Am I lacking self confidence and what should I do?

How do I think it's the landlord's tutor who is too good, the whole person is like the ancient small jasper In fact, everyone will have a time when they are not confident, I think excessive self-confidence is like pride, which is another manifestation of inferiority.

In addition, the landlord does not have a clear understanding of his own interests and rights, and feels as if he is always at a loss.

Although sometimes I feel that I can't live with my pure heart, but this society is the law of the jungle, and you have to make yourself strong on the outside and soft on the inside.

Don't let others bully you.

Judging from your description, it doesn't actually mean that you don't have self-confidence, it's just that you're too kind! The kindness is a bit "excessive". Learn to be stronger, fight for what you should strive for, work hard You think enough for others Try to think more about yourself Kind girl.

In fact, I am the same as you, we are similar, but I won't now, you can relax your heart, try to face life with self-confidence, you will find that it is very simple, this world is happy, if you want to do things well, you must be confident, try it with self-confidence!

Having self-confidence is equivalent to having success, thinking about the good side of everything, trying to make yourself confident, and believing in yourself.

It's very ladylike, it seems to be the legendary [Chu Chu Pitiful] But in today's society, you can't show yourself It's okay to be yourself generously After all, life is short.

Contradictions are everywhere and all the time, don't often see the two sides of contradictions......

Strong and self-confident].

Wisdom and kindness].

The reason for my dear's lack of self-confidence is that when I compare myself with others, I find that I can't compare with others, and I will have a feeling of loss, depression, and pain in the future. For example, your grades are better than mine, and I envy you; You earn more than I do, and I'm jealous; You have a partner, I'm single, why can you be so happy, and I'm still so idle? The more you compare, the stronger your inferiority complex becomes.

In their hearts, I am inferior to others, others are better than me, I am useless, there is nothing to do.

First of all, people who are not confident often care more about what others think of themselves, people live not for others, don't look at what people think of you, first of all, you must have self-confidence, you deny yourself, don't blame others, give yourself more affirmation, do your homework or work well, and slowly have your own attention under the profession to concentrate on doing things.

Start by finding out what your strengths are.

Need to exercise handles.

Think for yourself. You can't always be like this.

People should understand themselves correctly, because people's personalities are very different, and understand their own personality strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses will help you develop your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and constantly improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect.

To understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people especially need to be full of self-confidence to accomplish their goals and careers.

First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; Your career will be successful, and you will be the most promising young person.

When you have self-confidence, you also have to learn to make friends, only in the heartfelt words of friends can give you a comfort, a chance to speak boldly, an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express their opinions or suggestions, express their own opinions. Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, so that you can integrate into society and get happiness.

When you have close friends, when you are full of confidence in your work, your career will be strengthened, and you will become a successful person!

Communicate with friends. I fell out of love, was in a bad mood, and overated, which led to my current obesity. I have no self-confidence anymore, and I can't succeed if I want to.

My friend was very distressed to see my depravity. I saw a wish bag on the Internet and was going to send it to me. In a shop that helps you make a fortune, under the strong recommendation of Fan Fei and Yuan Ying's shopkeeper, they chose a blessing bag.

It was said that it was opened. I'm still very grateful to have a friend who cares about me so much, I'll cheer up, don't worry about the little thing of falling out of love, and give up on myself. Gradually, my mood improved.

There is no reason to love someone, you are happy and lucky... Bless you

But at the same time, I feel that you have a little inferiority, to build yourself confidence, broadly speaking, self-confidence itself is a kind of positivity, self-confidence is a positive attitude in self-evaluation, is a positive attitude in self-evaluation. As long as you believe in yourself, others will believe in you. You have to see the good in yourself, maybe that's why your boyfriend likes you

What are you: There is no answer. The kind of person you think you are, who you are, and others will see you that way.

This is a major discovery in psychology in the last world--- self-intention.

-You can't be beautiful if you think you're not pretty enough. If you don't think you're brave enough, you can't be brave. You think you're stupid, you can't be smart.

The spirit of intelligent and confident people is open, and conversely, the spirit of people with low self-esteem is relatively closed. In fact, there is very little real distinction between being smart and not being smart. As long as a normal person is open to experience, then he must be smart. Hard work is recommended

Eliminate low self-esteem --- regain self-confidence.

1. Positive identification with oneself.

You can't just see your own shortcomings, and the inferiority complex is largely generated in contrast. Therefore, while actively identifying with yourself, you must not regard others as perfect. People with strong low self-esteem do not have this awareness:

He's human too. Since they are"people", all have personal strengths and weaknesses. Accepting oneself means accepting one's weaknesses and strengths.

2. Build self-confidence.

To build self-confidence, you must first learn to say: No!

Low self-esteem is a manifestation of psychological weakness. The point is that their self-confidence is not strong, and they dare not show their thoughts to the outside. As a result, he followed the crowd in action, had no opinions, and had no courage, resulting in psychological depression and depression.

Psychologists believe that if you think you are stupid, then you are stupid. If you think you are elegant, you are elegant ... Therefore, low self-esteem can be overcome. But to defeat it, you have to rely on yourself.

Success says: God helps those who are self-reliant!

3. Positive autosuggestion.

Learn to say in your heart: I can do it too!

You might as well ask yourself: they are all the same people, he can do it, I can do it. He can do it, and so can I.

4. Actively interact with others.

A healthy mind doesn't come up with it.

Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, mental activity turns inward, towards himself. The scope and content of mental activities are limited to a certain extent, and coupled with the limitations of understanding, mental activities often go to extremes.

It is dangerous for a person's psychology not to be understood by others, even if it is felt by oneself"How ahead of its time"。When you associate with a healthy person, your heart will be purified, your heart will be open, and your experience will be open. The shadow of the psyche gradually dissolves during the activity.

I wish you a happy day, and your adoption is the greatest encouragement to me.

Good luck

Cultivating self-confidence is a rather general topic, and here we will focus on building self-confidence.

First, first of all, you have to clarify your mentality, that is, your current attitude towards society, work, interpersonal relationships, etc.

Second, after finding the advantages and disadvantages of these aspects, it is best to list them carefully, and clearly distinguish them, form two forms, continue to play the advantages, and create the premise and motivation of self-confidence. At the same time, see what is bad about yourself, and try not to repeat your bad habits or thoughts.

Third, after talking about this, you already have the ability to analyze yourself, which is a prerequisite that you are satisfied with, then it will take a long time to see how to start and build the most important way of self-confidence.

Fourth, this way is, self-talk, the difference between people lies in self-cognition, that is, why those characters like Sister Feng can also dominate the entertainment world. Her inner strength has outwitted many people's appearances, so they also have their own successes. You have to ask yourself what you are afraid of, what you are not afraid of, you have to ask yourself what you want, as long as you have a very real understanding of yourself, then you can distinguish between good and bad, and strengthen your inner self-confidence will naturally increase.

Don't feel inferior.

Believe in yourself, don't make yourself inferior because of the eyes of others.

You come to the world, you want to see the sun.

You're still going to run.

Write down a note every morning to encourage yourself to believe in you.