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One chopstick is gently broken, and ten chopsticks are firmly held together". It is difficult to achieve the climate by relying on the strength of oneself, but if there are a few like-minded friends working together, success is not unattainable. As Sadie said:
The mosquitoes will charge together, and the elephants will be conquered. ”
The 21st century is an era of fierce competition for talents, just like the truth of "survival of the fittest, elimination of the unsuitable" in the "Theory of Advancing Generations". Therefore, if you want to have your own foothold, you must not only have a solid basic knowledge, extracurricular extension in place, as well as the ability to grasp opportunities, and keen observation, but also have a group of friends. Because only when you have friends, can you learn and make progress with them, and you can continue to improve your level of desensitization.
Friends can not only help each other, but also find each other's shortcomings and correct them in time, which is an indispensable condition for people who want to perfect themselves as much as possible in the 21st century.
As long as the friends are right, there are no disadvantages. As the saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black in the wild branches."
How do you measure the "quality" of your friends? Confucius once said: "Those who benefit have three friends, and those who lose have three friends."
Friendship, friendship, friendship, and benefit. Friendship is open, friendly and soft, friendly and committed, and it is a loss. It can be seen that the ancients believed that true friends should be honest, honest, or knowledgeable, and that it was harmful to make friends with hypocrites, flatterers, or sharp-tongued people.
Therefore, in daily life, you can observe that those who see your mistakes come to you and sincerely hope that you will correct them, those who dare to admit their mistakes, and those who are motivated and knowledgeable are the ones you make friends with. In the continuous communication between friends, you will receive subtle effects, and you will also become honest, upright, and have more and more knowledge, or get the opinions or suggestions of the other party in your study and life, and constantly improve yourself. At the same time, when you are in trouble, you will also have friends to help you bear it.
Don't always think that those who say hello are your friends, although friends do need praise and encouragement, but if the other party only praises you and turns a blind eye to your shortcomings, I don't think you have to make friends with him, and making friends with such people will only fuel your vanity, and if you don't do it, you will be proud, not only can you not move forward, but you have to retreat ......
Imagine if you not only have extraordinary talents, but also have many friends around you who share them with you when you are happy. In your sorrows, they bear them with you; They congratulate you when you are improving; They give you advice and advice when you do something wrong. In such an environment, everyone makes progress and grows together. Three stinkers can top one Zhuge Liang, not to mention that your friends may not only have three, maybe thirty, three hundred ......
With so many benefits of making friends, what are you waiting for, keep an eye on the people around you and see if you can make friends.
It's hard to find friends, and it's easy to walk ...... more friends”
It took me a long time to find it, I don't know if it's still time?
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