What should I do if my dormitory students are squeezed out of the graduate school entrance examinati

Work and graduate school are two different paths, I didn't go to graduate school, but there are more graduate students around me.

In my opinion, I found that in addition to graduate school entrance examination and work, there is another way, which is to take the civil service examination.

Most of the people around me will choose to work, a small number of them choose to take the postgraduate examination, a smaller part choose to take the civil service examination, and some people who fail to take the civil service examination and come back to take the graduate school entrance examination, and there are those who fail the graduate school entrance examination to take the civil service examination.

For several people in the entire dormitory, only they were squeezed out for graduate school entrance examinations, and there are still many factors behind this problem.

First of all, is it right to go to graduate school? This actually has nothing to do with whether it is right or wrong, this is a choice, life is the result of choice, the things we chose in the past determine our current life, so there is no right or wrong to choose to go to graduate school, but they run you, it must be wrong.

Second, why are they running on you? In my opinion, there is not only one way to choose a job outside of the graduate school entrance examination, some people may choose to take the civil service examination, some people may think that I should go home and farm (don't laugh, this is what I thought a few years ago) I go home and run the family industry with my family, I still choose to be a freelancer, there are too many paths to choose from, but why run you?

I think there are two reasons, one is that the graduate school entrance examination that has been popular for a period of time is a manifestation of not being able to find a job, this idea has been popular for a while, but it has not become the mainstream, but it may become the mainstream idea of the people around you, and the second is what is the mainstream idea around you, If you are in a place where your thinking is relatively backward (this is a phenomenon), most people hope to take the civil service exam, because it is an iron rice bowl, when everyone in a dormitory goes to the civil service exam, only you choose to start a business, Do you say that you can not be run, this has nothing to do with right or wrong, it is just a path to choose.

So, it's really just a choice.

At this time, you can see whether graduate school is what you want, if you want to do something, you will definitely persevere, even if he is wrong (of course, it is not recommended to insist on the wrong thing) At such a time, the more others disagree, the more you must insist on your own opinion, and see if the postgraduate entrance examination is what you want, this involves a lot, involving the cost of graduate school, involving whether you can be admitted, and involving the ...... of future work

Third, in fact, I think you should see if they are running on you, or are you joking, if they are really running you, you can not care about what they say, be realistic, maybe after graduation, you will never see each other again in your life, of course, it is normal not like this, if they are joking, you can stick to your own opinion.

Finally, it is recommended that you talk to your roommate about your thoughts about the future, and tell them that you did not choose to go to graduate school because you avoided work or anything, but because this is a direction you have chosen, the future is your own, even if we can't help others do something, we can't fall into the trap, but try to support them.

Like-minded partners are never randomly assigned by God, but will only be met after you go deep into a certain field. So your roommate doesn't have to be your like-minded partner, and as an individual, you have more ways to find a friend who is going to graduate school. There is also the road to success, which is destined to be lonely for a while.

I was the only one in my dorm room who was going to graduate school, but my roommates didn't reject me. But when I choose to devote my time to studying, I don't have as much time to play with them, and I may not have as much affection as before. But I can say responsibly that I don't regret it.

When I first entered the school, we ate and drank together, but as the graduation season approached, I suddenly woke up and felt that I had to take responsibility for my own life, even if I didn't succeed in the graduate school entrance examination, as a person who was about to graduate, it was always right to learn more skills to enrich my knowledge. So, I started to get up early every day, eat by myself, go to the library by myself, take a shower by myself, and go back to my dorm room at night. There was a time when I was really lonely and I didn't know who to talk to.

But gradually I met a lot of friends in the library, found people with common topics, encouraged each other to learn from each other, during that period, our friendship because of the common goal also warmed up rapidly, we would always dream, always fantasize that there will be a bigger library in the future, there will be more like-minded people, where I can realize my life dream ......

In retrospect, the gain is also proportional to the effort. When you become a self-disciplined person, you will naturally be surrounded by supporters and true friendships. However, time and choice help us filter out those who don't matter, and one day we will be grateful for the persistent self back then.

In a situation where undergraduates are everywhere! Many students are gradually upgrading to graduate degrees!

However, everyone's purpose for taking the graduate school entrance examination is different, and everyone's view of the direction and significance of graduate school is also different! If you are a student in school and you want to go to graduate school, the people in the dormitory will crowd you! Then you should read this article to the end!

I have a few good friends around me who are engaged in graduate school entrance training, so I often talk about the problems of the children who are now entering graduate school! In recent years, the number of graduate students has shown a gradual rise!

But in comparison, it is still a relatively niche existence, and I have heard that many people scoff at the test! What do you think is the use of going to graduate school, and you will be contemptuous of virtue and so on if you go to graduate school!

Let me tell you, let these people say go, the road is your own, life is long, and you don't need others to guide you on your own way! Postgraduate entrance examination means that you will get the opportunity to further your studies in a higher university, and you can wander in the ocean of knowledge extensively! You will have the guidance of famous teachers!

On the other hand, now that the economy is developing rapidly and the employment situation is severe, many industries need more professional people to engage in them! And a graduate degree still has a lot of potential! I have a classmate who has been preparing for graduate school when she was an undergraduate, and later was admitted to graduate school as she wished, because she has always wanted to work in the teaching profession, but now many teachers need graduate students!

So she went to graduate school without the slightest reason!

During the preparation stage, some people verbally attacked him. I feel that after the graduate school entrance examination, I have to face the difficulty of employment and other factors! But then it turns out that a higher degree you can get a good job!

But there is one thing I want to make clear to you, that is, you had better have a plan for your later studies and career before you go to graduate school! What is the direction and purpose of the graduate school entrance examination? Don't force yourself to go to graduate school because of some reasons like reluctance to leave the campus!

That really doesn't make any sense!

It's good to be yourself, everyone's path is different. Since you are already planning to go to graduate school, you should prepare carefully, and you don't need to bother with it. The sister in our dormitory did not squeeze her, stayed up late every night to help her ask questions, she was admitted, and we were super happy.

Such roommates really don't care too much.

The dormitory culture of the university is a very important experience of the university, and it is important to cherish it. Me too, some of my roommates' behaviors are really unbearable, but I've always been patient, and that's to tell you the first point, patience. Of course, ninja light is not the way, and sooner or later it will break out.

My roommate used to play games, chat, and type on the keyboard very loudly while we were sleeping. One time I sent him a message, of course, rather than being more tactful, such as the sentence "Brothers in the same dormitory, take care of each other". This is the second point, we must take the initiative to solve it, and don't keep procrastinating.

This requires ingenuity. For example, you can talk to the roommate alone when it's just you and her, and don't hold a grudge. Be modest, just say that she is relatively small, and she lives in the city, and her hands-on ability is still relatively poor, and I hope she can guide it.

Etcetera. Learn to endure and be open-minded.

Classmate, seeing your question, I have been thinking about how to best help you, I have written a lot, and finally deleted all the words I wrote before, leaving this sentence that I still remember: The world slanders me, deceives me, insults me, laughs at me, despises me, despises me, hates me, and deceives me. Picking up the clouds:

Bear with him, let him avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and look at him.

Let's savor it!

In the end, I hope the landlord is happy, these trivial things are not worth making yourself unhappy, listen to the song and see the scenery, and soothe your mood. Look out the window, the moon is still beautiful. good luck

I'm worse than you The whole dormitory fights and squeezes me I don't get along well now Be tolerant Living together will inevitably be like this You think she is contrived But the people around me are the same type as her She said you can't do it You just prove it to her So that she won't deny you again in the future Some things that shouldn't be listened to are ignored She said her, I do mine, there's no need to affect you because she affects you You can't let her bully You have to learn to fight back, otherwise she will have to make inches.

You can stick to your own path No matter what others say, in the final analysis, you care too much about what others think. You can also try to change your old way of life, to integrate into the new environment, and to think in the positive way, and I think that's more important!

Try to communicate the situation, to integrate into their collective, to communicate with them, to understand what they need, to try to understand their ideas. If you really can't do it, just ignore it, isn't it better to be yourself??。

Then you communicate with this classmate to find out where the problem is, if he is like that, he doesn't have to lose face, you can't be cowardly, and you can't be too domineering.

In the past, Hanshan asked and said: How to deal with the world's slander of me, deceiving me, insulting me, laughing at me, despising me, degrading me, hating me, and deceiving me?

Pick up the clouds: just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years and watch him.

First of all, communicate with this classmate, and he asks why he should do this to see if he is doing something wrong.

It's your business to go to graduate school.

I'm also thinking about going to graduate school now, and even though I'm just entering university, I go to the library every day.

The relationship with my roommate has faded, and according to my relatives, this kind of thing is the norm.

If it's really for your good, then you should be supported.

If they are isolated, it can only mean that they are short-sighted, and then you can be admitted to a good university. At that point, they're just talking. Can't do anything.

It is very lonely to go to graduate school, but you can try to find other people who are going to go to graduate school, such as people in the same class or other colleges, you don't necessarily have to focus on the dormitory, if you can't bear it, you can go back to the dormitory later, find a point to leave the dormitory, so that you can minimize the conversation with them later. Go to the library more for self-study, and you will have new gains when you calm down.

Write a letter to her, if this can't be reversed, then put it aside for the time being, concentrate on the postgraduate examination first, and then solve it. The girl in the back didn't have to care about her. Good friends should have no selfish intentions to help each other, you will also gain when you give, don't make the same mistake in the future!

I wish you all the best in your graduate school entrance examination!

In fact, the postgraduate entrance examination is also a kind of mentality. You have to learn to share, so that you will get more, my classmates and I just say what information there is, buy two copies of any book that comes out, in fact, you can't lose anything by saying it, and others will tell you valuable information that you don't know. However, your dormitory has a school entrance exam, which is very competitive, and you do it for a reason, who doesn't want to be better in the exam.

As long as you talk about the method when reviewing, the results of different review methods for the same information are different, so you can't lose anything by sharing the same.

Also, you have to treat others with your heart, so that others will also treat you with your heart, if you are attentive to others without care, then you have nothing to lose, everyone's eyes are bright. Not only help each other in learning, but also greet and take care of each other in life, as long as you are sincere, no one will not find your good, and it will also bring you a lot of unexpected touches.

You can try to communicate with her again, many misunderstandings arise due to untimely communication, you can tell her and admit that you are selfish, but it is also due to the pressure of your own review, you didn't think too much, I didn't expect this to hurt her, I hope she doesn't take it too seriously. If you still don't understand, forget it.

This is a good thing In fact, it is best to go to graduate school alone, but you have to adapt to loneliness How to go to graduate school if you can't adapt to loneliness You may be a little sad to make your research friends go over the past But the girl in the back is very cheap You don't have to pay attention to her at all You have no obligation to give her information Be principled You will definitely succeed Come on.