What to do if students lack self confidence, what to do if teenagers lack self confidence

First of all, we must know the reasons for the child's lack of self-confidence! Whether it is the excessive doting and protection of parents, or too much criticism and accusation, or always comparing him with other children, or excessive expectations and requirements, etc., only after figuring out the reasons can we prescribe the right medicine. If it is too doting and protective, then it is necessary to learn to let go and let the child do what he can do on his own, and make his own decisions within his own ability.

Children's self-confidence is the best in continuous success, no successful experience, where does self-confidence come from? If there is too much criticism, parents should pay attention to believing in the child, be good at appreciating the child, be good at discovering the child's strengths and strengths, and encourage the child's progress, even if it is just a little bit of progress. If you always compare him with other children, then parents should stop immediately, this is the most harmful way to children, to compare the child with his past, as long as there is progress over the past, it is worth encouraging.

If your child's expectations and demands are too high and your child is not always satisfied, you should work with him to set realistic goals for "jumping and getting" according to your child's situation, etc.

If you find it difficult to operate, it is recommended that you seek professional emotional intelligence training for children. Because I'm from Xiangyang, Hubei, I know a little bit about similar local institutions. The most professional should be the "Swan Road Children's Emotional Intelligence Education", which specializes in children's emotional intelligence education, and there is also family education guidance for parents' personality words, and the effect is also more obvious.

For more information, please refer to "Swan Road Zhao Yan's Sina Blog", Swan Road is the only institution in Xiangfan that specializes in children's emotional intelligence education (self-confidence, interpersonal communication, emotional management, independence, concentration, time management, frustration resistance, optimism, honesty and other non-intellectual factors) to help parents formulate reasonable family education programs. Since 2004, Zhao Yan, the founder of the Swan Road, has been committed to the study and research of emotional intelligence training for children aged 3-12, and has obtained the national "Senior Family Education Instructor" certification, and has been reported by the "Xiangyang Evening News", "Chutian***", "Today's Broadcast", etc., she advocated the concept of "dreams, goals, persistence, hard work, ugly ducklings become white swans" and "children's success, career success, and family happiness" have inspired many parents and children. In the past seven years, it has helped many parents gradually realize the importance of non-intellectual factors, family education concepts and methods, and led everyone to get out of the dilemma of life and misunderstandings in education, pursue inner balance, and achieve harmony between body, mind and spirit.

The Swan Road was awarded the "Family Education Guidance Experimental Base" by the Family Education Professional Committee of the Chinese Education Society, and the Swan Road Family Education Guidance Center will settle in Xiangyang Wanda during the summer vacation of 2011. Swan Road Children's Emotional Intelligence Course and Family Education Guidance Service are personalized education, elite courses, and non-mass training, with a limit of 8 children aged 3-6 or 7-12 years old in each camp, and registration needs to be booked in advance. Reserve a place in the children's emotional intelligence course before the official opening of the Wanda Education Department and enjoy preferential policies.

There was a time before an Internet word "other people's children" was very popular, I believe everyone is also very familiar, parents always like to compare their children with other people's children, saying that other people's children are **** good. Parents' original intention may just be to motivate their children to become better in this way, but improper incentives may make children rebellious, often saying that other people's children are good will make their children feel that they are inferior to others, hurt children's self-esteem, and hit children's self-confidence.

Children who do not have self-confidence, are afraid to do anything, and do not believe in themselves, there is a high probability that they will not achieve anything in the future. At this point, I seem to have let "other people's children go through the town" to accompany the growth of my children, and I often compare other people's children with my own; In fact, my original intention was to stimulate the child's fighting spirit to learn, but it was not until one day that the child said, "Since you think other people's children are good, then you let other people's children be your children", I realized the seriousness of the problem, I didn't know that such a comparison would bring so much harm to children. Gradually, I found that my child became less and less confident, felt that he could not do anything, and sometimes did not even have the courage to try.

If this continues for a long time, I don't know what the child's personality will become.

Therefore, when a problem is found, it is necessary to solve it in time to minimize the problem and prevent it from becoming a big mistake. I want to change the way I educate my child, affirm my child more, and take certain steps to improve my child's self-confidence and let him regain his self-esteem. When I was melancholy, at this time, my friend recommended us to take the child to learn Sanda, because Sanda is a special sport, and the requirements for personal training are relatively high, and the difficult movements in the training will help the child to regain his self-confidence in training; And Longteng Wuyue pays attention to the quality of the child's training brigade brother, the coach treats each student as his own child, training in such a warm atmosphere, coupled with the coach's psychological counseling in the training process, the child can quickly improve his self-confidence.

The child has been studying Sanda in Longteng Wuyue for half a year, and the effect is obvious. Now she is more willing to take the initiative to express herself in front of her family and classmates, and when she comes home, she is also willing to show us the actions she learned that day, and I am more likely to affirm the child's achievements, I believe that the child's personality will become better and better than before.