Falling in love with a divorced man with children

With divorced people, falling in love and getting married, it must be more than ordinary.

There are certain difficulties and ups and downs in marriage and love.

Divorced people will combine their current partner with their previous partner.

There are vague comparisons, although, on the surface, not to say, but in the heart.

Still have ideas.

And the most important thing is the child, in terms of the child, he and she will also give more love than you, sometimes although the child and you will stand on your side in the conflict, but on the key issues will still be the child's opinion, this is the problem that LZ has to face.

And if you really want to say that he doesn't believe in love, doesn't believe in you, and has hurt before, he must also be a certain guard against you, even if you don't do anything to be sorry for him, but sometimes he will doubt you. Then your life will be very hard after that, unless LZ has absolute confidence in himself to awaken his heart again, but it will be very difficult.

Therefore, if LZ really loves this man, then you have to tolerate everything about him, including suspicions about you out of nothing, otherwise, take the moment to find a man who has never been married, live a good life, and forget about this relationship.

It's okay. He is only ten years older. What do you want to do with that? LET GO AND LOVE ...

It doesn't matter how much older he is than you, as long as you love him, marry him.

You ask him if he loves you, and if he doesn't, leave.

In my opinion, it depends on the situation. If he is a good person, the family situation is not bad. In reality, many women marry divorced men with children.

These women are also very happy. So if you meet a man who has been divorced and has children, the first thing to look at is why he is divorced. If the main responsibility is not on him, but on the woman, then look at the other conditions of this man.

Especially look at how this boy's child is. If you are married to a man for the first time, consider the man's own situation before considering his parents. And this man has children in the divorce, which must also be taken into account.

This is a very important situation. If the child does not like you, or you do not like the child, and you marry the father of the child, you may have a lot of trouble later in your married life, so be sure to think about the child.

If you don't get along well with your children, but you want to live with them, then break up. Therefore, a man who has been divorced and has children can get married if the conditions are good in all aspects. If the conditions are not good, you can't get married.

The key is whether the person you want to marry really cares about you, and whether you are a really good person. Actually, I don't think stepmom is as difficult as others say. As long as people are okay, you are sincere to your children, and it is not appropriate to do anything with them.

If someone finds fault with you, there's nothing to say! You can't do anything well. Look at his character.

If he's nice to you, it's not much of a problem.

Anyway, if you're getting married for the first time, I think I'll try to find someone who hasn't been married. I didn't always feel like I was biased against divorced boyfriends. If he is good enough and has children, how can he get a divorce?

Of course, it is also possible that the woman's fault is greater. In that case, why couldn't he find the problem before he got married? Brainless?

People who are not cautious about marriage. Also, if you accept such a family, after all, the stepmother's education of her children is a bit poor. Maybe others think you're biased and have a lot to consider, so be prepared.

If you are unmarried, I don't think it's appropriate, because even if you love each other very much now, in the future there will be conflicts because of the problems of his children, his ex-wife's problems, and it is too difficult to solve these problems, and you will collapse without experience.

Living with a boy who has been divorced and has children, as long as the boy is really good to you and the two people really love each other, then it is appropriate.

With a boy who has been divorced and has children, if two people love each other and live a particularly comfortable life, then it is suitable.

Tolerate each other and love each other. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke analysis.

OK. As long as two people truly love each other, they can be together, and his divorce may be due to some emotional conflicts with his ex-wife.

No, and this kind of relationship is not necessarily happy, and at the same time, two people will encounter a lot of problems and tangled things.

First of all, a divorced man has a lot of experience, let alone with a child. When many women hear that the man is still with children, they generally do not choose to be with him.

In fact, the reason is very simple, first of all, with a child, your burden will be very large, some children go to school and get married, and so on. Another aspect is that if you get married, it involves the issue of having children as well, which is very complicated. On the other hand, there is the child, who has a hard time accepting another mother.

If it is a few months old, the baby is fine, without any memories and troubles, but if it is a very big child, it is very difficult, because in his memory, the biological mother will definitely be better than the stepmother.

No matter what you do, it is very difficult for children to accept you, and some children will even be very rebellious and often do things that hurt you.

The last problem involved is that it is difficult to find someone who loves each other, because the relationship is not a one-person business, and it is possible to form a new family when both parties are willing to be together. But it's very difficult to meet someone you like, and that person likes you. So this proves that it is more difficult for divorced men with children to find a partner.

A divorced man with children has to shoulder the life of this child, and you can't do without this child when you are with him in the future, you can accept it, but you have to face this child for a lifetime.

Looking for a man who has been divorced and has children, I think it is better to find a man who has no children, because stepmothers are indeed sometimes not good, they have to face many difficulties and contradictions in life, and family relationships are not easy to handle, so I think it is not very good.

I personally don't agree with my suggestion, I can see that you should be unmarried, I don't know if your heart is strong, can accept everything about him, because you are together you must accept his children, now most families have a child, and the child is still more difficult to educate, as a stepmother in the child's education can not be laissez-faire, say too much about the child is not happy, don't say it and sorry for the responsibility on your shoulders, if you can overcome all difficulties, after marriage you should still have a child belonging to the two of you, In this way, there will be more and more contradictions between the two children, unless you are an independent and strong woman, or you will be defeated by marriage, so choose carefully and wish you happiness.

It's not very good, how to get along with children, whether men have children above everything else in their hearts, whether their children's mothers still have a significant impact on the family, how to deal with children's upbringing and education, and then how to treat two children, how to get along with children, many problems need to be solved.

It's not good, if you really can't find a first marriage, you can consider, if you are young, still young, good in all aspects, it is recommended not to marry a man early, anyone who is divorced, whether it is a man or a woman, will be affected psychologically.

To be honest, having children will become a contradiction for you, and it is too difficult to be a stepmother, especially when you have your own children, and housework is too difficult to handle.

Divorced men with children, whether they should choose or not, today's society is too prejudiced.

It's not good, after all, the child is not yours, he is only good to his own child.

To be honest, it's more troublesome to have children.

It is difficult to be a stepmother, which is a problem that should be considered.

In a relationship, I would not choose to be with a guy who has been divorced and lives with a son. As a single woman, it is clear that she has never been married, so it is impossible to be a stepmother at all.

If you love such a boy very much, the girl should think about it, after all, she has had a married life.

of men often don't treat feelings as easily as girls think. And when a girl is not married, she is just a little girl, and she has not had time to change her mentality, and it is impossible to accept being the stepmother of someone else's child for a while. <>

When women choose a love partner, they often have to consider it according to their personal conditions, and they must not choose to be with each other impulsively because they like each other for a while. Once they enter into married life, they will find that the reason why men divorce must be because there are some problems that cause the couple to divorce. The so-called slap in the face of the barricade does not make a sound, and all the blame cannot be blamed on the man's ex-wife, and the real reason for the man's divorce should be properly understood.

In fact, in life, most men will deliberately package themselves after facing divorce, and blame all the faults of divorce on their ex-wives. The male disguises himself as a victim.

In this way, you can attract more single girls to like it, and girls should realize that when they are in love, it is a matter of two people. But the real choice to enter married life is not entirely a problem for two people, but also to face the need to be a mother to other people's children, if you get along with your children unhappily, then it is difficult to integrate into the family. <>

In most families that remarry, men will be greatly hindered, and this should take into account the child's thoughts, especially when the child is older, and no child will want another woman to take the place of his mother. Many children will get in the way of their father's feelings, asking their father and mother to remarry together, rather than wanting others to be their mothers. Women must not waste their youth, find someone who has not been married to be together, so that they can have more topics for each other.

It mainly depends on what kind of person the other party is, if the other party is very responsible, very self-motivated in life, is a very good person, and the two people have feelings, the other party's children can also accept this relationshipThen you can accept this feeling. The meaning of marriage is to live happily with your beloved, and let yourself feel the existence of love every day, instead of being swallowed up by the busyness of life. <>

One. Don't look at everyone with tinted glasses.

If the other party is divorced and has a child, but the other party is a very good, very responsible and responsible, and is a worry-free person in life, and the other party's children can also accept their father's second marriage, then they will choose to be with each other. Be sure to take into account the other party's children, because sometimes the other party's children can't accept their father's remarriage, then, continuing to be with each other may hurt the child's young heart, and if the other party does not accept it, the other party's father will feel very ashamed, and he also feels tortured and will never be accepted by the other party. <>

Two. Marriage is not child's play and should be considered at all times.

Before getting married, you must carefully consider choosing a flash marriage, which is a very unwise choice. The other party has a family, not that the other party is a very bad person, the most important thing is to look at the other party's behavior and the way the other party solves the problem of infiltration, is it good for yourself? All issues should be carefully considered, marriage is not suitable for entering the marriage, your role has changed, and the pressure of life has increased.

In today's era, people's minds are relatively open-minded, as long as two people can live a good life and the other party can bring happiness to themselves, then they can also accept such a family. If the other party's child is a very obedient person, then the family life will be very harmonious in the future, maybe this is the meaning of love and life, on this issue, different people will be different, as long as it depends on the personal situation.

I won't, because I think he's going to suffer. Anyway, I'm very materialistic.

I can choose to live with a divorced man, as long as the two of them have a good feeling, but I will never agree to live with a boy who talks to a boy who is talking to a boy, then you are purely living as a nanny.

It depends. If the other person has a good character and is the type I like very much, I guess I will be with the other person.