others have activities, and they will not ignore your ordinary friends when chatting.

I don't know what you mean by a bosom friend, but I think you shouldn't have a lover yet, because I personally think that the most intimate friend is actually the one who likes you.

Personal opinion, talk objectively).

It's not that I can't find a close friend, it's that there are too many people nowadays, and I have to keep an eye on everyone, almost enough.

You are a man or a woman, I accompany you, and I am not a good friend.