A lonely boat with no direction... There is no direction!!

I thought I was the only one who couldn't find the direction these years, but I didn't expect to see a lot of people when I came up. Hey, it's been a good day.

I think it's normal to not be able to find your way, because you don't have a goal. Don't think too far ahead, you're better off setting a short-term goal in life and then working towards it.

If you really can't find a good company, just do a random job first, don't get along with yourself. It's not a problem to stay like this. Come on, I'm sure you can get a good job! In addition, I actually think that Chinese medicine is more advanced than Western medicine. Your major is very promising. ^

I see that you are similar to me, you don't know what you want to do or what you can do, so let's find a job to do first, adjust your mentality, and it's not a way to keep messing around like this. If you want to do graphic design, you usually pay more attention to advertising agencies, and if you have the opportunity, you can go there, and if you don't have the opportunity, you can find relevant books or something to learn more. Good luck!

Don't retreat from difficulties, know that it is easy to achieve difficulties, this is not only for big goals, but also for practical purposes, which can help you get out of solving the current dilemma and go further. Many times you will find that the river is not as shallow as the old cow said, nor as deep as the squirrel said.

If you can't even find your own direction, how can others help you find a good direction! You have to set a short-term goal in life, and then achieve it little by little, no one else can help you! On your own!

Think about your future, think about your loved ones, and whether you should cheer them up. Or read some inspirational classic books, maybe you will be inspired. Life is good. It's the best thing to be alive. Being able to live meaningfully is the happiest thing.

If that's the case.

I suggest you run to a windy place.

Blow a cold breeze. Blow you awake.

When you're shivering from the cold.

Go back to the dormitory and close your eyes and think about it.

Addicted to the Internet, this is the easiest way, and there are many sequelae.

You have to have a goal, and with a goal you will have the motivation to struggle, and you will definitely ask where the goal is? I can't find the target. This is actually very simple, find something you like to do, if you find that you don't like to do, then do what is worth doing, if you find that there is nothing worth doing, then do what you can, if you can't do the above three things, then you can only do nothing and wait for the soil to be safe.

The first thing you have to do is to change your habits, and if you are interested in something, you should look for similar jobs that may stimulate your energy. It will be helpful for you to live in a dormitory after joining the work.

If you suffer more setbacks, you will have the strength to restrain yourself. You didn't get a good education in the early days, so you should be educated in society now. Slowly, it will grind and have the ability to bear.

Me too, I can't stand it when others say two words about me. But now it's better, what others say doesn't hurt or itch, but I care too much about other people's opinions.

Then you will live a boring life. You'll regret it when time passes. So you still set goals for yourself first. Once the direction is set, there is one.

Money is the driving force, and the heart is the direction.

Then I'll be the navigator of your direction. ，

Where does the pressure of the king come from, there are many hardships in life, you should be persistent in order to dream, you will be tired if you are too persistent, it is not a crime to take a proper holiday, the direction is in your heart, there is no need to be confused where to go, life is precious, forget you to cherish.

Books such as career guidance, find a career that suits you, be financially independent, and then find self-confidence, and then find faith. Let's realize it for ourselves in the future.

What is your own goal in mind? You have to firmly believe that although this road is not easy to walk, you will definitely reach the end, the key is that you must be clear about what you want in the future?

Destiny and direction are always in your hands, and no one can help you choose. The road is under your feet, whether you want to take it or not depends on whether you dare to take the first step. Perhaps, you are very confused now, but people have to survive in the end, why don't you try to find something that you are interested in first?

The boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, and you may have ideas and directions in the future.

You still need to tie the bell to the bell, young man, what a long way to go.

Hey, what an adult, I want to open up, I only have one life! Cherish, people who are sick love life, what about you, it's really not like that, well, take a proper rest, give yourself a holiday, go shopping, and see some beautiful things,

I don't know what I'm thinking.

It is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles, to read countless people than to read countless people, and to read countless people is not as good as allusions to famous teachers. You can choose to go to other cities to see, one is to increase experience at the same time you can inspect the market, to see what others are doing, if you want to open a store first experience is the most important, you can choose to a wholesale market as a **, don't be ashamed of low wages, mainly learning experience. This will do more with less, or you will take a lot of detours.

Don't always think about this stage, think about the sea and the sky, and do it is down-to-earth. If you have an idea, you have to act on it. I am now a small warehouse manager and shopping guide in the wholesale market, only 1300 a month, but I have learned more than 1300 here

I'll do it myself when the time comes.

You are wasting your usual time, you usually don't have good work and rest habits, and you don't have a correct understanding, you are always envious of others, you don't know how to cherish and stabilize yourself, you are confused when you are in trouble, and you have no determination to cause your current situation. But it doesn't matter, start from the beginning, cut out the doubts, cultivate the idea, and everything will be fine.

You have an idea, but you don't have a real action, and you choose your own decision to do it, and that's it.

When your strength is not enough to match your ambition, please calm down and study!

Without a strong sense of ambition, the goal is not clear, and it is not the determination to succeed.

Then just watch and listen more.

Then read the book and go with your heart.

Everyone has a goal, there is no time! Think about the people who love you and the people you love, and you will slowly realize that your goal is not far from you!

Then you can develop wherever you are good at?

Such problems are very common and normal, you don't have to worry, you just lack the fun in life, pay attention to some things you like, do something meaningful to enrich yourself, people have self-confidence and purpose in life, these two things are very important.

Many things are not problems that you have not thought about in the future, even if you think about it, there may not be good results, but you have to plan for the future now, that is to say, the good or bad you do now directly affects your future development, come on I believe you are the best!

Living the meaning of life, this book is suitable for you at the moment, or buy developmental psychology directly to see what problems you will face at this stage and how the average individual will solve them.

For example, you are now from the stage of early adulthood (18---35) and late youth (25---35), and people at this stage are from the growth period to the stable period, the intellectual development has reached the heyday, from love and marriage to parenthood, from entrepreneurship (from scratch) to intense work (development and foundation), from difficulties to adapt to life. The task of the trapping stage is no longer to desperately acquire knowledge, but to learn how to apply knowledge, experience, skills, and ethics to solve practical problems and achieve goals. Developmental Psychology, Chongde Lin.

If you want to do it, you can, I can't give you specific help, but I don't think you can even complete the tasks of mid-adulthood (such as acquiring knowledge), so even if you want to do it, it is limited by your own lack of ability. Let's not talk about the problem of insufficient quality education, confusion is already common in this age group, it is recommended that you look at the point first, confusion is really not a big deal.

Find out what you're good at and set a goal.

People live in this world, they are consciously living, in this sense, life is impossible to have no goals, thinking that life has no goals, just "how to live doesn't matter" as a goal, so, strictly speaking, life must have a goal.

So, since we all have goals, why not make your life goals more interesting?

The setting of life goals is actually very important, if a person takes "indifferent" living as the goal of his life, then, you will treat everything with an "indifferent" attitude, lazy and lazy, and live a life of inaction, so that time is meaningless for such a person, from birth to death, there seems to be no trace of life, that is, as the saying goes: "live in vain!" ”

And those who can make their lives have lofty and grand goals, but they are often able to do a great career, and these people with lofty goals will feel that life is particularly interesting, life is particularly valuable, and they have always wanted to live more time, the theme of the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty" sings the emperor's heart's desire when he was dying: "May the fireworks in the world, be peaceful and happy, I really want to live for another 500 years, I really want to live for another 500 years!" It is a very positive attitude towards life.

In history, there have been many far-reaching politicians, commanding military commanders, creative scientists, fascinating writers, poets, and strategists. The goal is big, the pattern is big, the mind will be bigger, the mood will be more cheerful, and you will feel that you should do something big in life, and you will be happy in life. And the goal of life is very small, and even feels indifferent to anything, as if he feels that he doesn't know why he is alive, whether he is alive or not, it doesn't seem to matter, then, such a person must be very depressed, very boring, and very breathless.

If you realize that you don't have a purpose in life, set yourself a relatively small goal first and accomplish it first. For example, set "I want to watch a fun Hollywood movie today", "I want to eat steak with a classmate today", "I want to read more than 30 pages of "Dragon Babu" (Jin Yong**) today, etc., try to complete small goals, and gradually let yourself get used to completing your own goals, and when you can get happiness and joy from completing the goals, you will know that there is a difference between having goals and not having goals, life will become more meaningful, and you will want to do things more, because doing things is fun. After that, you can set long-term goals, short-term goals and current goals for yourself, the long-term goals can be larger, and the short-term goals should be appropriate, the current goals should be realistic and can be completed, but they will not be too easy.

It is very important to set lofty goals that are in line with your own development prospects, because having big goals can make you broad-minded and confident, so that you can stand tall and see far, and you can make you feel that the sun is new every day!

There should be goals in life, and there should be big goals! Life should.