My boyfriend has passed away, should I keep in touch with his family?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's up to you.

    If you can all let go of the past, you can actually get in touch, after all, they have always been with you.

    's daughter-in-law, you have been in love for ten years, and you would rather die than separate, which also shows that his feelings for you are sincere and warm, and you can choose to care for his family instead of him. Note that there are two prerequisites for this, you can let go of the past, and the other person's family can also let go.

    The reason why there are those two premises above is because, think about why your boyfriend died? He wants you to feel better. If you both can't forget the past, and connecting only adds to each other's pain, then why bother?

    You have violated the choice that your boyfriend made with his life, if you really love him, respect his choice, go and live the life you want, you are happy, and your boyfriend will fulfill his wish.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, I feel very sad to hear about you, girl, the past is in the past, the living still have to live well, I also like to play, people say that we Sagittarius people are a child, I don't know what zodiac sign your boyfriend is, you can't blame you for your boyfriend's things, I don't think a man needs to be light no matter what, as for the next thing, you must have a certain gap with his family, it's best not to contact, the world is like this, some things don't need to be explained, Because the explanation is not clear, if they think that you forced his son to death, it is useless what you say and do, if they can see it very clearly and don't think so, then it will be nothing.

    The problem now is that if it's not legally relevant to you, you don't have to. Friendship says that you feel guilty, sorry for his family, yes, I want to compensate them, but I don't need to, time is the best medicine, forget the past, you still have a new life, a new beginning, I want to care about you There are a lot of people, find someone who understands you and start the next life. This is the most rational direction for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should keep in touch! Treat your boyfriend's family as a relative, and occasionally care about it, and everything can't be too desperate! Follow your conscience

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not your fault either.

    Something like this happens.

    No one wants to.

    You're still at this time.

    Don't show up in front of his family.

    You don't feel sick either.

    His family sees you reminiscing about his son

    It will make the scene stiff.

    You have to live a good life.

    Life is still very good.

    It can be seen that you are also a kind girl.

    You can do what you can.

    After all, they are parents.

    Without a son is like having no pillars.

    In fact, what you do is not very effective.

    Just do your best. People are gone.

    Girl: Be strong...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Solution, is he currently facing the same problem as you, and still need to keep in touch with his parents?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend said that a loved one in the family had passed away and that he would be in touch with you in a few days. But so far, three days have passed, and your boyfriend hasn't contacted you yet, what should you do?

    In this case, I thought you should take the initiative to contact your boyfriend and find a way to deal with it later according to the specific situation!

    If you do get in touch with him, sympathize with his family's misfortune and advise him to be relentless. If he still doesn't pay attention to you, it means that your boyfriend has changed his mind!

    At this time, you have to think about yourself! Don't delay your life!! Circumstance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can ask him, contact him, he should be busy at home now, sixth, you should simply ask him how he is now, and also tell him to pay more attention to his body.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this case, you should take the initiative to contact him. After all, in the past three days, the big things should have been almost done. At this time, he has not contacted you, and it is estimated that there are still some trivial things that have not been dealt with well.

    You should take the initiative to contact him, take care of his current situation, and see if there is anyone who can help.

    I feel that a loved one has passed away, and he must be in a bad mood, and you should give him a little more comfort. Let him know that even when you are not with him, you still care and support him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the other party's family has already recognized you, you go, if you don't know or acquiesce to your existence, then there is no need to show up.

    Your relationship with your boyfriend has developed to the point where both parents approve of it. Of course you have to go when this boyfriend's father dies, and you are obliged. You have to put yourself in the position of a daughter-in-law, care for your boyfriend's mother, and his family, and comfort your boyfriend's grief.

    If possible, you should also ask your parents to attend his funeral as well. In this way, there will be a better relationship between the two relatives. As the saying goes, there is an opportunity in a crisis, and this is a time for you to respect and understand and establish family affection.

    In 2012, when the father of a colleague with whom we had a very good relationship passed away suddenly, we learned the news at 9 o'clock in the evening, and another colleague and I did not hesitate to ride a motorcycle that night and took my wife there. Eighty kilometers, we will be there in about two hours. The next day, the colleague's girlfriend also arrived early in the morning, as a prospective daughter-in-law, with a black veil wrapped around her arm, and her father also came.

    It can be seen that educated families know what to do at such times!

    I think at this time, in addition to accompanying my boyfriend to the funeral if possible, it is more important to comfort my boyfriend, he must be really sad now. I think so, when a boy is uncomfortable, he must think "the boy doesn't flick when he has tears", and he will try not to worry you. But at the same time, as a partner, I must prove it with my actions

    In your toughest moments, I'm here. As for the self-esteem damage that might be considered, I think that if the partner is close enough, then it is natural to trust the other person not to hurt themselves. In ordinary life, you should also make him believe that in the face of great rights and wrongs, you will not slander him or abandon him, and that you are interdependent and mutually understanding.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The boyfriend's relatives have passed away, so as a woman, if the relationship between the two has been made public, it is time to go. If it's just the initial state of the relationship, then ask your boyfriend for advice and see what he has to say.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think your boyfriend's loved one passed away, and as a girlfriend, you should not go to the funeral. After all, not only are you and your boyfriend not married, but they are just girlfriends, which is a bit unjust.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If the boy and the girl have established a relationship, then if the man's immediate family member has died, the girl should participate, and if the relationship between the two people has not been established, and the deceased is not an immediate family member, it is not necessary to participate.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course you have to go, after all, it is the relatives in your boyfriend's house who are also more important people to you, so you should go over.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on what kind of relatives it is, if it's just a relative who is not too close, you don't need to go at all, and now the woman is just talking to the man about friends, not really married! There is no need to intervene in the other person's family before getting married, or even before meeting the parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on how you and your boyfriend are progressing, if you have a glimpse of the eight characters, then going is also to get acquainted with the feelings between relatives. If your boyfriend wants you to pass, you can ask him what you need to do after you pass.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend's aunt passed away. His mom told me to go to the funeral. We are not engaged yet.

    The custom in our family is that a woman cannot attend a funeral without entering the door. My boyfriend also said I didn't need to go, but his mom insisted I would. Should I go?

    What if I don't go? If you refuse to participate, you can say what your relative's birthday is.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you refuse to participate, you just say what kind of relative's birthday you have.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My boyfriend's family died, consolation message:

    1. The one who went has gone, but he must not want us living people to live in misery. He must have hoped that we, after expressing a moderate amount of sorrow, should still live well. He will bless us in another world.

    2. Your loved one has passed away, don't be too sad and sad, in heaven, he won't like you to be so depressed, cheer up, work hard, for your relatives.

    3. Your relatives are just in places you can't see, but they can see you, they don't want to make you have a bad time because of them, let them know that you are not a strong person, and they will not let them down.

    4. Loved ones will always be by your side. It's just that you can't see him anymore. It is normal for everyone to experience the pain of losing a loved one, so we can only pray silently in our hearts for the deceased, hoping that they will live well in another paradise!

    God is fair to everyone, and when you lose something, you gain something valuable.

    5. There are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, who would want to think of these things? How can it not be sad to lose the person we used to live happily with every day, but what else can we do? I think he would be sad if he saw you in heaven not eating.

    6. People can't be resurrected after death, I know you're sad and sad, but life still has to be the same, real life won't stop because you lose someone, cry if you want to cry, my shoulder lends you to lean, after crying, please be strong, live a good life, don't let him go uneasy.

    7. There are many joys and sorrows in life, indifferent when disappointed, calm when proud, and everything calm. Let's treat life with a fair heart, and I wish you a good mood! Forget about the unhappy things!

    Even God thinks that sadness and troubles do not belong to you. Try to get yourself out of it and you'll feel the sun warmer today than it was yesterday! Today's sky is bluer than yesterday!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, is your relationship recognized, if it is, then you can go to your boyfriend's house to see what you can do to help him, if the relationship is not recognized, then, you don't do anything else except comfort your boyfriend.

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