What should I do about emotional matters? What should I do with my feelings?

Oh my God, you're a boy. Even if you don't know what girls are thinking, you should learn it. What girl doesn't want to be pursued by herself?

What girl would immediately admit that she fell in love with someone who has only known her for such a short time? Even if you really like it, you won't admit it. Besides, I don't think you have much to say.

You are an introvert. I feel like you have to learn to express yourself. Learn to pursue what you love, learn to give, learn how to give dignity to girls, and how to live like a man.

Instead of cowering, what does it look like to gain and lose? You are the man, her woman. What do women do, they are used to coax and hurt.

If you are good to her, she will be ten points good to you in the future. The question is, will you pay first. Ask, what's there to ask.

Girls are thin-skinned. When my husband chased me, I rejected me I don't know how many times, and in the end I didn't get married. I feel like you're too face-conscious, you have too much self-esteem, and you don't look like a man.

If you don't want to pay, I think the girl will be blind with you. You should reflect on yourself and talk about the truth of being a human being. I'm outspoken, offended, don't mind.

In short, the word is against the ear. If you really like it, don't be afraid to pay, don't be afraid to take the initiative, don't be afraid to say it, don't always ask others, and always want to reciprocate. Looks like a big man.

The same problem as the landlord, but the landlord as a boy is not too entangled, as a boy, you should take the initiative, even if the girl likes you, he is embarrassed to take the initiative, I am afraid that the boy feels that he is not reserved and does not cherish.

The landlord doesn't just introduce the friends you know to understand the girl's thoughts.,But it's easy to have the problem of communication bias.。。。 It's best for the landlord to ask directly.,Now I'm embarrassed to ask directly about the Old Testament girls going out to play.,You have to take the initiative yourself.。。。 Boys don't take the initiative if they like people.,It's hard to ask a girl to ask you if you like her.。。。

Waiting is not the way, both of them feel tangled and painful! ~

If you don't like her, if you like it, be nice to her in the future, and it's over Tell him that you love her with actions Anyway, she didn't say to break up If you don't like her, you just say let's break up In addition, does this person know the root of it Don't be a relationship**.

Alas, why are you so shy?

Men should be proactive.

I feel like that girl is waiting for you to take the initiative.

Happiness requires effort.

You don't take the initiative at all, and you want girls to take the initiative.

What a failure, right?

You know a little bit more about girls.

Now you and no one will realize your fantasies.

Huh: A man should be like a man.

Take the initiative to ask her out.

Eat together, watch movies, and hang out.

Shopping, traveling, chatting.

You lack communication, so talk to her more.

That's how you can bond with you!

There are more memories of being together, and I know more about them.

Naturally, they will like each other!

You talk to your parents, obviously you don't like him, and the marriage you are trying to force is the grave.

Well, just wait. Wait until the truth comes out; At that time, you won't be blind and worried.

Maybe she also has a lot of helplessness, maybe she just wants to find someone to marry her, maybe she's waiting.

If I like it, be enthusiastic, even if I'm introverted.

You said it yourself. Hehe, then you won't take the initiative and be enthusiastic.

Maybe she's been hurt, or maybe she's more wooden than you.

Take the initiative. Ask her to play, watch a movie, travel, go shopping, eat.

Then you can talk a little bit more about your heart, and talk about your story.

If you haven't known each other for half a year, your emotional foundation is not good, and you're going to get married, which will hurt you.

Don't wait for a quick fix.

If you want to continue with her.

Then take action.

It's very tiring for both sides to drag like this.

No matter how real it is, the pursuit of girls, whether they are free to fall in love or on a blind date, must carry forward the fine tradition of being bold, careful, and thick-skinned.

Try to watch some jokes, communicate more, and make her happy.

I often ask her out for a walk.

No matter how busy the time is, most girls still want boys to take care of them and care about themselves.

Show your best side. Whether it can move her or not.

That's it. Believe me. You will find that the world will change because of you!! 1

You can try to talk to her and see what the reaction is. I feel that she has been hurt by something, and then I will know you, understand her more, and then look at your future, there is nothing to talk about, you will have a harvest, and then talk about it, be confident.

You can try to change yourself.

Then have a showdown with her and tell her about your marriage schedule, such as when you will meet your parents, when you will get the license, when you will have a ceremony, where your honeymoon will be, and so on, and see how she reacts.

If she doesn't like you, there's really no need to waste time.

Maybe you're a candidate for her, and she's hesitating.

Then offer to see her parents and see how she reacts.

It is estimated that she hesitated among several people, if so, you are definitely not the first candidate, you are at most a retreat, a hole card, if you are willing to wait, then continue to wait.

In this case, let's divide it, otherwise the man and the woman will be very tired after marriage.

Since two people don't have much affection, why waste time. Like you, there will definitely be no good results, and it is better to break up.

Whether to break up or not is your and her business, not your parents' decision.

Your feelings are up to you!

Silly, people may be like you, shy, not to say that they want to break up, but to continue.

Otherwise, what a waste of time with you.

Put in a little effort, you can always fight if you don't meet, there will always be time to meet in a year.

Met and behaved.

Say something nice.

Girls are very coaxing.

As long as you pay.

I think the son should be himself.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, does she love you?

You can try to ask her how she feels about you, tactfully, and don't say nothing.

Otherwise, it will be too late to get married in the end. It seems that you like her a little, so try to ask her.

After asking, everything is almost clear.

If she's in the same situation as you, you might be able to get married.

But I don't think that woman will give you a clear refusal.

So it's mainly about how to ask her.

You ask her out to play together, and then you talk about your future marriage and see how she reacts.

By the way, have you ever taken her hand or hugged her?

You can be bold and do these moves.

Don't think I'm too bad--

Believe me, if she doesn't react very much then you're telling her what do you think of me ...

Haha, everything depends on the reaction.

You'll know what to do.

The husband and wife themselves are respectful of each other.

There is no fairytale love in the real world.

As long as you don't exclude each other.

In the future you will find that all your thoughts are on the child.

I won't be fantasizing about love.

If she is not enthusiastic, you should be enthusiastic You are a big man, how can there be a reason to make a woman enthusiastic Women need to be coaxed.

First, your reason, as a big man, introversion is allowed, but in terms of feelings, you have to be bold and proactive, how can you not strive for the happiness of your life?

Second, since two people are going to live a lifetime, don't always care what others think and say, it's you, not them, only you know if the shoes are suitable or not, if you like her, just say it!! If you want to know if she likes you or not, just ask!! The happiness of your own life to grasp!!

Why can't you, a big man in Mune, communicate with you, right?

Don't say that men and women are masters of love in their lives, you have to break through by yourself, emotionally it is customary for men to take the initiative, since she has been with you for almost half a year, she is an animal and has feelings, she is probably more reserved, you don't talk much, you can't guess each other, ...

You find a time to communicate well, you won't create an atmosphere, learn, find friends around you to learn from ,!!

Or take the initiative to ask her what she likes, find out her hobbies, it's okay

But your parents said that it was too early to get married, and your relationship is now like groping each other through the wall, so let's talk about marriage after being truly transparent, it's better to get along more

There is also love that can change a person, both men and women are applicable, not to mention what kind of character they are, when it comes to marriage, they must also tolerate each other, you understand that you are too introverted to change, girls are not introverted and don't like it enough, but they should also have active times to die all the time lifeless, stuffy and ruthless,

Introverts generally dislike friends introduced by others, and prefer to meet the opposite sex in their daily circles.

And you accept the introduction of others, and you enter a state of inadequacy. Personality things are basically formed before the age of 6, you can try to change a little, but you can't change it if you have more.

It is suggested that both sides try to improve and make it clear.

Both of you are reluctant to be together because of the pressure of your parents, and two people should be happy and happy together. But are you feeling happy now? Feeling happy?

If you don't feel it, then please be honest and show the other party that the two sides will calm down and have a good talk, talk about this issue, whether to go or stay, please talk about it seriously.

I feel that I should learn the following methods before I can deal with my feelings, such as:

Knowing how to better understand each other, I have met many couples who have been married for many years, and they often say how his mother is, how his family is, and I am full of complaints. It's not that it doesn't make sense, sometimes the reality is that there will be some helplessness. Understanding is not about making us hate others more or conspire more treacherously against each other, but about knowing that there are parts of the relationship between people that may not be what we think are the worst, but seeing each other's difficulties and being held hostage by problems.

Understanding is to avoid falling into extreme multi-perspective thinking, so that we are more determined and comfortable, always in the service of a better life. In a strong causal cycle, as adults, we have the right to choose which way to make ourselves comfortable or to plunge ourselves into deep pain.

Learning how to express himself, I asked the young man: how would he express his disagreement, how would he reject others? Young people will shake their heads blankly for a year.

This girl is exactly the lesson that young people need to learn, and when we don't know how to say no, we will meet someone who keeps asking questions until we realize our problem, otherwise we will continue to meet another person who has a problem! In most marital emotions, it is very important to express your thoughts well. We see many people pushing each other when they want to get close to each other.

Obviously he was hurt, but he still held back the pain and poked the other party's scar; Obviously, I feel inferior, but I control people elsewhere. Obviously, I really wanted to have a good talk with you, but I accidentally turned over old accounts and attacked myself.

Learn how to deal with contradictions, since contradictions come, like a big stone thrown into a river, the current will soon adapt to tolerance. It's not easy for emotions that aren't one-way streets. For example, there are cases of betrayal and deception, and some people on the other side will never forgive them.

However, this firm value orientation is often closely related to the other person's upbringing. But some contradictions can be understood, and then digested, like the young man in front, did his girlfriend really test him with materials? If yes, the material is just some evidence of a lack of trust and security in our relationship, then apparently the young man does not express his concern elsewhere, and then his girlfriend will show her with the material that he cares.

Conflicts are not irreconcilable most of the time, and learning how to deal with and deal with them is a safe buffer for feelings to enter into marriage safely, because each conflict itself is an amalgamation that seeks common ground while retaining differences. So I think I should learn the above methods before I can deal with my feelings, and the above is purely a personal opinion.

That is, remember to love others and don't forget to love yourself.

There is often a cold war, and it is dangerous not to communicate.

Deal with feelings by looking at them sensibly.

At this time, rationality should be greater than emotion.

In fact, you can do what you want.