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Why not.
Personally, I don't think there's anything you can't be friends with, and the reason why you can't be friends is probably out of love! That's actually a kind of hatred that would rather be broken than broken, so imposing is actually to hide the panic in his heart, it's better to be usual, when he is an old friend, love or not love to cover it up.
Xi Murong once said: When you are young, if you fall in love with someone, please treat him gently, no matter how long or how short you love each other, if you can always treat each other gently, then, all the moments will be a kind of flawless beauty, if you have to separate, you must also say goodbye well, but also be grateful in your heart, thank him for giving you a memory, when you grow up, you will know that at the moment of looking back, there will be no resentment of youth will have no regrets, Like the quiet full moon on the hill.
Yes, no matter how deeply someone has hurt you, there are always moments that make you feel moved to fall in love, right? When all the memories are condensed into resentment, what a sad memory will youth be?
And love, whether it is passing away or existing, should be the bright moon in life, illuminating a part of your life, every knowing smile, a shy kiss, a sweet hug, has been a crystal splash in life.
Then, forgive him, the person who once stirred up the splash of your life, the person who made you love in the past and hate now, life goes on, and he is destined to be a passerby, leaving a calm expression in the moment of passing by, as a gift to the years that have been walked together.
Love is always a little regrettable, what we can do is to draw a peaceful end to the past.
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After breaking up, the two of them can meet and say goodbye, so they can get together and disperse, so that there is a beginning and an end. After all, two people used to be together, loved each other very much, and had a relationship, if they were separated, it was impossible to say that they were like enemies, so this kind of relationship can still be maintained.
Although two people can't be a couple, they can still be friends, which is equivalent to a kind of politeness to friends, they can talk to each other, give each other a blessing, hope that she will have a better future, meet each other for the last time, and let yourself have no regrets about this relationship.
It depends on the situation, if everyone doesn't like each other and they break up peacefully, it's okay to meet each other. If it is a unilateral breakup, you don't like him anymore, or he doesn't like you, there is no need to meet, which is good for the person who is forced to break up, this is a long pain is better than a short pain.
If you still love him and he still loves you, it will be necessary to redeem it.
For a breakup without feelings, it's better not to go to the meeting, it's useless.
No. Hello, from the moment of the split, this relationship is destined to have no results, so you don't need to see the last side after the breakup, and you don't need to say goodbye well.
1. Instead of not being able to let go of this relationship all day long and being sad about it, it is better to spend time on changing yourself and making yourself excellent, so that the road of love and career will become smooth, and when you really have a new love, the so-called can't let go and let go.
2. Don't hurt yourself anymore A relationship is scarred and can't go back to the past, don't think too beautifully, the fact is that the most cruel ending you can think of is waiting for you, whether a person has feelings for you or not You can feel it, sooner or later you have to let go. So, let those who don't know how to cherish our good go, free and easy.
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To be honest, it's not necessary, but it's not that you can't see each other, after all, everyone thinks differently, some people may feel that they don't want to leave regrets, they want to see each other again, maybe there will be a turnaround, so this question is not absolute, but it is not recommended to meet.
In my opinion, breaking up, that is, saying goodbye to the past, is ready to meet a new life, and the two are still in a long-distance relationship, and if they break up, they can't go on, if you want to see each other again, you have to have someone to pay something, from one city to another, but you are not sure whether it will disturb each other's lives, after all, after the breakup, the other party may be adapting to a new life, is making new plans, and your appearance may break some of the other party's decisions, It may also be that you are not willing to rekindle the old relationship between the two people after seeing each other and get back together, but there is an old saying that a broken mirror cannot be reunited, yes, how to recuperate the broken heart when you break up, and you must have endured great pain when you decide to break up, and getting back together again may lead to more serious injuries next time.
There is another reason why it is not recommended to meet, even if you have broken up, even if you say goodbye, it will not necessarily change this fact, why bother, it is better to leave a good impression in each other's hearts, and after the breakup, you still go to see your ex, or trek to see your ex, in my opinion, it is not simple, and it may lead to the disgust of the other party, it is better to cut it in two, not to meet, after all, a qualified ex should be like dead.
But if you still want to redeem it, you feel that the two of you still have a future, and if you can go on after redemption, it's okay to see each other, and you can also rush bravely.
Long-distance relationships are mostly communicated by typing and messaging.
Therefore, when faced with each other's quarrels, the way of sending messages on mobile phones cannot fully express their meaning, nor can they accurately convey their emotions, and there is no way to use a few simple words to appease each other's emotions, and the situation will get worse and worse.
Therefore, this is also the reason why long-distance couples can't really solve the problem after breaking up.
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When you meet your ex again after a breakup, you will have very mixed feelings:
1.Awkward and difficult to adapt. Because after the breakup, the lives of both parties have developed separately, and it is inevitable that they will feel difficult to adapt for a while, and even a little awkward when they meet again. This is the most immediate feeling.
2.Familiar and unfamiliar. The ex was someone who knew and knew him so well, but now he was so strange. This feeling of familiarity and strangeness is unreal.
3.A surge of emotion. Because of the emotions of the past, it is inevitable that there will be emotional surges when meeting, especially when recalling the sweet bits and pieces of the past, it is easy to feel sad or nostalgic.
4.respective variations. The appearance of the other party may change greatly, which will make people feel the passage of time and the change of people. Seeing that the other person is doing well can also have mixed feelings. Shed chaos.
5.Regret or rejoice. If breaking up is not your own active choice, you may have a feeling of regret when you see your ex doing well; But if you take the initiative to let go, you will feel that the original choice was correct, and a sense of relief will rise in your heart.
6.There are no worries. If both parties have invested in new feelings and have no emotional concerns in terms of reason, then meeting will only be like meeting an ordinary acquaintance, without too many emotional fluctuations, which is also the most ideal state. Fight shield.
7.More calm and rational. After the breakup and the baptism of time, even if there are fluctuations, the overall mood will be more calm and rational. Because people and things are not what they used to be, it's just that it's hard to avoid a little sadness from the bottom of my heart after all.
In any case, meeting an ex is not an easy experience. But time can heal everything, when we learn to face it calmly, there is no longer too much concern, and meeting with the ex will not be as sad as before, and it will eventually become a memory that has become a thing of the past. It is important to look forward.
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Breakup is a common thing in relationships, and we will find that everyone around us seems to have experienced one or more relationship failures, in fact, this is also an accumulation on our emotional road. However, I believe that everyone will always have some sadness in their hearts when they break up, which is also normal.
After the breakup, the two people will definitely have some memories of each other, so after the breakup, they will want to see each other for the last time. In the face of such a problem, everyone will have their own considerations, in fact, if you really feel that if you can't let go of it if you don't see each other, then you can also go to the brave goodbye, if you really feel that if you have more concerns after meeting, then there is no need anymore.
For the question of whether to see each other again after a breakup, many people are more troubled, in fact, this also depends on ourselves, sometimes I feel that if we don't see each other's determination, then we will definitely not break off their own thoughts, then we can see again, so it is conducive to letting go of our feelings.
If each other is for reasons other than the relationship, then it is very necessary to see each other, only by seeing each other, we can firmly solve the problems in the relationship together, so that we can strengthen each other's hearts. But if you really face some practical problems, you have to separate, and you will be afraid that you can't let go when you see each other, then there is no need to see each other again, so that you don't have to worry about this relationship in your future life.
Whether it is necessary to see each other again after a breakup is actually based on the personality of each other and what they broke up with each other, according to their own situation, but sometimes it is better not to see each other.
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It's best not to see each other again, everyone is fine, and you also need to calm down and face the problems between the two.
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Whether we can see each other again after the breakup is a tricky question. Some people believe that after a breakup, they should cut off all contact and never cross paths again. However, there are also some people who think that it is okay to be friends after a breakup and see each other occasionally.
Whichever you fall into, you need to be clear: Before you say goodbye, you need to be prepared so that you don't get hurt again.
First, you need to ask yourself a question:Why say goodbye? If you still have feelings for the other person, then goodbye may put you back in pain and even make you start over.
If you've completely let go, goodbye can be boring or awkward.
Second, you need to think about when and where you will meet. If you see each other soon after the breakup, it may leave the relationship between you not completely cool, which may complicate your relationship. In addition, location is also important.
If you meet in a place you've been to together before, it might rekindle the bond between you.
Finally, you need to be prepared for different situations. If your relationship becomes more intimate, then you need to consider whether you want to start over. If your relationship becomes more distant, then you need to consider whether you want to let go completely.
In short, whether or not you can see each other again after a breakup depends on your relationship and your own state of mind. If your relationship hasn't completely cooled down, then goodbye may make the emotions between you even more complicated and even make you start over. If you've completely let go, goodbye can be boring or awkward.
In any case, you need to be prepared so that you don't get hurt again.
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There is more or less a little embarrassment when you meet your ex again when you break up, because after all, two people have been in a relationship, and they have broken up for one reason or another, so there is always an indescribable feeling when they meet again.
First of all, there will be some unrest. This kind of meeting makes the manuscript ruined different from the meeting of ordinary friends, and I will more or less think of some small waves in my heart. will think of the bits and pieces when two people are together, there are sweetness and pain, very complicated feelings, and it will make people feel like they want to escape.
I had to meet, I would say hello and leave quickly, because when we met together, I really didn't know where to start.
Secondly, it will be laughed off. The world is so big, meeting is magical, living in a city, it is inevitable to meet after a breakup. The encounter is beautiful, but the chance encounter after the separation makes people both embarrassed and yearning, the embarrassing thing is that everyone's relationship has changed, and the yearning is to know if the other party is happy.
This feeling is complicated, many people do their best when they are in love, and they feel pain when they are separated, which is the most beautiful pain in the hearts of those who have loved.
Third, a breakup doesn't make you a stranger. Some people are like glue when they fall in love, and they feel the good of each other, but once they break up, they immediately become enemies, and they don't even look at each other when they meet. I don't think it's necessary, anyway, two people have had a relationship for a while, and they can't become strangers after breaking up.
Therefore, it is still necessary to say hello after meeting, which also shows his generosity and cultivation.
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