What should I do if I am jealous of the relationship between my classmates in the dormitory? 50

Don't have jealousy in your heart. If you are away from home, you can't be like being by your parents' side, what things can't come by your own nature, you must learn to tolerate, look at the advantages of your classmates and compare the advantages of others with your own shortcomings to correct your own shortcomings, take the initiative to communicate and pay with your classmates, invite everyone to go out to play, please invite your classmates to eat and exchange to get closer to your classmates, and slowly integrate together.

I am a freshman, from Guangzhou, and I am also studying in Guangzhou. There are four classmates in the dormitory, two of whom are from other places, and the other classmate, Xiao Ming, is from Guangzhou like me. Xiao Ming understands a lot of things, such as Guangzhou** has delicious food, what to put in the dormitory to dehumidify, etc., and at the same time has high emotional intelligence and is very humorous.

Xiao Yong, a classmate from other places in the dormitory, was not familiar with life in Guangzhou because of the boring life in high school, so he especially liked to communicate with Xiao Ming. They have a good relationship, but I often deliberately communicate with him, release some information I know, and make jokes, but I just can't have a relationship with him as good as him and Xiao Ming, and I still feel very rusty. It may also be because I usually have a bad life, such as forgetting to lock the door of the dormitory at night (now it has changed).

I'm very sincere in making friends, sincerity can't be exchanged for sincerity, although it's reality, but I'm still quite uncomfortable, and I'm a little jealous of Xiao Ming. What am I going to do? Thank you!

Ah, this kind of person, you should be in front of the whole dormitory, solemnly ask her why she is doing this to me, say what you think, even if no one in the dormitory supports you, you have to explain it to her, and explain your truth to the other roommates, it's really okay to yell at that fat man, or call your current boyfriend to defend together!! I can't bear it.

That is, you don't communicate enough with them, and you'd better talk to that fat girl about her, and if she cares about you, then you should accept her. If it's really looking for you, then you just look at it, don't do anything illegal!

If it's true that she deliberately doesn't like you, it means that there is something wrong with her personality, but I'm sure she won't be like that :)

She is jealous of you because you have something in you that she envies, or there is a misunderstanding between you, and you both have a grudge. Open your heart and talk to her, if you can talk about everything, if it's really unreasonable, you will be polite to her!

Besides, I have a good relationship with MM in the same room! If you can't pay for it, it's your personal problem.

Very special, extremely respectful, kind to her.

Treat her with respect and kindness than with good friends.

Sooner or later she will feel guilty.

If you are not a proud person.

Find a way to change dorms! This is the best way to do it. Some people can't be changed.

Just as there are difficulties that cannot be overcome on your own. Just as there is a big rock in the way in front of you, do you force it to move it or take a few steps to spare it? The wicked have their own wicked grinding, so let her suffer in the future.

Ask the teacher for a change of dormitory.

One, ask clearly, two, change dormitories, three, ignore her.

Jealousy, because you're too quiet.

You can make a fuss, too.

And the people in the same room, alas. This is a difficult question to answer, and it is clear that if you put too much energy into it, it will definitely have a part of the impact on your learning. I'll tell you about a girl in our dorm who did a great job, and although I was a little disgusted with her, I really thought she was doing a good job:

First, the smiling face welcomes people, not to lick the dog, not to ask you for help you to do, the little things you can, do it without delaying time, but the surface of the performance is very kind, it can be called hypocrisy, but it doesn't matter, everyone just likes the kind of hypocritical people.

Second, go and see which is the worst bully in your dormitory, and have a good relationship with her, usually, you also say that your dormitory classmates are very good, praise them frequently, and then say how much you like them, and take the initiative to find topics and common ground with everyone.

Third, when you buy some snacks and fruits, remember to share them with you, but if you want to buy too little, or if the economy is tight at that time, you don't have to, so you can leave a generous impression.

Finally, it's important to at least get close to someone in the dorm, no matter what method you use. And if anyone in your dormitory is bullied, don't interfere except for the one who is very close to you.

You still have to concentrate on your studies, friend, and I hope my roommate's approach will inspire you, although I am not ashamed of this, but it is really useful.

Maybe you care too much about copying what others think of you, bai I'm here.

Du thought about it

But the relationship between me and my friend is OK

Because I have a lot of social experience, I know how to get along!

I was a sophomore in high school and mixed around outside every day, so!

Now graduated! Exposure to society is more than occasionally you care too much about other people's thoughts and opinions!

Do what you want to do! At the same time, learn to care more about others!

I believe that you can succeed and find your true self! ~

You can get a piece of heaven that belongs to you!

Be generous, be generous, joke, relax, and be happy, and you will be able to get along with your classmates It is very likely that you have bad habits, but you don't realize it yourself, think about it calmly.

As long as you are good to people and don't care, others will definitely be good to you.

That's how I am.

You have to get to know their interests and hobbies, and then find more topics in this area, and you have to talk and laugh more.

Du self, don't talk about others), but these actions should not be too obvious, it is better to be natural, don't always ask others when you encounter problems (it will annoy others), if you can't solve it yourself, just ask people. Talk to others more often, meet people with the same interests as you, and start telling them things about yourself that not everyone knows, so that he and she feel that you are good friends and trust him, so as to make close friends.

Don't easily say that other people's are not, think about your own problems;

Be sincere with them, and they will be sincere with you;

Harmony is important in everything, be tolerant of others, and be strict with yourself.

It's so easy! I usually buy more food, use, and when 2 people are there, I stuff things to that person and say that my things are yours, and take whatever you want, and smile sincerely!! After a long time, naturally those people were all broken by you one by one!!

My strategy lol.

If you are good, everything will be fine.

I had the same experience as you, but after adjusting myself.

And that's it.

Try to be tolerant, treat the people around you with a tolerant heart, try to think about the good of others, and remember a sentence; To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others!

Calm down for a while, make more concessions and tolerances in everything, care more about the classmates around you, and the relationship between you and your classmates will ease and gradually improve, wait patiently and work hard!

It is very likely that you have bad habits yourself, but you don't realize it yourself, think about it calmly.

Generous point. Especially with a more smile.

Take the initiative to hang out with him and the rest of your roommates, and invite her if you're wealthy, so that she won't do that to you again.

Explain that he didn't treat you as a real friend before, so you have to find someone else who is true to you, or you can find him and talk to you about what is in your heart. Let him realize his mistakes.

I really feel a little sympathy for you to have such a roommate, because most of your college life is in your dorm.

But have you ever wondered if you have any problems of your own, otherwise, why would she just talk about you and not others?

You said that the other two people in your dormitory also have a cold attitude of watching from the sidelines, but in fact, if it were you, you wouldn't know what to say, after all, this is.

Questions about the two of you. When she says you, why can't you refute it for yourself, you can't just swallow it. Maybe you're lacking communication, and if that person really has a problem, you don't want to play with her.

Hey, I think it's better to move to the dormitory, really, it's so unpleasant to have someone in the dorm who annoys you or makes you feel uncomfortable!! In other words, I didn't hesitate to apply to move to the dormitory. It's safer to live with someone you like! The mood is also very good!!

She's posturing! Treat her! Probably no one is used to her at home, so she will put on a posture when she comes out!

You have to talk to her directly, and if she asks you to help her get her phone, you won't take it! Tell her, Are you a single parent? A single-parent family can command someone, just scold her!

Don't get used to her.

You can talk to her and tell her what you think in your heart, calmly, and maybe she will realize her mistake.

You don't have to be afraid of that......Because the university is based on the dormitory, your classmates basically don't communicate with you much...Don't be scheming, you have to know that there are people outside of people who are seen through and are too ugly and there are no friends in college to approach you. Don't be selfish, at least get by on face.

It's really arrogant, it's better to be jealous of others than to be jealous of others, be kind to those who are jealous of you, others are jealous of you has proven that you are better than others, don't change yourself because of others, especially your character.

Look at your questions, to be honest, it feels like you should be a little more mature! Whether she's jealous of you or not, that's her problem, what does it have to do with you, and why should you care?? Besides, when you see someone else being better than you in some aspect, and you have the heart to compare in that aspect, you will inevitably be jealous, I think you should understand your roommate!!

If your roommate is jealous and targets you, you should talk and invite her to a meal, they are all classmates, not to mention roommates, you can't look up and see you, you shouldn't make the relationship stiff!! I can help my classmates more and try to help my classmates!

Being jealous is sometimes not a good thing for yourself, so try to hide your strength.

I don't think it's necessary, after all, we need to stay together for a long time. Usually behave in a low-key manner, low-key is the most awesome show-off.

Harmonious campus, or harmonious coexistence, after all, in the school, there are not too many conflicts of interest, friendship can still be found in the university, and if you are ruthless against ruthless, you will have a vicious circle.

Harmony Village, hide your strengths, and live a low-key life

In a dormitory, try to learn to tolerate each other, don't make the relationship too stiff, after all, you can't see what you look up when you look down. Besides, outside, roommates are almost the same as your own relatives, and you should try to deal with them as well as possible.