Why can t I play with my cousin after two years?

Children are actually very forgetful, when you haven't seen each other for a long time, then you will be a little rusty, as for you haven't played with your cousin for so long, then you will definitely not be able to play together now.

I haven't seen each other for two years, and the environment, people and things that the two are in contact with are also different, and the environment they are in will also affect them. No matter how good a friend is, there will be a gap if he doesn't see him for two years. Everyone is an adult, you have your career, he has his job, and the circle doesn't want to be the same, so the communication is different.

But a good relationship is not something that can be influenced by this, I believe that deep down, the feelings of the two of you are still the same.

It's been two years.,My cousin has a new friend.,Don't play often and gradually become unfamiliar.,When you grow up, you'll understand that you used to play very naïve.,Intelligence is constantly developing people in growth.,There is no common topic.,It has something to do with people's personalities.,Some people may love to talk when they're young.,Grow up but introverted.,Some people don't change.,It's related to the surrounding living environment.,Only you play with him.,Suddenly gone.,People are also autistic.。

It's like not seeing each other for a long time, experiencing things and seeing people who are different, and there's less common topic, and there's nothing to talk about.

As people continue to grow, there will definitely be changes, and some people will change very obviously, such as from a particularly quiet child to a particularly eloquent adult.

Even if your cousin is different from when he was a child, it doesn't mean that his relationship with you will continue to be estranged in the future, and maybe in a few years, he will be very clingy to you when he sees you.

Just go with the flow, always be yourself, and your cousin will naturally follow you.

This is indeed the case, because in the past two years, everyone has developed in their own field, and they have become more and more strange to each other.

Because if two people are not together for a long time, then the circle of their social life will change, and then the people they come into contact with will also change, and the perception of each person will also be different, so it is difficult to play together.

When you grow up, the people and things you come into contact with are different, so your thinking will be much more mature, and you haven't seen each other for too long, and you're strange, so you don't know what to say when you meet.

As people get older, their personalities will gradually take shape, and both parties will have their own ideas and learn to think. It's normal not to be able to play together.

It proves that the two of you have changed during the past two years, and you have been in contact with different people in different places, and you will slowly become two people with different personalities, and it doesn't matter that the two of you will be fine if you two run in together for a while.

Maybe I haven't seen you for two years, my cousin has grown up, and the relationship with you has changed, but it should be possible to play together after a good friendship.

Ah, I haven't seen you for two years, why can't my cousins play together? Because the two are far away from each other, well, the circle of friends is different, so they can't play together.

Because the people you meet are different from each other, there is no common topic.

Time problems, age problems, children are always very easy to get along with, but when they are older, they have more experience and have their own circle, which is quite normal.

I haven't seen you for two years, your growth trajectory is different, and your interests and hobbies don't match, which is normal, although you are two years apart, but you are already very mature at the age of 15.

The environment and the things I have experienced, the people I face are different, and there is no common topic.

Because of the estrangement, the circle is different.

Because the relationship is rusty, he has his own ideas.

The feelings of young men are always poems, and over time, the feelings will fade.

I haven't seen each other for a long time, so let's break up.

It may be a little uncomfortable after being separated for a long time, but it doesn't matter, after all, you used to be very good, and you will recover after a period of time.

Everyone has different experiences, and their interests and hobbies will change with age, work and life. And when you play together, it happens to be the easiest time to change, what are the similarities between you then and who you are now? You will feel that you are very naïve at that time, and all kinds of ideas and practices are not considered.

Of course, the biggest change is their respective social circles, things gather like people in groups, what kind of people you interact with, what kind of people you will become, similar temperaments, similar interests and hobbies, and roughly the same work and rest time, so that such a group is stable and harmonious. And now after ten years, how can you still have the same chances, and still maintain the same interests and hobbies as before, especially if you can't find a topic that everyone likes, going out to play is just socializing, after all, there used to be that kind of affection, just like a class reunion, once a very good classmate, now sitting together except for polite questions, there is nothing else to talk about, of course, except for using each other.

Because people are changing, thirteen years ago, you had the same interests and hobbies, and you could play together, and you may not always be like that in the future. So you don't have to be reluctant, just go with the flow and understand each other.

If you haven't been together for a long time, people are also changing when they grow up, not to mention cousins who have been together for so long, they are roommates who usually you talk about everything, and when you meet again a few years after graduation, your words will become less and less, and your feelings will fade.

You have said that you and your cousin have not seen each other for ten years, don't you know that you have changed a lot in the past ten years, your living environment has changed a lot, and your life circle is also different, you have grown up together since childhood, and the two have similar interests, but ten years later, your relationship still exists, but things are wrong, there is no common topic, and now you feel that you are not as cordial as before.

People have been separated from each other for a long time, and their personalities and hobbies are different. The social upbringing experience is also different. Each other's moods are also different. They didn't have contact with each other and became unfamiliar, so the distance between them widened.

You and your cousin haven't seen each other for ten years, in the past ten years, your living environment has changed a lot, your life circle is also different, you grew up together since childhood, the two have no guesses, and have similar interests, but ten years later, your relationship still exists, but things are right and wrong, and there is no common topic, so I feel like I have nothing to say.

Because people change, ah......

It's been 10 years, you haven't seen each other for 10 years, and you may have completely different lives, different habits, ......There is nothing to talk about, and it is a strange feeling ...... to each otherIn addition, when people grow up, many things are reluctant to show anymore, and it is really difficult to ...... back to the old relationship

After so many years of not playing together, everyone's temperament, personality, hobbies, and life circle are changing, so it's normal to have nothing to say or not be able to play together.

Parents and relatives need to be managed, not to mention friendship, the only constant in this world is that everything is changing.

It's normal, I haven't been in touch for ten years, and each has its own life circle, and my thoughts will be different when I get older.

You also said that you have not been in touch for 10 years from the age of 13 to 23 years old, 10 years, nothing is changing, and people are the same, as you grow up in a completely different living environment, develop completely different living habits, personal hobbies, and do not contact each other for a long time, you don't know anything about each other's military experience and current situation, what is better than a stranger is to know who the other party is, and naturally there is nothing to talk about, plus people grow up, many things are not willing to show anymore, and the sense of distance is there. But if we could play together a little longer, it would be much better, after all, we are all young people.

It is normal for people to change with the time environment and the perception of life experience.

I think it's a normal thing that you didn't have contact at 13 and didn't see each other again until you were 23, with a gap of 10 years. Ten years can change a lot of things, changes in the growth environment will have a great impact on a person, as well as the education received, which will lead to the situation you said, not to mention the naïve before the age of 13, but by the age of 23, the mind has matured, and there are many things that are no longer what you imagined, so this situation is not unexpected. But after all, they are the same age, and they are young, and they should be able to return to the way they used to be after a long time together.

Time has diluted your emotions, and you urgently need to chat and communicate better.

In fact, everyone has changed ... After all, we haven't seen each other for ten years.

In fact, this is very simple、、、 adults, it is normal for thinking to change.

After all, it has been ten years since they were separated, and their feelings have become estranged.

You and he are both grown up and grown.

The feelings are weak, and the thoughts are different.

Change - you change! He changes! Life changes!