The man you were going to marry at the beginning, how is he doing now?

In love, we have made many promises, but very few have been fulfilled, after the years of youth and frivolity, what is the person you loved now?

1. Happiness. Although the heart can not be completely free of mustard, but also have to admit that many people even after an unforgettable failed love, can make a comeback and get a happy and complete life, he may have experienced the previous period of frustration, found the problem, changed himself and the way of dealing with love, fell in love with others, avoided the mistakes made before, and lived in harmony and happiness with the new person.

Second, there is no way to regret it. Love is different for everyone. In love, some people protect themselves and can stop losses in time after failure, and some people are immersed in love, often devoting themselves to love, and end up full of bruises or obsessed with it.

Something that can't be asked for will eventually become an eternal thorn in the heart, and when I think about it, I feel pain and regret, and I have been standing in place and unwilling to move forward. <>

3. Forget each other. For a failed love, in addition to hatred and remembrance, some people are relatively wiser, that is, forget. As the saying goes, time can dilute everything, no matter how unforgettable the person is, the deep memory will dissipate with time, this is the ability of nature to give us ** scars, after a long time, many things become a vague microcosm, the more you want to see clearly, the more difficult it is to see, and in the end you can only compromise and let it go with the wind.

When the ending is tragic, the good and bad memories become bitter, so going with the flow and forgetting is often the most appropriate and comfortable way to do it.

No matter what the reason leads to the end of love, escape is not to say that you can avoid it, you may not be able to get it for a long time, and it is not impossible to regain it if you lose it, don't feel that forgetting is a denial, and having to ask for it is the most painful, there is not only right and wrong in the world, and there is not only one answer to many things.

The love in college is unforgettable, at that time, I really naively thought that we could last forever and be white-headed until I was old, but my sincerity was exchanged for his negative heart. When he was about to graduate from college, he fell in love with someone else, proposed to break up with me, and said that I was a good girl, and I would definitely find a better man than him in the future. However, it was unacceptable for me to say such things even though he knew that I was so deeply attached to him.

At that time, I was bent on saving him, even at the cost of hurting my own body, but he still didn't look back. Thinking about myself at that time now, I was so stupid, and it was not worth it to redeem a person who had changed his mind in such a way. However, at that time, I was so axial, and love made my IQ zero.

Although it was very painful at that time, in the end, I even offered to be good friends, and I was still thinking in my heart that after they broke up, it would be possible for me and him to continue their relationship.

After graduating from university, he failed the graduate school entrance examination and went to work in a city in the south, while she went to Beijing to study for graduate school, and finally they really broke up, he was the one who was broken up, and I felt that my opportunity came. However, we still couldn't be together, because he finally chose to go abroad to develop. When I love, it's true love, and when I don't love, I really don't love, no matter what sacrifice I make, it's useless.

He has been developing abroad, but he returned to China for a period of time in the middle, and I heard that he came back on a blind date and got married. Now his children are also in kindergarten, his wife and children are all in China, he works abroad alone, and he will come back to visit relatives for a month a year. And I already have my own family, and my life is life-free, plain and happy.

Now that I think about the past between us, it has become very indifferent to tell others what we have experienced before as a story. Although I have loved and hated, I hope that we can all be okay after all.

The man I wanted to marry at the beginning is now living a very happy life, with my own factory and a happy family, as well as a lovely baby, a hard-working person, and life will definitely be very good.

Now this man is very happy, because I didn't marry at the beginning, so this man married me. And reap our happiness.

Now he is actually not doing very well, because his ability is not particularly strong.

Hello, dear, since you have been dumped, why keep it, if you still like him, then the other party has lost a person who loves him, and it is the other party who loses, if you don't like the other party anymore, then why keep it.

If you keep that slow and fierce congratulations, you are already on the weak side in this relationship. People have a lowly mentality and a sense of vanity, and you will give him a signal that you can't do without him.

Then if what he does in the future is out of line, will you be angry or aggrieved? You are angry, and he throws you; You are wronged; There will be a day when you can't bear it. Even if the other party's conscience finds that you are moved, don't you have a thorn in your heart?

Summary: He left you is the other party lost a love for him where no one is lost, not your loss, it is his!

It's just that a man is very good to me, give me money, I will comfort me if I'm unhappy, everything will go along with me, I experience the happiness of a woman, I will decide to marry him, and I will definitely not regret it later.

The reasons that made me decide to marry a man were moving, responsible, tolerant, preference, caring, and detail-oriented; I won't regret it later, because I think this quality is very rare, and he pays attention to it, which makes me feel very secure.

Usually it's because the other party has a very good temper and a gentle personality. Very considerate, funny, and empathetic, I have no regrets.

Maybe because this man is very good to him, and the two of them get along very comfortably, and he likes him very much, and he won't regret it later.