Can you really be friends after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you can be friends, but I feel that it is better not to be friends, and to divide them thoroughly, and not to give both parties any chances. It doesn't make much sense to be friends again after a breakup. If one party is reluctant to break up.

    But continue to be friends, if one party meets a new friend first, will the other party be okay with it? Will they still be friends in the future? Since you have broken up, forget all about the past, and don't always remember your life.

    It's about giving yourself a new living space. It's good for both parties. Otherwise, there is no way to break up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Even if they become friends after breaking up, few can really make friends, at most they are similar to ordinary people, bored chatting, and forgetting about something. In that case, what does it matter if you are friends or not? Before the relationship, they were friends, or there was a considerable period of friendship, and the relationship was not long and finally broke up peacefully.

    Generally, they can still be friends after such a breakup.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, it's really hard to be friends after a breakup, sometimes you feel sorry for her, or maybe she feels sorry for you! That's it, you go farther and farther, and in the end, you really become strangers! But everything is not absolute, as long as both people can be rational and cherish the happiness they used to be together, then even if they lose, they are happy!

    Wouldn't it be nice to lose a lover and have a real friend?

    So friends can still do it after a breakup, it just depends on the mentality of the two people! Maybe two people are not born to be partners, but they can be best friends!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm a woman, and if it were me, I wouldn't believe there was nothing between them.

    If my boyfriend is still in contact with his former girlfriend and I'm not around him, I will find out if they have any bad behavior or words or actions, and if so, then I think I will break up with him; If not, then I will contact the girl, if everyone is calm, they can still be friends, if not, I have to ask my boyfriend not to contact her again, if I still contact, then I may break up.

    Because if I am that ex-girlfriend and contact my ex-boyfriend, either out of regret and want to make it back, or to be friends calmly, but even if I am friends, after getting along for a long time, I will inevitably remember the previous time in a certain action and care, and I will still be soft-hearted, and women are like that. Besides, if that boy still loves her, it's even worse.

    Either way, bless you.

    Many things are better to say, so as to save yourself from thinking about it alone. If you can't accept your one's approach, bring it up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whether couples can be friends after a breakup needs to be decided according to the situation at the time of the breakup. 1.The relationship between the two is stiff 2Peaceful separation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If love is gone, then being friends is just a surface, and the real meaning is gone. Why be friends? The reason?

    You've hurt. Could it be that a friend is the one who hurts you? You have loved each other, do friends love each other?

    It doesn't make sense. So it's still going their own way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, many people feel that they can't be friends after a breakup.

    I used to think so too.

    But. Right now.

    It's all changed. I think we can be friends.

    Friends are real.

    What not to do with friends.

    Even if there have been previous episodes of unhappiness.

    But. When each of you finds something to rely on.

    Maybe it will feel like the previous one"him'Really good friends.

    It might be easier to look at it with your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, because we have liked each other and hurt each other. You can only be the stranger you know best.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, but you will feel very hard, because after all, two people have been in a relationship, and it will be very awkward to get along. Awkward!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Really, I have experienced it. You can still see her every day, you can care about her, but you can't love her anymore.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's if both sides don't like each other anymore, I think it's okay. But if it's one side, then it's a disservice to the other, in your case, are you willing to watch her be your friend, and don't you think of those old days when you see her (maybe that's just my personal opinion).

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, if you can continue dating after a breakup, then why bother...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, if two people haven't forgotten each other, then it's possible that they will still be together. After all, the two were in love with each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes... It's better·· We all know each other... It may be better to be a better friend than it was when you were lovers.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After a breakup, you can't be friends o because you've hurt each other, you can't be enemies, because you've loved each other deeply, and you just think you're the most familiar person.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't ask such stupid questions! Being friends after a breakup shows that you have never loved each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes. It's just embarrassing.

    It's better to be the most familiar stranger.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Once a partner, will never be a friend now.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Unless you have a girlfriend again, I think you can be calmer when facing her, and she is so persistent now, you don't force him, let him calm down, after all, there are always uncertainties in relationships.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Whether or not they can be friends after separation depends on the state of the breakup. If it is a peaceful breakup, both parties can accept it, and there will still be intersections in the future. And if the breakup is very stiff, they will not get along with each other for a long time.

    Some people think that those who can be friends after a breakup have not really loved, and those who have loved deeply cannot be friends. For people who have loved deeply, it is impossible to do it as if nothing happened.

    The person who makes you feel good at a glance will also make you feel good again. People are pure emotional arguments, as long as they are emotional, it is difficult to say that they will forget and forget. Feelings don't mean that if you break up, you can treat it as if nothing exists.

    I believe that if I really love someone, I will miss it even if I am separated, and I don't believe that there is a way to continue to get along with each other as friends. The kind of people who can still be friends, but they just want to continue to protect each other in this way.

    Those who have really loved and can still be friends after breaking up are just continuing to get along with each other through this identity for the time being, and to put it bluntly, they are still unwilling and want to make up for their regrets through the identity of friends. As friends, you can't do a lot of things, you have to keep your distance and proportion, and you can't enjoy each other's contributions with peace of mind. Friends can't continue to love, and those who can love can't be friends.

    For two people who have loved, there is no need to continue to entangle after separation. Since they are separated, it means that they are not suitable for each other, and they are not the one who is really right, so they should not influence each other's decision-making in the name of friends. After separation, you should try to let go of your cantonment, don't give the other party the illusion, and don't hurt it.

    For those passers-by, all you have to do is accept it calmly and don't waste your life because of the wrong person.

    When you entangle with the wrong person, you consume each other. In the adult world, it is necessary to stay sober and rational, do not waste time for people who do not deserve it, and everyone is responsible for their own choices. After breaking up, let go bravely, cherish it together, don't covet other things, and live your own life is the best way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello, after the breakup, there is a rubber pie or can be friends next to the dust cover, because it is not suitable, after all, you can't live, but friends are different, as long as you are like-minded, you can be friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After breaking up, you can't be friends anymore, and continuing to entangle is just borrowing potatoes and branches that you don't want to let go, and the two people break up, and they hurt each other deeply, and it's hard for Burning Hands to return to the relationship with friends.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's hard to be friends only after a breakup between lovers. Two people have loved and hurt deeply, and they are very sad to break up, and it is difficult to return to the relationship between friends.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I can't be friends after breaking up. Break up completely, don't break the thread, because this will cause misunderstanding and suspicion to future lovers. Don't be friends after a breakup.

    After all, with the previous relationship, the other party will involuntarily want to pay attention to each other, which will become a stumbling block to future happiness.

    Since you broke up, it means that you don't want to continue. In that case, keep your distance and don't give the other person a chance. Once you break up, it is not recommended to be friends again after a breakup.

    After a breakup, the best relationship between couples is that of a stranger, so that it is fair to each other's future partners. Not everyone can afford to put it down. After all, they have loved each other before, and it will only be more embarrassing to meet again.

    Some people say that they can be friends after breaking up, after all, they have loved each other deeply and know each other very well, even if the relationship is gone, at least there are many years of friendship.

    There are also people who say that you can't be friends when you break up, because although you break up, maybe you still have feelings for each other, and during the period of being friends, you will have the idea of having each other, so you will enter a vicious circle.

    Therefore, people must understand that the real purpose of staying and being friends with you is not because they are still in love, nor because they are reluctant, but just to satisfy their own desires.

    As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, since you broke up, you should divide it simply, share it neatly, and don't entangle. Maybe in the future, there is someone who loves you waiting for you, don't lose the future worth for the sake of the unworthy in the present.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can't be friends after a breakup, because you've hurt each other, you can't be enemies after a breakup, and because you've loved each other, you can only be the most familiar stranger.

    After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply, it's a friend, you need care, if so, .........

    Then why choose to break up.

    A relationship. A journey, walking together, too much joy, touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

    If you can, you must not have really loved.

    Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull.

    It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love and no hate in his heart, and he is indifferent to the throbbing in his heart, so that he can become a friend and a lover is so close, and a friend is so far away, and he can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be a friend.

    But the car obviously drove away, even if it returned to the original point again, it was a different time.

    Different characters, different landscapes.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ,...

    Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    Don't love him her.

    Let go, don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep if you still love her, don't ask her to turn back

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    It can only be the most familiar strangers.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    See.

    Seventh, look at the heart, look at the attitude! If you haven't really loved, you can be friends again! It doesn't matter if you're a friend or a stranger.

    I don't want to completely lose the hope of the other party, and I can still be friends. But it is difficult for two people who have really loved to be friends again, because both parties have been hurt in love and hurt each other. Uh....In fact, it is also very difficult to be a stranger, because you used to love each other deeply.

    The best option is to be the most familiar stranger....Ordinary friends, you can eat together, play together, meet and say hello...

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Haven't you heard a word.

    If a lover can still be friends after a breakup, there must be two situations.

    One or two people didn't really give two.

    There must be a person who pays silently.

    I think it makes sense.

    I don't know which situation you fall into.

    But whether you are friends after a breakup is not something that an outsider can decide, it depends on you.

    But I personally think.

    Either way, if you're injured.

    Why be friends.

    If you have to silently pay for someone who has abandoned you.

    Why bother.

    Even if it's a friend.

    Nor will they be friends in the true sense of the word.

    can only be said to be an acquaintance of the passerby.

    Love is wonderful. But hurt by love. No matter how inevitable it is. Rather than sit back and wait. It's better to be self-renewing. From now on. Start by dressing up.

    Rather than not forgetting. It's better not to forget. Tell him boldly. You live happier than he does.

    Fate comes and goes. It turned out to be you. It is not necessary to stay together in love. Staying together is not necessarily in love...

    The sky is not old. It's hard to get rid of. The heart is like a double wire net. There are a thousand knots...

    If you think it's a love worth remembering for a lifetime. Then we must work harder to insist on loving each other and staying together

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