The family said that they were very na ve, how to make changes?

Do your own things, start with independence, and no longer be attached to your family. When doing things, you should be calm and calm, control your emotions, don't agree to other people's requests casually, listen more to others, and talk less yourself, so that you will change your personality.

Be an independent self, no longer dependent on your family, whether a person is mature is manifested in all aspects, and has his own independent thoughts and independent decisions when he speaks and does things. The family said that they were very naïve, because the family was the person who knew themselves best, so there must be these shortcomings in themselves, so first let yourself learn to be independent, and no longer rely on your family for anything, and if you are too dependent, you will never be able to mature. I have a friend who is doing very well, since graduating from college, he started looking for a job outside and moved out of home, he told his parents that he wants to exercise, just take care of himself, dress and eat, daily care, all on his own.

It was very difficult at first, but then I slowly trained myself, became more and more independent, and became more and more assertive. How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain, and how can you mature if you don't exercise yourself?

Be calm and calm, control your emotions and have more contact with excellent people every day, learn their strengths, but people of different ages can come into contact, and they will teach you the attitude of life. If you want to learn, you have to successfully control your emotions, if you are calm, if you are calm, if you are calm, everything will be fine. Don't become a slave to your emotions, you must successfully dominate your emotions, the more calm and calm you are, the more you can control your emotions, the more you can grasp the rhythm of things.

Maturity is just a process of slow accumulation, and if you want to get this result, you will definitely be able to achieve it by learning slowly. To see whether a person is mature or not, it depends on whether he can successfully control his emotions. A person is very good, in fact, it is because he can control his emotions, do what he does, and is not impatient, such a person is a successful person.

Don't be afraid of being told by your family, only the closest people dare to put forward their opinions and make up for their own shortcomings, and they will catch up with those excellent people. Childishness is only temporary, I believe that you will definitely get better and better, more and more mature.

When you succeed in something, your family will change their views and feel that you are no longer the naïve you when you grow up, which requires you to make achievements to show everyone.

First of all, you have to recognize what your childishness is, truly recognize your childishness from the heart, and know the difference between childishness and maturity, so that you can correct it.

When you encounter this situation, you must prove it with your own practical actions, you can let yourself do something, and by doing this, you can become more mature.

When I stepped into the society and experienced some difficulties, I slowly became more mature, and I made changes in some things in my life.

The family said that they were very naïve, mainly because some of their ways of doing things were relatively naïve, so they had to change their way of doing things.

You must become more mature and steady, and you must think more about the possible consequences when you speak and do things, so that the change is the best.

Do more of the right things, be so mature and steady, so that you will not be considered naïve by your family.

If you want to become more mature and stable, you must first associate with some mature and stable friends, so that you can become more mature.

I think you can go out and go out for a while, let yourself go through more hardships and hardships, and make your mind more mature.

This is related to personality, is the psychological quality is not good enough, need a long time of cultivation and sharpening, for yourself to develop a day of rules or punishment methods, every time you impulsively do something, knock yourself on the head, or write it down in a small notebook, always warn yourself, over time may have a good effect.

I forgot the name of a book I read before, but I only remember a few sentences in it, which is probably the truth:

Find a plank and a nail, and put the nail on impulse;

Don't be too troublesome, be serious, venting will inevitably pay the cost;

Happy day, one less nail in the plank;

This matter is assessed every Monday, and if it exceeds the standard, you will have a treat;

This kind of game is done for a long time, and the impulsive character cannot be found.

First of all, we should know how to overcome our emotions, only by overcoming our emotions, it is possible to control our impulses, because impulses will be punished to a certain extent, so we must think twice before doing things.

There is such a junior high school teacher and principal, I didn't mess with him, he messed with me.

Consider the pros and cons before doing things, do it slowly, and don't do it in a righteous way

To control your mentality, you must learn to self-regulate, and the adjustment method of mentality:

1. Evaluate yourself appropriately.

2. Be good at discovering changes in your own emotions and behaviors, and then make positive psychological cues.

3. Learn to interact with others and create a good interpersonal relationship and family environment.

4. Develop good living habits.

5. When encountering difficulties in real life, you should be optimistic.

6. Participating in physical exercise can regulate people's nervous system, vent people's depressed emotions, and bring people a good mood.

First, the desire should not be too high. Desire is endless, the higher the desire, once it cannot be satisfied, the greater the contrast formed, and the easier it is to lose the balance of mentality;

Second, the idea of comparison should not be too heavy. If you blindly compare, you will be "more angry than people." "If we compare the treatment with the laid-off workers, the income with the peasant brothers, and the contributions with the advanced figures, the mentality can be balanced, and the resentment will naturally disappear.

The third is to learn to forget. What should be brought up, put down, think openly, and see through. Don't dwell on the past, let the past pass, so that there will be less troubles and a comfortable mood.

Mindset is a substance produced by stress; It is also a psychological manifestation; In fact, the amount of pressure and the quality of the mentality are all determined by themselves. If your mentality is not very good, you need to adjust it well.

1. Don't keep yourself thinking about these questions and divert your attention. Identify a few things that you think will be most valuable in your life and focus on doing them.

2. Make yourself less extreme and don't drill the horns. Wholeheartedly accept a fact that cannot be changed. It is impossible for one person to change the whole world, and things will not change because of you. All we can do is adapt to the world.

3. Life should be simple and interesting. Don't always be dissatisfied with your current life, and don't always compare yourself with others. Your life should have your wonderful.

The following psychological measures are effective ways to reduce stress, so you may want to give them a try. If you are troubled by something, don't dwell on it, but tell someone credible and trustworthy and level-headed about your distress in order to gain relief, support and correction.

2] Laughter: Healthy laughter is the best way to eliminate stress, and it is also a pleasant way to vent. "Smile, ten years less", sorrow and stress will naturally be reduced.

Reading is arguably the easiest, least expensive and easy way to relieve stress. Not only does it help relieve stress, but it also makes people more knowledgeable and fun. Re-evaluation:

If you do something wrong, you should re-evaluate yourself and not get into the nitty-gritty. Yelling: Shouting or crying out loud in a secluded place is also a way to relieve stress.

Crying allows sad emotions to be vented, thereby reducing stress in the body. Don't be critical: Don't expect too much from others, see the good in others, and don't be too critical of others' behavior.

Don't be overly critical of yourself, as long as you work hard, you'll be fine. Slow down: When the authorities can't control it, you might as well slow down, don't put idle things in your schedule, and learn to "chill out".

9] Make some concessions: Even if you are completely right, making some concessions will not lower your status. As the saying goes:

Take a step back and open the sky. Composure: Composure is one of the signs of a person's maturity.

Dealing with complex issues with composure and composure can help relieve tension. Solve them one by one: Nervousness and busyness can make people at a loss, so you can pick out one or two urgent things and deal with them one by one.

12] Quench anger: Don't get angry when you encounter something, learn to restrain yourself, and put out anger for a while. When the anger subsides, you may be more confident or rational in dealing with the problem, thinking more about "there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain".

13] Looking into the distance: When you encounter irritability, looking into the distance with your eyes wide open will relieve the pressure in your heart and calm you down.

Remember to adopt it.

To quote a famous quote from sales: sales pitch starts with rejection. The purpose of the sales pitch is to obtain monetary gain.

Interpersonal relationships often do not belong to this kind of interest, but the principle is the same, it is a psychological interest. Everyone is willing to listen to good things about others, and everyone is reluctant to say good things to others. Everyone is willing to get more and pay the least sacrifice.

This is a pair of contradictions, and if this pair of contradictions is resolved, people will feel very comfortable.

Therefore, in order to get the interests of others, you must first sacrifice your own interests, do not listen to others, and be tolerant and have a posture, so that you can be recognized by others. Back to doing business, in order to promote goods, merchants need to engage in **, using the method of giving everyone a free trial first, and then you can sell it to them after everyone recognizes, which naturally generates benefits. The principle is the same.

If you don't give in, if you don't know how to tolerate, there will be no gainers in the end.

Let's be specific, I think you should be generous and magnanimous; Don't be too sensitive to rumors and rumors, and know how to suffer; Be willing to help others, don't be reluctant to do your best; Always greet people with a smile. It is estimated that you will have a lot of friends, and you will definitely live comfortably.

Nowadays, the pace of work is accelerating, and I am facing a lot of pressure and troubles in life and work, and I feel physically and mentally exhausted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, often relax your mind, and relax tense nerves.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Ways to relieve stress: After returning home, shout loudly for 5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light ** for 15 minutes, after which you will feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved.

Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

I believe that I can reduce stress, cheer up, and feel comfortable, so that I can enhance friendship with a good attitude, work smoothly, and live happily!

Analyze where the problem is, find the root cause, and find the solution.

In this way, in the process of thinking, you will adjust your mindset.

A philosopher once said well, "Since reality cannot change itself."

A person can only adapt to society, not society to adapt to you, God is fair He is giving you some specialties, and on the other hand there will be something lacking, the real master is to be able to deal with all people, not artificially divided,

First, you don't have to care what they think, really, I think you're good and you're going to make a difference in the future.

Second, if you really want to change something, you can make changes in your image to give yourself some freshness and confidence.

Good luck.

Stay away from those people. They are not for you.

People live in high places, and they have dissolved into the bottom of society and cannot extricate themselves. (Saying that people are childish is a classic characteristic of this type of person).

You are a little childish, but you have not lost the strength to grow. Don't give up and endure loneliness. The time has come, true friends will appear, and now is not the time.

Of course it's time to stick to yourself, go your own way and let others say go, and one day you'll let everyone say you're great, not a child, hehe.

I'm really not a nerd. What officialdom in the past few years in the workplace. I also know a lot.

In addition, I also worked as a student council minister.

This sentence ruins your image...