I don t know what to do, I doubt myself 110

It may be that your dad is under more pressure now, on the other hand, there is hope for you, and now he is not a child, he should listen to what he should listen to, but sometimes he also has his own opinions, he does not let you work for others is worried that you are not able to take care of yourself, in fact, working for others is the best way to solve this problem, you can find an acquaintance or friend to work, and then if he opposes it, you can talk to him well, tell him that he has grown up and can take care of himself, if this is always the case, You will not grow, and it will increase your psychological burden more and more!

Landlord, I'm an only child like you.

The experience of my generation is roughly the same, the generation that has been spoiled by parents since childhood, closed-minded, lacks communication, and grows up to find it difficult to get along.

It's normal for your dad to spoil you when you were young, because you were a kid and immature at that time. Now that you are an adult, you are responsible for your thoughts and actions. Maybe your father's parenting style is too extreme, and you should give appropriate encouragement and praise to increase your child's self-confidence.

And not always negating and hitting.

I think you should communicate with your dad and tell him all your confusion, and he will definitely understand. Later on, you'll find that both of you will change a lot. I've been there, trust me!

Care a lot about your dad, say good things, and make your dad happy!!

Don't think that "coaxing" is only for children, and the relationship between father and daughter is also very useful!

It's good for you to go out to work and experience this idea!!

Coax your dad to agree and promise him that he will be in contact with him at all times!!

I also work hard, and your dad must know that it is not easy for a girl to be outside, and it will hurt you even more!!

I can't see each other a few times in a year, so of course he won't scold you!

Earn some money to buy some gifts for your mom and dad, they will say that you spend money indiscriminately, but you must be very happy in your heart!!

It's useless to say too much In a word, you are too passive When did you come up with your own opinions, and do what you wanted, do not accept his interference, you will know that you can do it, he interferes with you, you don't give up, patiently persuade him, let him scold if he is not convinced, and it is not that he has not been scolded, anyway, he is not wrong.

Dad is just afraid that you will be bullied by others outside! What's more, you're an only daughter! The daughter is the lover of her father's last life!

Don't think about it, and don't doubt your abilities. Tell your dad what you think. Trust him to support you.

You're just like me.

I was scolded since I was a child.

At that time, I wondered if I shouldn't have been.

But then I made a very difficult decision.

I'm going to change myself.

I bought a ticket and went through all the pressure.

A man ran from Shanxi to Guangdong.

I told my dad when I left.

But I don't care what happens to him anymore.

I did what I decided.

Don't be afraid if you're wrong.

We have a chance to do it all over again.

We must live according to our own ideas.

I went home after five years in Guangdong.

And then. I'll do something again.

What do I decide.

He would have agreed.

Hello, once a woman falls in love with a boy, just like a moth loves light, whether it is a fire or not, she dares to rush up.

My girlfriend and I are online dating, she is in Dalian, I am Shandong, but I work in Inner Mongolia, which means that it is not easy for us to meet. We decided to be together the first time we met, two years later, we got married, she gave up her job in Dalian and came to Inner Mongolia.

Love doesn't need a reason, as long as two people love each other, they should love boldly.

Don't care about gossip, as long as you two are sincere, you can definitely come together. 16611 hopes it will be helpful to you!

Have a good chat with your father, there are some things that the elders can't say, they are all held in their hearts, and the pressure is also very high!

This is a promotion for you, you should thank your father, you just do it in a good way, your father is arguing with you, he will be proud, he will think, my daughter is getting better and better, and her life will be able to reassure me.

You have to think that you are the best, and faith will come.

Find me, I'll help you share the burden.

Your dad probably meant to let you marry early.

Can you talk about it in QQ?

Send me a message about your QQ.

Brother, you have to be confident, and you may lack self-confidence, hesitate to make any decision, think a little too much, and that's not entirely a bad thing.

If you want to break this habit, you must first have confidence, be confident in your decisions, trust your own judgment, believe that your decisions are not wrong, I am the best. The first sentence when I wake up every day, cheer myself up first, I am the best, give myself enough hints.

Every decision in our life will not be perfect, we can't predict what will happen in the future, we live in the present, we only know the impact of what we have done on the present, we don't know what the future will be, we stabilize our mentality, full of self-confidence, come on, you are the best.

Even if something happens in the future and becomes not as beautiful as it was at the beginning, there will always be a solution, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. There are always more ways than suffering, let it go, don't think so much, when making decisions, give yourself full confidence, move forward boldly, what happened we are talking.

In the past, like you, I hesitated to make a decision, afraid that I would regret the decision I made now in the future, and every time I missed the opportunity to make the best choice, I regretted it in the end.

My friends around me said a lot of words of encouragement to me, that this is not okay and so on. Later, I gradually made changes, and every decision I made would be thoughtful, and I would not be as uncertain as before, and if I made appropriate changes, there would be unexpected gains.

Because of this small change, I met my boyfriend, had a sweet love, and was a happy little woman.

I often have inexplicable doubts about myself when I am depressed or in the process of failing in some things, but this is also normal from a psychological point of view, everyone has a way and way to release themselves to vent themselves, adjust their mood, you can go on vacation to exercise and talk to your friends in a dark environment, this will be very helpful to you, no matter what you do, you must believe in yourself, otherwise it is difficult to do things well, Of course, before doing things, it is best to do the least bad thing, only if you have thought about all the worst results, what else can you not accept?

What are we talking about? Kiss.

Ask questions about learning.

It's hard for us to study, aren't we?

Question 21.

It's okay to work hard, but it's a little playful, and I feel hard while I want to work hard, so I feel very anxious and fall into self-doubt, and many people around me are not optimistic.

Question: Yes, but because I am a junior college and a college transfer, I want to be admitted to a college, but my family thinks that I am not able to do this is a waste of time, and then I myself fell into self-doubt, and I don't know how to make my family believe me.

Answer: University will not be close to our high school and junior high school, friends from all over the world pursue different goals, and many people also want to improve their abilities during the transition period of society, and work harder.

We can use facts to change the way our families think about us.

For example, we should report level 4 or level 6 now.

Kissing, we will have obvious anxiety in college, which is also because we are about to step into the society and compare with the people around us.

Therefore, we must have a relatively clear goal, such as passing all the fourth and sixth grades, and then we can consider upgrading or going to graduate school.

I just want to give myself a chance to retake the fourth level, I only scored more than 300 points in the fourth level, and I am the kind of person who is too confident in myself, so I will lack effort and then be hit by reality and fall into self-doubt, I am so sad.

Let's not be overly anxious and have high expectations, calm down, let go of anxiety, our college life is very good, we can't feel anxious every day.

Question Okay, thank you.

1. Memorize knowledge in a down-to-earth manner.

Knowledge is power.

2. Flexibly use knowledge to solve problems in study, life and workYou can be recognized by teachers, relatives and leaders, and you will continue to enhance your self-confidence.

3. Be down-to-earth and don't be ambitious.

First of all, it is best to do what you can; Then set up "small goals" and work hard.

The more success you have, the more confidence you have.

Fourth, listen to both and do not act blindly.

Many experienced people will dissuade us from doing anything, and we will give up after thinking about what we should give up.

One less failure, one less self-doubt.

It's okay, the doubt is over, just move forward positively.