Will a man or a woman marry someone they don t like because of their parents urging to marry?

I don't think you have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love him well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "unfulfillable promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

More or less, there is, marriage for the sake of marriage, the world is impermanent.

If a man's income is low, his funds are not enough to support the family, then there is no need for his parents to urge marriage, get married, because you must know that after marriage, it is the family's expenses, you have such a low income, do you think you can support the family? And after getting married, there will be children in the future, and the cost of raising children is very high, but if you are parents, you also have the difficulties of parents, you are so old, and your parents also want to hold their grandchildren as soon as possible, you also have to consider the feelings of your parents, you yourself know that your salary is low, why not find a high salary to do? Now, you can find things with high salaries with high education, and you can find things with high salaries with low education as long as you want to work hard!

If you look at the wages of migrant workers, they are very high, and the wages you are looking for are also very high, so the low wages are not your problem, but your thinking has not changed, as long as you are not lazy, then it is easy to find a corresponding higher wage.

Marriage is the continuation of life, but also the reproduction of life, so you should not blame your parents, you can only blame yourself for not being capable, if you can indeed find a suitable girlfriend, marriage is still possible, two people after marriage together towards a common direction, then life will become better and better, after all, two people do things faster than one person does things in return.

If you reach a certain age, even if your income is low, you can get married first, and then slowly accumulate work experience by yourself, as long as you are not afraid of hardship. Men's incomes will gradually increase.

Personally, I don't think it should be.

You should not marry at an age when you are not able to afford to marry. Now society is material, and even material security does not have how to make families happy. Of course, there are also husbands and wives who work together, however, men should be responsible.

I think if the man's income is relatively low. It depends on whether he has the potential to develop? And can you endure hardship?

Some of them are potential stocks, which may have lower wages for the time being. But after getting married, the two of you work together, then he may improve quickly. So it depends on his career plan, as well as his professional development.

Secondly, it depends on whether he can endure hardships at work? If he can meet all these conditions. Then it's okay to get married now.

But it's better when the conditions are better.

If both parents are supportive of the marriage and are willing to provide financial assistance, it is still possible to consider it, otherwise forget it. Now all walks of life are difficult to do, money is not easy to earn, after marriage, especially after having children, the family expenses have increased sharply, it is recommended to work safely and steadily, have a certain financial ability, and then discuss marriage matters after planning with parents. At this stage, it is better to communicate with your parents more and let them understand the difficulties.

Even if the parents are desperately urging marriage, if the man's income is too low and no girl is willing to marry her, he cannot get married. Someone has to be willing.

Material is the foundation of marriage, I personally recommend that you must think about it, and after thinking about it, I don't recommend that you get married in a hurry.

Find someone who doesn't dislike you, someone who doesn't value money, I think you can get married, or think about improving your income and giving the woman a better life. Do you want to get married?

Of course not, disrespect can only mean that the girl is not very important in the boy's heart, if it is important, even if the heart is on fire, it must be okay in terms of sad face.

So what about you? Or is it the woman? If you ask, should it be the woman's meaning? It's your boyfriend who has a low income, but your parents are urging him to get married.

In fact, everything depends on whether the boy is self-motivated, whether he has a sense of responsibility and responsibility, although the current ability is not very large, but the mind is flexible, and it will be good to be responsible for the family.

If there is a suitable one, get married.

Of course not. Disrespect can only show that girls are not important in the hearts of boys. If it's important, she can endure a sad face even if she's angry in her heart.

People who get married in a hurry for the sake of their parents' urging marriage will no longer be stubborn, no longer fight, and will accept the psychology of reality. Discouraged, bowing to fate, willing to accept fate. Forget it, that's it, in my heart, I got married in a hurry under the urging of my parents.

First, I wouldn't marry someone I don't like because my parents urged me to marry.

Now I am indeed suffering from this situation, for the spare pants for me, I feel that I am very young, not long after graduation. My parents, on the other hand, felt that it was better for girls to marry good people around the age of 23 or 24, so they were very enthusiastic about assigning me to all kinds of dating activities. But I don't want to give in to finding someone I don't like because of their marriage-urging theme activities.

I don't have only one child in our family, but I also have two brothers, so I think that even if I delay my marriage, I will not be able to do everything in the end. And because I have just come out of the social development not long ago, I have a more beautiful psychological state of feelings, I don't want to marry someone I don't like, I want to rely on my own diligence, find someone I really like, and be with him.

Second, marrying someone you don't like is something you regret.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and it is not as simple as dealing with a partner. In a married life, the two not only have to deal with the problems of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea at home, but also need to take on corresponding obligations. If you marry someone you don't like because of your parents' urging, then you will regret it very much in the days when you come out of the house.

Although you don't have to find someone you like when you get married, you must find someone who suits you, you don't have to marry yourself in a hurry, and you don't have to leave regrets in your life. Naturally, you can also make it clear to your parents, and then delay for a while, and do your job well first.

Third, marrying someone you don't like will deal with many problems.

It is very likely that the marriage was completed in a hurry due to the urging of the parents, and it is very likely that the two are not very familiar with the other party. If they are together without adequate standards of understanding, there is no doubt that the destruction will cause great harm to them later in life. Whether it is from the perspective of their temperament, three views, family situation or diploma, it may not be the same.

Therefore, in response to the situation of parents urging marriage, we must stick to our hearts.

I don't think I will, because I'm still very careful and serious about my marriage.

No, even if your parents defeat Zheng and urge you to get married, you have to find someone you like, or laugh and praise yourself to marry, and you won't just find someone to marry, which is irresponsible for your own life.

I don't behave like that, because I think it's very irresponsible to myself and my marriage.

No, because marrying someone you don't like will be painful for a lifetime, life is short, and you can't let yourself be wronged.

They just focus on the outcome of getting married, and don't care too much about anything else.

Because of the urging of his parents, he married the object with whom he did not have a deep relationship, and such a marriage lacked enough understanding, and there would be many potential hidden dangers. Weiwei and Xiao Guo are college classmates and fellow villagers, after graduation, most of the classmates chose to go back to their hometowns, and both of them chose to stay and work hard, in the strange city, two familiar people soon came together. Xiao Guo was born in the countryside, his parents were relatively conservative, and in his hometown, many of his peers in Yuye had already started a family when he was in college.

Once his parents took the opportunity to say that they were going to send some special products to Xiao Guo, but after arriving, they had to see Weiwei. Weiwei met her parents very passively, and after the parents of both sides got in touch, they took the initiative to discuss the marriage, and Weiwei felt that she was not ready. The days of working hard outside are very hard, compared to working day and night, narrow rental housing, going back to the hometown to get married is indeed a good choice, both parents bought a wedding house for them, plus dowry and bride price, slightly feel very happy.

But the two did not live together before marriage, and many differences were slowly revealed after marriage, such as Xiao Guo, who always snored loudly when he slept and always smoked in the room. If there is a chance to do it all over again, Weiwei will definitely choose to understand more during the love period, and the most feared thing in marriage is disappointment and regret.

Parents urge marriage because their children should get married, children get married because their parents urge marriage, because children also agree with the reason and reason for parents to urge marriage, the pursuit of perfect marriage is people's common wish, but in real life, perfect marriage is rare, no matter how good the marriage is, there is always a little bit of dissatisfaction or insufficiency, in fact, the two can get married if they are basically matched, and they can't be stubborn because the pursuit of a happy marriage is difficult to achieve. In this case, the children will usually accept the idea of the parents urging them to get married. There is usually nothing wrong with urging marriage, and the biggest advantage is that it is consistent with the normal rhythm of people's inheritance and childbearing. It is correct to be persistent and loyal to love, but to a certain extent, you must also learn to see the wind and steer the rudder, and do not make yourself unable to enjoy even the basic normal life of a person in pursuit of perfection, and the basic enjoyment of life is more practical than the pure love that you can't get in the first place.

You can't marry just because you're married, you have to marry for the sake of suitability or responsibility.

Urged to marry by their parents, they accepted the arrangement of their parents and got married in a hurry, so that most of the big girls have no opinions of their own, and the education of their parents is related. Therefore, the parents urged the marriage, thinking that they should listen to their parents, so as to accept the arrangement.

I can't say that there is anything wrong with this, and I can't say that if you accept your parents' arrangement, you will definitely be unhappy.