Should I take the initiative to break up with him?

There are two possibilities for this situation: first, after the love is counted in a certain stage, the novelty between each other is gone, and it will appear relatively dull, not as heartbeat as at the beginning, which is an inevitable process that every relationship has to go through, and the situation of this process varies from person to person. If so, it's silly to break up hastily.

The second is that he is forcing you to leave, if you still love him, you have to find out why he is cold to you through observation and communication, if you feel too painful, then you can only break up, don't embarrass yourself too much.

There is another sentence I want to say to you: If you are still young now, you might as well change a few more boyfriends, and decide whether you live together or not. This will help you know what kind of man you are happy with when you get married.

This is a real experience. It's better to break up before marriage than to regret it after marriage, you say?

If the truth is really like what you said, dear, love is selfish, no matter what, choose the way you feel is acceptable, and the important thing is not to hurt yourself.

And now. First of all, if you don't explain anything, you can talk to him and see what happened to the two of them, and you can talk to him and figure it out, and ask him what's going on lately, if there's something on his mind, maybe he's bothered by something else, and he ignores you for a while, giving you a kind of illusion.

Secondly, if it is really a bad result in the end, as you said, you still love him unilaterally, and he has no feelings for you, dear, don't get entangled, get together and disperse, don't leave any knots in your heart, otherwise, it will only hurt yourself.

In any case, don't be confused, make judgments and decisions in a hurry, and communicate with your boyfriend more.

I hope what I said to you is useful and you can solve the relationship with your boyfriend as soon as possible.

Take the initiative to divide, since you feel that he doesn't love you anymore, why look forward to it? Say you broke up, at least you have a dashing one... It's useless to have only one hot head in love, so let's stride forward.

I think you should sit down with him and talk to him about the problem between you, and see if there is any misunderstanding, if he doesn't know how you value him so much, or if he is really a little upset? So you should confess to him, if it is really what you imagined, I advise you to separate from him as soon as possible, youth will not wait for anyone, and after that, there will be no more!

I think I should find a chance to talk to him.

No one can guess why he's cold to you. Maybe it's because of the stress at work? Or what other pressure? Wait a minute.

Communicate with each other more! The main thing is that you lack communication and don't know what the other person is thinking.

Don't say it, let him say it, but you have to be prepared so that you don't react when you say it.

Don't mess with your own position first, instead of guessing the mystery here, it's better to find a time to talk to him, and then it's not too late to make a decision, feelings can't always be hot, there are always cold times, a person's mood changes from time to time, not to mention two people get along, be patient.

Try him first, and when you're sure he doesn't love you anymore, it's not too late to talk about breaking up. Or propose to break up and see how he reacts! And then make a decision!

Communication、、Many couples still do not communicate well、

Maybe he's got something to do lately?

Or maybe he's been in a bad mood lately?

If you don't love it, then you plan to take another step

Don't make impulsive decisions.

If you had kicked him in the foot.

Although you still like him.

He is cold to you, and you are cold to him.

Personally, I think that if your partner always says that you want to break up, then I personally think that it is very likely that there is a big problem in the relationship between the two of you, and your partner can't bear to continue to get along with you, but in this case, he doesn't want to take the initiative to take the responsibility for breaking up, so he always says things like this to you, and wants to hint at you in this way and let you take the initiative to break up.

Of course, in this case, in addition to the fact that one of the parties does not want to take the responsibility of breaking up, there are many times when there is a problem in the relationship between two people, one of them is always unable to let himself be ruthless and completely break up with the other party. After all, many times, especially for some girls, when they want to give up a relationship, often their hearts are more contradictory, because from their hearts, for such feelings, these girls often still have a certain nostalgia in their hearts, but between the ideal emotion and reality, many girls finally tend to choose reality in their hearts, but they still can't say such words, so such girls will always find out the fault of their object, Especially when your boyfriend is not very good-tempered, such a girl likes to go online, and says that her boyfriend doesn't love herself anymore, her boyfriend wants to break up, and wants to let the boy take the initiative to propose it in this way, so that you can no longer have contradictions in your heart, and no longer have too many concerns, in fact, for feelings, I personally think that this is not necessary, many times since you already want to break up, then you should be honest with the other party, and don't force the other party to make a choice, This is undoubtedly another mouthful of salt on the wound on the other party's body.

If the subject always wants to break up with you, it means that he doesn't like you in his heart anymore, although he hasn't broken up with you yet, but he should take the initiative to break up with you one day, but he should also want you to take the initiative to break up with him, because then he didn't say to break up. In this way, he also fell into a good name.

From a psychological point of view, always putting something on the edge means that this should be something she thinks about often. But when it comes to the specific question you mentioned, I personally think that it is not that you should take the initiative to break up, but that I am worried that you will propose to break up, so I always say that you want to break up in front of you.

Maybe it's because you can't accept some aspects of you, but you don't want to leave, and I want you to reflect on yourself and make changes. Or maybe something else happened.

It shows that he has empathized and said goodbye, and he is embarrassed to mention breaking up, and he is forcing you to break up!

Is there a possibility that she just lacks a sense of security in order to get your attention?

It's probably an angry thing to say to you.

It's not, just trying to scare you.

Summary. If you want the other party to take the initiative to break up, you must do the following:

1.Do things that the other person is extremely disappointed in, do something that makes the other person particularly disappointed, so that the other party has the opportunity to lose confidence and love for you, and then the other party will get tired of you, so that the other party will propose to break up.

2.Pretend to betray each other and disappoint the other party to the extreme, and then take the initiative to break up and no longer continue this love!

3.Make the other person think that being with you is a waste of time and a waste of youth. Do something negative to make the other person feel that you have changed and are no longer the person you love so that the other person will offer to break up

What's wrong with letting the other party take the initiative to break up?

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If you want the other party to take the initiative to break up, you must do the following: 1Do things that the other person is extremely disappointed in, do something that makes the other person particularly disappointed, so that the other party has the opportunity to lose confidence and love for you, and then the other party will get tired of you, so that the other party will propose to break up.

2.Pretend to betray each other and disappoint the other party to the extreme, and then take the initiative to break up and no longer continue this love! 3.

Make the other person think that being with you is a waste of time and a waste of youth. Do something negative to make the other person feel that you have changed and are no longer the person you love so that the other person will offer to break up

We are dating online, we are both students, I am a girl, she is also a girl, what should I do?

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First of all, this love is distorted, and it is necessary to correctly recognize the correct sexual orientation This is a correct love, and it is necessary to let the other party understand that you are gradually moving towards the right orientation

I'm gay [Ask a custom message].

Honey, you can go to more man-filled occasions and slowly build up your sexual orientation and don't continue this incorrect love

We are dating online. Both of us are students.

My dear may be a little uncomfortable at first, but let yourself get used to this orientation, and on our side, your love is not accepted and recognized

Yes. 1. Entered your own "cave".

In the book "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", it is mentioned that men become more and more focused and isolated in the face of stress, and they are confused by not saying anything when they are sad, and they just want to go to their "private cave" in silence to think about their problems and find solutions. But as soon as he found that the problem was solved, the pressure was relieved, and he was willing to get out of the cave and return to the relationship between the sexes.

So in this case, you just have to ask: do you have a problem, dear, do you want me to accompany you or give you space? If you want to calm down, then I'll contact me until you've taken care of it. Then you can go about your own thing.

2. Give each other space

A sense of boundaries is also needed in relationships. When two people are together, you can be nong and me, but the relationship is not only ups and downs, but also reality and ideals. Compared with girls, boys take on more responsibilities and pressures, and when one party has the need for self-realization, the other party should give a certain amount of support, encouragement and space.

3. Love is restraint and forbearance

There are often girls who break up because of mention, and the boy regrets it after agreeing to break up: I'll just talk about it, I'm not serious, why did he agree? Why hasn't he come to me yet?

Why didn't he come to me if he loved me? Does he not love me and wants to break up for a long time?

I want to say to this part of the girl, the guy will not distinguish whether you are having a temper or really want to break up when you say that you are breaking up, and the moment you say the breakup, he will feel that you want to leave, and you should respect your opinion, after all, he has always listened to you and spoiled you in the relationship.

In this case, boys can endure heartache to fulfill you, they can endure loneliness, just so that you can be happy. After all, a connection only makes sense if both parties want to connect. So you're still struggling with why the boy didn't come to you after you took the initiative to mention the breakup?

4. I want to break up

Sometimes the boy will not take the initiative to break up, he will indirectly tell the girl that he wants to break up by not contacting and not taking the initiative, and he thinks that this way of breaking up will hurt the girl the least, so he does not contact.

5. a spare tire

If you meet the kind of guy who chases you very tightly at first, and then suddenly doesn't contact you, or only contacts you occasionally. So congratulations, you have become his spare tire, and he must be flirting with several girls at the same time.

It is normal for couples to have such problems, why should you be cautious, it is precisely because you have a close relationship and intimacy, and most of your thoughts are focused on your beloved, so the other party's words and actions may make you angry, which is difficult to avoid; Take myself as an example, I'm like this, I wasn't happy when my friend made me angry, but then I thought that I loved her so much, I felt sorry for her, and I apologized after I figured it out, which is nothing to be embarrassed about, after all, the person I love deeply is not afraid of not being able to lose face, and will explain why I am angry and so on, all of which shows that your boyfriend loves you and cares about you, otherwise why would he apologize, right, what does it matter to him when you are angry, so, mushroom cool, Your situation is the only way for the run-in period of love, as long as you can communicate after a quarrel, you can apologize, you can care about each other, it shows that you can't do without each other, and finally, I wish you happiness, real experience.

I think boys are more rational about their feelings than girls, and if they decide to break up with Yinhu, it means that they have made up their minds from the bottom of their hearts that they will not regret it, so it is rare to go back on their word.

The boy proposes to break up because he doesn't love you, so he won't take the initiative to contact you, which means cutting off contact with you.

has already chosen to give up, how can the other party still take the initiative to find a topic that was once very lost?