As a parent, how much money do you probably invest when your child boy gets married?

Updated on society 2024-04-20
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think that as parents, whether the family is rich or poor, when their children get married, they will do their best to invest. Let's calculate the cost of marriage first. As a man, the new house must be purchased by us, if the parents are very capable, then they will definitely buy a full-payment house when the child gets married, if you are more capable, then it may be the parents to pay the down payment, and you come to pay the monthly payment is also a way.

    According to the housing price on our side, in terms of housing, at least about 180,000 yuan will be invested.

    Marriage is not only about having a house, but also about decorating, taking wedding photos, buying a banquet, and hiring a car for the wedding banquet. In terms of house decoration, the general degree of decoration is about 17,180,000, so plus the down payment of 180,000, the house expenditure is at least 360,000. Let's calculate the expenses on the wedding.

    Wedding photos are also very important, if you go to a foreign place, ** Needless to say, according to the country, go to Dali, Yunnan, for the shooting effect, there are requirements for their own team to shoot back and forth about 20,000 yuan. The rental of the wedding venue, the hiring of the master of ceremonies, plus about 1,000 banquets per table, calculated according to 50 tables, plus the money of the team, the total calculation is almost 780,000 yuan. But you don't have to worry about this, if you are more popular, the money for the banquet and wedding photos can be recovered by receiving red envelopes.

    When I think about it, I suddenly feel a lot of pressure. But no matter what, when two people get married, I must give her the best, and my parents will do their best financially. If you have an average family background, there are some things that you can get through the joint efforts of your husband and wife without the help of your parents, but according to my calculations, if I get married, my parents will invest at least about 400,000 yuan, not including the car.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If there is a car and a house, as long as the bride price is not too excessive, about 100,000 yuan, the expenses in the family are about 80,000 yuan. If you don't have a car, you don't have a house, and then you add a bride price, this is a bottomless pit, and there is no way to calculate it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no one exact answer, and every family's situation is different. It's within your own means. Like when I got married, my in-laws' family spent less than 100,000 yuan.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is really inconclusive, in this society, young people get married relatively early, especially in rural areas, so when they get married, many young people have no savings, and the houses and cars are prepared by their parents, which is also the money invested by the parents, as well as the bride price for the woman, this is according to local customs, how much or less.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The budget for the wedding needs to be determined according to the children's current financial ability and the size of the marriage.

    Parental tendencies and perceptions will play a decisive role in solving this problem. In some families, the marriage of a son is one of the most important things in the family. Usually, parents will want to give their son's wedding a perfect start and try to provide him with a grand wedding.

    However, whereas in the past, the decision on the wedding budget was often made among the parents, and nowadays, this solution depends more on the financial situation of the children. If they have the financial means to afford the wedding, then the father and mother can take the opportunity to have the wedding of their life. If the children cannot afford the cost, then the parents can provide the necessary financial support.

    But many young people don't like grand wedding ceremonies, because excessive extravagance and waste are not conducive to a long-term marriage relationship between the two. A reasonable wedding budget does not necessarily depend on the amount of budget, but on the quality and experience of the wedding.

    If tyrannical wedding spending is not taken into account and a rational decision is made based on financial power, it does not devalue the sanctity of worship. Parents should be confident in their children's choices and plan the right budget to provide the necessary support. Gifts should not be given priority, but should allow children to have more economic accumulation.

    Stove hidden. In all cases, the cost of the wedding should be determined based on the family's current situation and financial means. No matter what the budget for the wedding is, it is a joy for a son to get married. It is important that the children are able to enter a happy married life and that their parents are able to provide them with the necessary support and blessings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    100,000 to 12 million (12 million for a house, a car, bride price, wedding catering and ceremonies, etc.).

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is really no accurate number for this kind of thing, because according to local customs. It is different from the requirements of the woman's family, so the cost is not uniform.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The customs are different in different places, and the money spent is also different, generally speaking, it is as small as tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands, and if the conditions are good, the more money to the woman's family, the better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    50,000 yuan to buy furniture, no bride price.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    We have 300,000 here, not including RVs.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Normal from tens of thousands to tens of millions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Home > Wedding Guide > Must-have on your wedding day.

    On the wedding day, red envelopes are needed in many places, and the parents of both parties generally have to prepare red envelopes for the newlyweds, so how much is the red envelope for the parents at the wedding scene, and when is the red envelope for the newlyweds? Let's find out.

    1. How much is the red envelope of the parents at the wedding scene?

    The local customs are different, and the specific depends on the local customs, generally the man's parents prepare a red envelope for the bride is 10,000 yuan, which means that it is a good daughter-in-law who is one in a million, and the red envelope given by the woman's parents to the groom is 9,999 means that the world is eternal. It's all for a good luck and a good meaning, but there are many people on the wedding day, so you should pay attention to taking care of the red envelope.

    The change fee is a traditional custom in Chinese marriage, so there are no specific regulations. Generally speaking, the change fee depends on the financial situation of the woman's family. Moreover, for the change fee, the two families can communicate and negotiate before the wedding, and it is best to set the same amount without an unbalanced mentality.

    The red envelope of the change fee symbolizes the good wishes of the elders, so the amount of money should also be able to please the lottery. For example, 10,000 and 1 means that the son-in-law is one in a million, and the meaning of 9,909 is long. There are also some changes in the number of the number of whole numbers, such as six thousand eight thousand, such a number means that there are pairs and good things come in pairs.

    Not only does it have a good meaning, but it is also very pleasant to call.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily, if the economic foundation is good, there will be more, and there will be fewer poor.

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