After the breakup, I asked if we could still meet, and he said yes, can the representative reconcile

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard to say this kind of thing, but you ask if people can still meet? People just say that they can meet, but it doesn't mean that they can. Forgive you and reconcile with you. Will you be able to do it in the future? I'm still talking with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is obvious, what you said in anger, you regret it later, you want to reconcile with you but can't pull down, if you still like him, give him a step down! After all, boys are good-looking, not good-looking.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not bad! You're pretty good at it! If you want to love, you have to love honestly, you have to be so strong, so take the initiative to love, is it interesting?

    You might say, I put down my mind and reached out to him, isn't that enough? Not enough! The most taboo competition in love, because no matter who wins in the end, it is a lose-lose situation for their love.

    You may be winning every time, and you care so much about winning or losing, so you are strong every time, but don't you realize that your man is already in the bottom of his heart and begins to say goodbye to you silently? It's true! Except for some special events, the breakup of a man and a woman is actually a long-term process, the accumulation of a little disappointment, to despair, to many despairs, and finally when it is unbearable, he will never break up with you more than ever before, and this time he will definitely not give you any more chances.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a little hard to reconcile, it feels like he doesn't love you too much, and if he really loves you, he won't make you wait a week.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Explain that he wants to hang you, he should be Aquaman, suggest that you replace the next one, the next one is better, and the next one is better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you want to quarrel at the head of the bed and close the end of the bed?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How did you break up, who mentioned it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Two people who have loved each other, even after two people break up, then between the two people, they must treat each other politely; If you meet your beloved again, if you show a lot of resentment and anger, it will make the other person feel that you still care about her; Therefore, when you meet, you must greet the other party with a warm attitude, smile, and true feelings, and care about everything about the other party and the living situation of the other party after leaving; This is also a person's way of being a man, and it is also the basis of a person's life; Don't let the other party feel that you are so stingy and not atmospheric at all.

    When an intimate relationship comes to an end, as long as you have truly loved each other, you will inevitably feel pain. In psychology, the period of falling out of love is generally divided into four stages: the period of emotional out-of-control, the period of habitual withdrawal, the period of objective regression and the period of facing reality.

    It can be seen from this that after being separated for more than half a month, you used to have his life, and now that you are breaking up, you will feel a huge discomfort, so you can't help but want to contact him, want to see him, and listen to his voice, right?

    In fact, if you really want to contact him, it's not impossible. But if you don't have any arguments that have been resolved, and you can't guarantee that you will face the other side objectively, even if you do, it will be the same as you feared, and you won't know what to say, what to do, and even if you don't handle it properly, it is likely to worsen the relationship.

    On the road of love, two people have loved, in fact, there are many people who will be in their hearts and can't let go; Especially the person who loves deeply, in fact, in his heart, he has never let go of the other party; Therefore, when two people meet, it may be especially embarrassing; But no matter what, the two of them used to say goodbye and go through a long way; At this time, I wish the other party can show that he is very literate and very high; Since two people are together, they can't become lovers, but they can still become good friends; Therefore, after pouring out your heart to the other party, sending your own wishes is also the most beautiful way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If we meet again after a breakup, I usually won't talk to the other party, because this broken relationship, both parties come out after a certain amount of effort, and if they intersect again, it will hurt both parties again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When we meet again after a breakup, I won't talk to each other, I will treat him as a stranger, and even if I see him, I will pretend that I don't know him, and I feel that if I talk to the other person, it will be really embarrassing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When we meet again after a breakup, I will talk to each other. I will talk to each other as a friend, and I will take the initiative to ask about the other person's condition. But I don't say too much, because saying too much would be embarrassing for two people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you love each other deeply; You can't be friends after a breakup, because you've hurt each other People always emphasize these two sentences, but you also have to see what the reason for your breakup is If you don't love at all, then be a stranger, because you can completely let go of him and everything related to him, and he has nothing to do with your life But if you break up reluctantly, you can't let go of him, then you can be friends with him without disturbing his life, because you are very familiar with each other, and sometimes you can help each other a lot But if he has no intention of being friends with you, then you have to make up your mind to give up, otherwise even if you don't have a relationship, you will still be hurt, because your friend of the opposite sex is outdated for him, and it may affect his life, and he will not be as friendly and cordial to you as he was when he was a friend You must learn to protect yourself in love Don't drink the bitter wine of unlove repeatedly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If the two people did not break up unhappily at that time, although it was a little embarrassing to meet again after a peaceful breakup, it was polite to say hello, if the words were not speculative or very uncomfortable, you could also dodge the armor, there was no need to talk and chat.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, when you meet after a breakup, you will talk to each other, not that there is nothing to talk about after the breakup, you also want to know what the other party's current situation is.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Will take the initiative to talk to each other, whether it is out of politeness or out of nostalgia for the previous emotions.

    Because the two of them have been together, after all, they have had feelings, so they will definitely take the initiative to say hello when they meet again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If two people break up and don't hurt each other in the future, then it's better to talk and chat, because there is no need to treat each other like enemies.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When we meet again after a breakup, I won't talk to each other, because I don't know what to say, I don't know what to contact in what capacity, and I'm afraid that I won't be able to restrain my emotions and be seen through by the other party. If you are not doing well and the other person is doing well, you will feel inferior and feel a little frustrated in your self-esteem. Besides, even if you speak, it's impossible to be a friend, except for recalling those sad pasts, there is no benefit at all.

    So don't meet, don't contact, just be a stranger, and let the past go with the wind.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you meet again after a breakup, you and your ex may say hello if they say they broke up peacefully. But if you say that you had a bad time when you broke up at that time, it may be that you just passed by and didn't talk to each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If we meet again after the breakup, I won't talk to each other, after all, the two of them already have a relationship, and now that they have broken up, it will be very embarrassing to talk after meeting again, so it's better not to say it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In the end, when we meet, I will definitely talk to each other, I don't think it matters, it can represent that the relationship between the two people is still very stable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Lovers will feel a little uncomfortable when they meet again after breaking up, but people with cultivation and self-cultivation will still talk to each other, even if it is to say hello, it is better than being like an enemy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it is a peaceful breakup, and there is not much quarrel between the two parties, the original love is dead and alive, then it will be simple to nod its head. Because there must be acquaintances, it is impossible to not feel it. If it was an unhappy breakup at the beginning, it was because of the fault of one party, then I didn't look back and didn't look back, let alone greet him.

    It's so sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When we meet again after a breakup, I will talk to each other, because after all, we have been in love and are not enemies, so it is also polite to meet and greet each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After the breakup, if we meet again, I may talk to each other, but it is just a simple hello and not too much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Break up and meet again, there must be embarrassment, embarrassment, heartache and other negative emotions, since the breakup must be a problem between the two, maybe it is a good get-together, maybe it is unpleasant, no matter which one, it is always going the opposite way, just treat it as a familiar stranger, pass by when you meet, and do not take away a cloud with a wave of your sleeves.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, because she is a stranger you know, there is no better than she knows you, if it is necessary or in extraordinary circumstances, you can talk, otherwise it will make the other person feel that you can't let go, but if you don't have to, I don't feel the need to be friends.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When I meet the other person again after the breakup, I may avoid it at the beginning, or I may say hello to him calmly in the back and say that I haven't seen him for a long time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When we see each other again after a breakup, we will still greet them politely, and I won't say a lot but I will get by on the big side, otherwise both of them will be very embarrassed.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is a kind of thought that most people have, maybe he doesn't know what he means, it is a subconscious act of starting and finishing, and there is a feeling that he will not meet again after seeing the last meeting. If you break up with him decisively and don't want to have any more entanglements with him, I personally don't think it's necessary to meet. I am afraid that if I am not firm in my will after meeting, it will lead to the situation of division and harmony in the later stage, which is a very painful feeling.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Should meet. The last side is a component of a long-distance relationship breakup.

    Why? Because only when you meet, you can know if you really want to break up, whether you really don't love each other.

    You will find that the moment the two parties see each other, the sense of familiarity is retraced, the sense of distance disappears in an instant, and the former thoughts and twilight are filled and satisfied in the present.

    In a moment of face-to-face, you know that those cruel words said on the mobile phone, the negativity towards the future, and the indifference to the other party are probably just angry words because you can't see each other, and it's not really unloved.

    When both parties want to work towards "reconciliation", they will tacitly stand together again when they meet, solve problems and solve problems, and have emotions to soothe emotions, and each other feels reluctant to continue to walk.

    If so, is this hand unjust?

    But after the two sides met, it was a different result.

    That is, I still can't reach an agreement, and I still feel that I can't go on. At this time, you have to understand that the problems that cause two people to break up cannot be solved by meeting each other.

    At such a moment, the first thing you should do is not to ask the other party why, but to retreat in time to avoid excessive entanglement.

    You may ask: since we've all met, why can't we interact a little more?

    Because the premise of successful interaction is that the other party is willing to interact with you - and when you are sure that the other party is coming, not with the expectation of "reconciliation", but just to draw a complete end to the relationship between the two parties, then what you can do is to cooperate with him and draw this full stop as perfect as possible.

    No matter how much trouble you make, no matter how affectionate and entangled you are, you can't make any breakthrough at the moment when the other party is determined to break up with you, but it will only make his last impression of you worse.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    After breaking up, you can still meet as an ordinary friend, so there is no need to worry.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If we are the one who is broken up, and the other party proposes to break up with Shensen, but we don't meet, through his kind of written expression, it has made your heart very painful, if he tells you face to face, you may be more uncomfortable, and when you meet again, you look at her face, and he tells you that we broke up, and at that time your heart is far more painful than when you don't meet. You can't imagine that such a person in front of you once loved you so much, and now you will be even more uncomfortable to tell you about the breakup. But if you are the one who wants to break up, he prefers to break up with you online rather than say it face-to-face.

    Since he chose to break up, he must not be able to stand your side. He was already disgusted with you at that time. Or I don't want to see you again, so I choose not to meet and tell you to break up.

    The person who mentioned the breakup first also felt guilty in his heart, so he chose not to meet and say that he had broken up. In fact, there are many reasons for not meeting each other to say that they broke up.

    Now that the breakup has been proposed, there is no such answer as meeting or not meeting. Some people may feel that it is more ceremonial to meet and say that they will break up. But if you are going to break up, it means that this person no longer loves you and no longer needs you, will he still need any sense of ritual?

    Do you still think of these? Not at all. At this time, he just wants to end it all quickly, want to break up quickly, and then escape from you as soon as possible.

    So don't worry about whether you should meet or not to break up. Since you broke up, live your own life and don't let go.

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