My ex girlfriend says I have a baby, what should I do?

Your ex-girlfriend just wants to save your relationship, depending on what you think, whether you want to get back together or not. <>

If you get back together, is it because you still have feelings between you or because you have children. If there is a relationship, there is no need to say anything, but if it is because of the child, then there is no need for this, and you can't tie a relationship because of a child. Although it is said that the child has a personality, this is a life that needs to be respected, but at this time, it is a problem to talk about feelings, and what kind of mess does this child have.

If you have feelings, you are happy to get married and have children, and if you have no feelings, you will make it clear and go and beat the child, if the other party really wants to give birth, then you will have to take child support.

In fact, you should know the truth of this matter best. It could also be that your ex-girlfriend just wants you to get back together with her. How determined is a woman to use such a thing to redeem you, if you can still treat her sincerely, be together, take good care of her, and give this child an explanation.

If I were this girl and I had no feelings, even if I had a child, I wouldn't tell you about it, secretly go for surgery, and then start a new life. To tell you is to want you to take responsibility for yourself and want to be with you. At this time, you should give your ex-girlfriend an explanation.

If you don't love it, make it clear, solve it clearly, and don't make yourself uncomfortable.

But as a boy, you are no longer together, and you have to do something for this girl to make up for the pain it has caused her, you have to be responsible for this matter, don't let yourself feel guilty, don't let your ex-girlfriend chill. A boy is responsible for whatever choice he makes.

Take the money and take her for an examination, and then ****, take care of her carefully for half a month, and then return to the bridge and return to the road.

The above advice is given for the following reasons, although it is said to be an ex-girlfriend, but since it is said that it is said to have your children, the credibility is still very high, and as a man, you should take your responsibility.

As for why you are not responsible for using marriage, but let you take her to do it. That's because she is your ex-girlfriend, which shows that there are problems in your relationship and you don't plan to get married.

At this time, marriage is really irresponsible, and because the marriage of children is destined to be troublesome. For the happiness of the second half of your life, and in order to keep this little life from going through too many tribulations, it is the right choice to take her to do **.

Even if she becomes an ex-girlfriend, she is also the person you loved, and there was a time when she traveled with you. **It hurts a lot of physical and mental harm to girls, so you should treat this matter gently and responsibly.

Patiently accompany her for examinations, and actively supplement her nutrition after the operation, so as not to leave any sequelae, and leave you regrets if you hurt her.

Don't be hasty just because the other party is an ex-girlfriend, and don't care about the other party's life or death after the operation, or you should take care of the other party to the greatest extent. Even if you don't have a relationship, you still have to have the morals and integrity of being a human being, especially as a man.

If you have done something yourself, you will naturally have to do a work to deal with the aftermath. At the same time, it also reminds you that no matter who you are with in the future, you must cherish each other, be responsible for each other, and don't have similar problems again. Otherwise, the other party will be guilty, and you will also be entangled in self-blame and have an uneasy conscience.

It reminds me of a joke that happened to my friend before, and he was in the same situation, and his ex-girlfriend told him he was pregnant. And also told him congratulations, my friend is also funny, and replied with a sentence of joy and joy.

Of course, those are just jokes, and since things have happened, they still have to be solved seriously. We were all worried about him, after all, a boy was still studying. What if your ex-girlfriend says she's going to give birth?

He also said that his monthly living expenses are only 1,005 yuan, so should he give his ex-girlfriend 500 yuan or 1,000 yuan? His mind is quite open. <>

Since everyone says that she is pregnant, she must be responsible for others. Who let this be their own roots? But I think a lot of people must have to think about a question, since they have broken up with their ex-girlfriend.

Think about how long ago you did that. If you've been separated for more than half a year, and now I'm telling you that you're pregnant. This kind of thing should feel suspicious, in case it is pregnant with someone else's seed, then isn't it in vain?

Although these things can't be asked to her openly, they must be very clear in their hearts. If it were you, you must have done that not so long ago. Extrapolating it from the time she was pregnant, you know it all.

If you ask him directly if it's yours, then I think it's hurtful. After all, they're girls, so what if it's really yours?

As for what to do with this child, it depends on what you both think. I don't think the average young person wants this child, first, there is no emotion in it, and second, you are still too young. I don't think it's appropriate to have a child at this time, and it would be irresponsible for her to let this child be born.

I think it depends on why you broke up at the time?

It's even ridiculous to say that you broke up because of some misunderstanding or because of a small conflict. I think you can have a good chat. After all, if it's not a matter of principle.

And now that there are children again, the crystallization of love has come out, what are you still pretending to be, right?

I think love is originally two people who are completely incompatible and don't understand. Run in with each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and then become the most suitable person for each other. So you can have a good chat with your ex-girlfriend or say that he has some shortcomings that you can't bear, and you can bear with it in the face of the child.

You're just going to be a man.

Of course, if you broke up because of some essential problems, or you can't understand it anymore, and you can't run in with each other, I think you can make an appointment to meet, talk about it, and then go and beat the child, or whatever, you may think this looks cruel, but to put it bluntly, in this era where going to bed may not have results, how can you do it because you are pregnant? And to put it more bluntly now, hitting a child is not so disgraceful, right?

If your ex-girlfriend's character is inherently problematic, hooking up with three or four, what hooks up with other men before breaking up with you. To put it bluntly, I don't know who this kid is. Then I don't think there's any need to hesitate about anything, let alone want to be reconciled or something.

If your financial situation is not bad, you can transfer some money to him. Just have peace of mind.

When I think of this question, I have to think about it a lot, and I have to ask more, is it really your child? Can you be sure it's yours, she hasn't slept with another man?

Seeing that many of you see me asking like this, they think I'm too much, no way that many girls are like this now, obviously not the children of their ex-boyfriends, but they want to rely on others, saying that this is his child, and they have seen too much, so they are more vigilant.

I'm also a person who doesn't believe in people very much, if she was the kind of woman who was irresponsible in the process of dating you before, then most of the children are not yours, she said that she was made big by others, and others didn't admit it before she came to you.

In this case, there are only two possibilities, the first is to ask you for money**, and the second is to ask you to be responsible, marry her or whatever. I think this is to make you the wronged leader, too wronged, so when you encounter this situation, you must see it clearly, and don't faint your brain, otherwise you will be the one who will suffer in the future.

There is also the fact that when this girl is dating you, she has always been a good girl, so this child may really be yours. Then you have to take on the responsibility of a man. <>

Be responsible for this girl, be responsible for the child in her womb, that's your duty. If two people can still live, they can get married first or give birth to a child before getting married; If the two of them really can't live, let's discuss beating the child.

If neither parents can be together, then the child's education is certainly incomplete. Since you can't give your child a complete family, don't let him come into this world, this is the best choice.

But I said so much on the basis that this man is a good man, so don't talk about scumbags. Anyway, it's useless to say it, I definitely don't want to be responsible for others, maybe I don't even want to give people the money.

Take your responsibilities well, what's yours is yours, don't be reckless.

First of all, it is necessary to determine whether the child is himself or not, and calculate some dates by himself.

If it's yours, you have to take responsibility, maybe you already have a new girlfriend, but you can discuss with your ex what to do with the child, if the ex-girlfriend wants to give birth to the child, you have to think clearly, that child will be your child in the future, and you will be responsible for the child in the future, after all, you are the biological father of the child, and you have to take on a lot of responsibilities.

You will have a long-term relationship with your ex because of the child, and you can't ignore the child as a father, right? Your current girlfriend shouldn't tolerate you too much.

If you don't have a girlfriend right now and you still love your ex, and it just so happens that your ex has your child, you can take responsibility for your ex, marry your ex and have the baby.

After all, children are also a life, you can't feel that now is not the time to have children, you are still young and need more time to struggle, instead of starting a family and living a life, then you are really too scumbag and too selfish.

If you want to get back together and your ex says that he will not be with you, and insists on beating the child out, no matter how you beg her, it is useless, the ex makes the ** money you pay, the child is caused by you accidentally, it is your ex who suffers, not only pay, but also take care of her for a period of time, and when her body recovers almost before leaving, this is the last thing you can do for your ex.

If the child is not yours, the ex is just looking for a random man to carry the black pot, it is recommended that you must be sure clearly, otherwise you are really not wronged at all in this black pot, not only to be the wronged leader, but also to pay for other men, you may be the stupidest man in the world.

You deserve it, you break up when you're pregnant, you can't sleep anyway, she lets you sleep, she is also willing, and she doesn't refuse you, so much to do.

Your ex-girlfriend is pregnant with your child, but you have broken up, looking back, if your ex-girlfriend is already pregnant with your child, and now you recall, you also have feelings for your whole girlfriend, and you also like your ex-girlfriend, and your ex-girlfriend also likes you, so you should sit together, okay, and discuss again, and see if there is a possibility of going back? If you can do it all over again, that's the best, if you can't do it all over again, then you should sit down together and discuss, what should this child do? If you stay and don't want to fight, you have to give your girlfriend a certain amount of compensation, and you can discuss how much this compensation is.

If both of you are single, you can try to see if you can keep the relationship and be together. If one or two of them have an object for each other, then do not disturb each other, and the child will be compensated for the beating, although it is an innocent little life that is injured, if the two people have no feelings, because the child is barely together, it can only be the pain of many people.

If you get pregnant after a breakup, another option is to give up the baby. That is, medical abortion can be an option in the first trimester, ultrasound examination of the uterine appendages can be checked, and medical abortion can be performed when it is clear that there is a gestational sac implanted in the uterus. Relatively speaking, *** will be smaller, and there is no need to be nervous.

Medication Abortion Process:

Medical abortion should be performed under the guidance of a doctor, and the process is as follows: 2 tablets of mifepristone at 8 a.m. and 1 tablet at 8 p.m. on the first day. The next day, take 1 tablet at 8 a.m. and 1 tablet at 8 p.m.

On the third day, I finished taking the last 1 pill at 7 a.m., and went to the hospital at 8 a.m. to take 3 misoprostol tablets.

After taking 3 tablets, you should be observed in the hospital until the doctor thinks you can go home. If the villi are not discharged, re-examine after 3 days; If it has been scheduled, it will be rechecked in 7-10 days.

Summary. Sorry to keep you waiting. The first thing I want to tell you is that this child is related to you.

Sorry to keep you waiting. The first thing I want to tell you is that this child is related to you.

You will be responsible for the maintenance of your child.

But now that you've broken up with her, you can sit down and have a good chat and see what she means.

Since she gave birth to the child alone, she may have two purposes: 1She is still in love and wants to establish a more stable and long-term marriage relationship with you through this child.

2.She really wants a child, but she doesn't mean to renew her relationship with you. In this case, she may not intend for you to pay alimony.

So I suggest you have a good chat with her to see what her ultimate goal is, so that you can solve the problem in a targeted manner.