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When parents nag you, remember one point, don't talk back, of course, it's difficult to do this, like to listen to nice words, this is a common characteristic of human beings, and parents nagging, because parents are a manifestation of a kind of concern for you, don't always think that nagging is a kind of venting of parents' dissatisfaction with you, in fact, it's not quite, some parents who are not very good at expressing their love for their children will choose to nag such a way to express their love for their children, first of all, you have to learn to distinguish, learn to listen, Instead of nagging to your parents is a feeling of resistance and boredom, after distinguishing the reasons for your parents' nagging, your attitude should try to be sincere and acceptable, think about the difficulty of your parents giving birth to you and raising you, that hardship, you must also sincerely accept your parents' nagging, of course, there will be a limit to acceptance, then beyond your limit, you don't know what to do, there is a good way, that is, if you exceed your limit, you go to read literary masterpieces, parents are tired of nagging, and they will naturally stop, and the effect is very good.
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Everything your parents say is for your good, and your parents will not cheat you or harm you. In fact, you don't understand your parents' hearts, and if you understand your parents, you won't feel that what they say is nagging and annoying.
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It is useful to listen to the scene where you think about yourself and your friends of the opposite sex on a date.
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I hope that my son will become a dragon, and my daughter will become a phoenix, my parents will not harm you, but their views are different, you try to think about it from their point of view.
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Think of when they give you money.
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To keep parents from nagging, here are some methods that may be useful:
Active listening: Try to understand your parents' concerns and listen to them. Let them know that you're listening carefully and thank them for paying attention to you.
Be clear about your point of view: If you don't think your parent's advice is right for you, you can make it clear to them your point of view and explain what you think. However, pay attention to your tone and attitude to avoid conflicts and arguments.
Provide a solution: When parents are nagging, they may be trying to solve a problem. If you have a solution, try to offer suggestions. This will let them know that you are trying to solve the problem.
Respect parents: Respect their opinions and decisions, whether you agree with their advice or not. Use polite and respectful language when expressing your opinions.
Establish healthy communication: Talk to your parents and express your thoughts and feelings in calm and pleasant times. This will establish a healthy style of communication and reduce the likelihood of nagging.
Be proactive: If you do well, parents may be able to do less often nagging. Try your best to show them that you have become an independent and responsible person.
Find a suitable time and place: If you feel irritated by your parents' nagging, you can find a suitable time and place, such as after dinner or during a walk, to communicate with them.
In short, it is important to understand the care and love of your parents, respect their opinions, and at the same time express your own thoughts and understanding. Through active communication and mutual understanding, parental nagging can be reduced.
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First, first of all, you must know that your parents love you at all times. They ask you to do things that they may not like either, but they feel that it will be good for you. As the old saying goes, if you don't listen to the elderly, you will suffer a loss.
You can think about how many times in the past time when disobedience to parents has suffered.
Second, if you don't like it, you can make it clear to your parents why you want to do it. If your parents are still forcing you to do it, you can say that you don't like it when they force you. It's right to speak your mind and let your parents know you better.
Maybe many times we are living in our own lives, and it is difficult to care for our parents. But in the eyes of your parents, they are living with you.
You can communicate rationally with your parents, and it is best to solve problems, because the relationship with your parents after all you can't change anything, this is innate, they are elders, you are juniors, you just say what problems I have to discuss with them, if you don't have the independent economic ability now, then you have to listen to them for many problems, if you are now financially independent, and you don't need much help from them, then you can naturally do things that you think are reasonable, Because you don't need their support, you can do it yourself.
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