My boyfriend only loves his ex girlfriend in his heart, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Anthracene....It's a very troublesome thing...

    It's not that he doesn't love you, it's that he never wants to face reality.

    Because he is cowardly, timid, afraid of losing you, afraid that he will become a "lonely man" like this, he also knows the problems you are aware of, but he just pretends not to know, he contacted his ex-girlfriend because he was unwilling, and also, for fear that you would leave, and he would have a backup.

    He's a face-loving person, he loves you very much, but there's no way to face the reality, encourage him more, don't always make him feel like you're going to leave him.

    Men are actually children, and they will be afraid, but they are men, and even if they can't be really strong, then at least they will be strong...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If there is always a place in a man's heart that you can't cross. Then give up. I'm also a woman, and my point of view is that I'd rather the one I love have another woman in his arms and think of me, and I don't want the one I love to have me in his arms and think of other women.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The best way is to break up quickly, because he doesn't have you in his heart at all, and now he only has his ex-girlfriend, and it can be seen from their chat that he doesn't take you seriously at all, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't be so persistent, the long pain is better than the short pain, even if it is good now, it can be guaranteed that he will not do things like stealing chickens and dogs? If it drags on like this, if it's serious, you may have to visit a psychiatrist. So.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    According to my judgment

    This man doesn't really love you, maybe it's just for the blank space after his ex-girlfriend leaves, otherwise he wouldn't be so indifferent to your feelings.

    If it were me, I would have broken it off with him.

    If you should break it, you should break it.

    Long pain is better than short pain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you can get it quickly, and the long pain is better than the short pain. Do you want to live with a man who has no responsibilities for the rest of your life?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, it is blissful to fall in love with someone, and the memories will be beautiful and eternal.

    Love, but it is not a one-sided thing, blindly giving, so what?

    Loving someone deeply cannot be a forgetting, but only a replacement.

    Don't hurt others, and don't let yourself be wronged.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't say a word. For your own sake, such a man is unacceptable!! Girl. Listen to my advice.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He said he didn't want you to leave because his ex-girlfriend couldn't come back to him, what if she did? Did he leave immediately?

    You're so stupid, you're beautiful, and you can see that you value feelings and you're a good girl, so you're willing to be a lifebuoy forever?!

    For him, do you know how much that hurts a woman? He doesn't feel sorry for you, so he knows that satisfying his little desire, is this called love?

    Love is mutual, and we need to cherish each other, but I don't see how he cherishes you. I think you deserve someone better and more dedicated to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Girl, do you think it's interesting to be with such a man?

    What is the concept of a lifetime?

    Are you going to be a puppet forever? Do you live for your master, and control your emotions for your master's joy and sorrow?

    Isn't it enough to have fallen for him once? Do you want to continue?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Men who make women ** are not worthy of love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Break it early! Since he doesn't like you and is still with you, what else does such an insincere person want him to do?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like you, tormented by feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You only need to understand one thing: your mind for her will only have a negative impact on your current relationship.

    1. The relationships that can be separated are all because of not loving enough.

    Although it is too absolute, in love, this sentence can explain the vast majority of separated relationships. What parental obstacles, incompatible personalities, and long-term long-distance distance seem to be objective factors for breaking up - but according to their essence, it is because the love of two people cannot go beyond the objective obstacles in front of them that they will choose to give up.

    When you figure this out, you also figure out one thing: since your boyfriend can break up with your ex, it means that their relationship is not as perfect as you imagined, and even fragile. And you are the one he has chosen at the moment.

    It was the person he chose more perfectly after giving up once.

    2. Self-attribution.

    The reason why you mind your ex is not because your ex is really good and worthy of being loved - but because you are too inferior. When you understand this, a lot of things will be solved.

    Whenever you can't get out of the shadow of your ex again, you might as well tell yourself: "This is my reason, it's me who doesn't accept myself enough, it's me who is deliberately masochistic, as long as I trust myself enough, my ex can't bother me". If you see the situation clearly and understand that you can't get over this hurdle, you will be able to free yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your boyfriend loves his ex-girlfriend a lot. It shows that your boyfriend is a dearest and beloved person, such a person is worth cherishing, don't worry about it anymore. Who has no past, if you have been thinking about the past, then how to face the future life, people must learn to let go, let go of the may be in the mood suddenly brightened.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since the two of them have broken up, it means that the relationship between them is not so necessary for each other!

    So, you don't have to worry too much about it, as long as your boyfriend is wholeheartedly good to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As a girlfriend, don't mention your ex in front of your boyfriend.

    For some men, his ex is his taboo, and no one is allowed to disturb that past relationship. If you keep mentioning your ex in front of your boyfriend and saying bad things about his ex, your boyfriend will not only not forget his ex, but will get tired of you. So, don't mention his ex in front of your boyfriend.

    Don't be angry when your boyfriend likes to compare you to his ex.

    Some men have such low emotional intelligence, and when they have a new girlfriend, they don't cherish it, but always compare their current with their predecessors. At this time, as his girlfriend, you don't want to be angry, if you are angry, you will lose. You should be generous, let him go more than he loves, you can better understand what kind of girl your boyfriend needs, and what kind of love you need.

    Next, you take your time and you're good to go.

    When your boyfriend is still in contact with his ex, you have to wait and see what happens, rather than making a big fuss.

    Many current girlfriends, when their boyfriends are still in contact with their ex, will make a big fuss, which is actually a very stupid practice. You should not be noisy or noisy, wait and see what they are connected for, some connections can be understood, such as his ex's life is in danger, etc., such a connection is really not necessary to quarrel. At this time, if you are generous, your boyfriend will love you more and more.

    Leave everything to time, time will make him forget about his ex, you just have to be yourself.

    After all, once in love, you can't forget someone for a while. If your boyfriend can't forget his ex, then leave everything to time, time will make him forget his ex, you just love him well and be yourself.

    Work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better, so that your boyfriend will love you to death.

    When your boyfriend can't forget his ex, his ex must have something he can't forget, such as being excellent in all aspects. At this time, it's right for you to work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better, so that your boyfriend will love you to death.

    Love your boyfriend the way he likes, not the way you love him.

    To love someone, you should love them the way they like, not the way you think. This kind of love is often easy to tie the other person's heart. When your boyfriend's heart is tied to you, he will slowly forget about his ex and love you until he is old.

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