Because my boyfriend s mother doesn t want us to be together,

You have to understand that marriage is not just a matter of two people, if you can't change the attitude of your parents, your family is against it, then your future life will definitely be affected! Don't always think that love is a matter of two people, two people have nothing to do with others for a lifetime, after you get married, you will understand, this will affect both families! So the basis of reconciliation is to be able to change his mother's attitude!

Think carefully!

It depends on why your boyfriend's mom doesn't want you to be together. If you can change, stick to it, and if you can't change it, don't let yourself be angry in the future.

You can deal with it whatever you think, but you have to solve the problem when you encounter it, otherwise it will be better today and tomorrow.

Looking at your boyfriend's attitude, I think if you really love each other, don't break up.

You have to think about it later, if his family doesn't agree to find a way, otherwise they will break up together!

If he can't change his mother's attitude, then don't get back together

Divide it, or there will be a second time.

Look at your own thoughts''It's still a boyfriend for the rest of my life.

Boyfriend mom doesn't want us to be together' this remove.

Regardless of his mother's objections.

Just think about him, do you like him, do you like to be with him.

If the family really doesn't agree, I think it's better to forget it. Because even if you have to be together, the man's family reluctantly agrees, and you get married, then you will have a lot of problems after marriage, and the most direct problem is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Now that the man's family does not agree, there must be a lot of contradictions after marriage.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, even if you do not live with your mother-in-law after marriage, you still have to be together during the New Year's holidays, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the most uncomfortable thing is the husband, so there will be problems between husband and wife, and the problems are accumulated over time, if the man's family does not agree, then forget it.

The man's parents objected to their son being with you for several reasons.

1. Due to some defects of yours.

In this situation, you need to introspect. Get rid of these defects, use your boyfriend as a bridge, and strive to convince each other's parents to bear it. If you can't get rid of these defects, then you have to see if your boyfriend can accommodate your defects and convince his parents to bear them.

Even he doesn't mind, or he can't subdue his parents, then you won't have a show, so let's break up as soon as possible.

2. Because the other party's parents are controlling, or prejudiced.

The problem is that the other party's parents do not put themselves in the right position. It's hard for you to change them. If your boyfriend can resist this kind of control, then they are together, and if not, you can only break up.

3. Due to misunderstanding or compliance problems.

The couple had no major problems, but some of the performances did not match the parents' perceptions, which caused misunderstandings. For example, the son praises the woman too well, and the parents have a psychological gap after learning the truth.

The son spoils his girlfriend too much, which makes the parents worry that he will suffer. The son's girlfriend did not show any assistance to his career and life, and his parents felt that they should find a better one.

In the face of these situations, my proposal is: both men and women have received their own show of affection and love, see their parents is to fight for their recognition of their other half, to show more mature, positive and in line with the values of the two elders, do not come to show how much you care about each other.

In the face of such a situation, try to choose to separate, because your boyfriend's mother doesn't like it, you don't agree with you being together, and your boyfriend will eventually give up on you, and you are the only one who will be wronged in the end.

When you encounter this situation, you should let your boyfriend solve all the problems, if your boyfriend really loves you very much, then he will solve all the difficulties for you.

At this time, you must get the support of the other party, you have to work very hard, and you have to show your charm, so that you can get the other party's approval.