Parents don t teach their children! How do parents educate their children properly?

In fact, many parents must have no experience as parents for the first time, and the restrictions they received from childhood in that era were also simple and rough education, and they can't be blamed for not educating their children. In this case, you can only rely on yourself, reading more books is a way to improve your personality, increase your knowledge and mind, and cultivate a good way of thinking, you can go to the book to find any problems you have, and you will find that many problems are naturally solved. I'm not referring to ** magazines, but to some excellent and thoughtful books.

You can read Dale Carnegie's strengths and weaknesses in human nature, which will help to eliminate troubles, lead positive thinking, improve interpersonal relationships, and cultivate good character. When you can balance your heart, then work hard to learn professional knowledge and find a job, don't be pessimistic.

In fact, I am the same, my parents' incomprehension has made me what I am now! But parental fault is also inevitable! What we need more as children is understanding, the understanding of parents!

Only by understanding each other can there be a harmony! You tell me? In life, our parents are too us!

But what can be done? We can only listen to them! To be precise, what our parents are doing now is a classic for us to start a family in the future!

But I think it's more for us! But I also think that the parents' incomprehension, just for us, without considering our feelings, has led to our current very troubled, the increase in problem teenagers, the reality of the rebellious period is very strong, I think as long as we understand more, communicate and cooperate with each other, you can! But the question is how to understand, first of all, communication is the main thing, and you must be brave if you are timid!

Try to be obedient to your parents!

I'm pretty much the same, you can talk to your parents more and discuss some small games, such as calculating points. Rules of the game: One point will be deducted for a miswritten word, 10 points a day, and at the end of a semester, you will buy a few yuan of toys if you have a few points.

To educate their children correctly, parents must know how to do it.

1. Pay attention to listening and communicating with children.

When you communicate with your child, you must listen carefully to him, so that he can feel the importance and respect of his parents, so as to build a little self-esteem of the child, and at the same time, in the conversation with adults, seriously consider his own thoughts, what to do, how to say, how to say, which is conducive to the child to develop the habit of rational thinking.

Of course, adults should also pay attention to some details when communicating with children, so that they can communicate with children faster and better. Children should be allowed to develop good living habits, according to the characteristics of the child's age, try to let the child do his own thing, should let the child help parents do some housework within their ability, so that the child knows how to give and share.

2. Grasp the boundary between the learning period and the game period.

Children can be called pre-school children before they enter elementary school, and pre-school children are mainly play-oriented. Even if you enroll your child in a lot of classes at this time, in class, the main thing is to play. Therefore, it is impractical and useless for children to learn a lot of knowledge in this matter.

After entering primary school, children's interests gradually change, preschool games can no longer attract them, and they gradually become interested in learning.

At that point, your child will be working hard. Therefore, you need to distinguish between different age stages of your child and do different things at different stages. Parents should create a good learning and living environment for their children, parents should create a harmonious living environment for their children, harmonious family relationships, and orderly family life, so that children can cultivate sentiment and be beneficial to children's physical and mental health.

3. Education should be based on teaching by example, supplemented by words and teaching.

For families, under the influence and education of their parents, children still have a very difficult and high impact on the future development of Zhongchi. Therefore, parents should constantly improve their quality. Parents should set a correct example for their children, in daily life, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds, and it is their parents who children like to imitate the most.

No matter what the situation, parents should set the right example for their children. Although humanistic education is constantly changing and developing, its essence is immutable, the function of education and cultivating people remains unchanged, and the internal laws of the educational process remain unchanged. As a teacher, you should not only teach students knowledge, but also teach them how to behave and do things.

Teachers and parents should lead by example for the sake of children. If it is a child, the parents will try to do their best first. If no one can do it, don't let your child do it.

Words often pale in comparison to deeds! All in all, from the point of view of making it easier to learn knowledge and skills, or making it easier for students to grasp, as a teacher or parent, you can teach students by example as much as possible, and the following are the best examples.

When I was growing up, my parents did not educate me in this area, perhaps because they have always had some resistance to this aspect of education, and they don't know how to open up to me, in fact, this is understandable, after all, for my parents' generation, their ideas are still relatively traditional, and when they were young, they did not receive such education, therefore, When their children are growing up, they will naturally think that there is no need to educate them in this area.

In the process of my growth, I got the envy of this aspect of education is not ** to my parents, or ** to the school, is in the sixth grade of my primary school and the first and second stages of junior high school, the school has set up a special course in this area, so that I have a certain understanding of this aspect, although the knowledge learned in school is relatively shallow, but it is also to a large extent to ensure that I grow up healthy and happy, so that I no longer feel lost and confused in the process of growing up, Be able to have a positive, healthy and correct mindset to face the changes in your body.

And now I also have my own children, although my brother Zheng said that his children have just entered primary school now, but when my children reach a certain age, I will educate my children in this regard, so that children can truly realize the changes in their bodies and changes in their mentality, and be able to face their own growth in a more mature state, as far as possible to avoid all kinds of confusion in the process of growing up, so that they can become a truly responsible, truly qualified parent.

It is difficult to determine what kind of parents will teach "such a child" because a child's behavior and personality are often influenced by a variety of factors, including genetics, environment, parenting style, social circle, and more. At the same time, each child is unique, and their behavior and personality will also vary due to individual differences.

However, some studies have shown that parenting styles have some degree of influence on a child's behavior and character. For example, parents who are too strict or overprotective may cause their children to develop a rebellious mentality or lack of self-confidence. Lack of attention or neglect of a child's needs can lead to loneliness or emotional instability.

In addition, parents' behaviors and values can also have an impact on a child's development. For example, a healthy lifestyle and positive attitude can stimulate children's enthusiasm and self-confidence. Parents' bad behaviors or negative attitudes may be imitated or resisted by children.

In short, a child's behavior and personality is a complex issue that involves a combination of factors. Although parents' parenting styles and behaviors have a certain impact on children's development, the situation of different children is different and needs to be analyzed and judged on a case-by-case basis.

Parents should avoid educating their children as much as possible not to play with children who do not study well or behave poorly. This method of education can have negative consequences for children, such as:

1.Children may become intimate-minded and xenophobic, reluctant to reach out and socialize with people from different backgrounds.

2.Children may become too focused on external evaluations and social vain status, and ignore their own inner needs and feelings.

3.Children may lack understanding and tolerance for different groups of people, making it difficult to build healthy relationships as they grow up.

Instead, parents should educate their children to be tolerant and respectful of people from different backgrounds, and encourage them to learn to appreciate and accept the differences of others. This helps children build positive relationships, boost self-confidence and self-esteem, and improve their social skills and emotional intelligence. Of course, parents should also be concerned about their children's safety and health to ensure that they are not ill affected and harmed.