I m in the first year of junior high school, and my classmate boy has a young love, I want to help

Love is born with it, and early love is not terrible.

Love is a feeling, and love is a sea.

Love is a state of mind, a kind of beauty that is extremely attached to each other and longed for.

It's hazy, and it's best to keep it that way for the time being.

A layer of paper, pierced, its relationship changes.

Perhaps, you don't know how to control it, maybe, you will be confused.

LZ, let's keep the status quo for now, get it, what can you do?

Keeping a certain distance, there is a kind of hazy beauty, there is a kind of longing, isn't it better.

I'm a second-year junior high school boy who fell in love early, but that's not "love", I "separated" a year ago.

Originally, the two of them got along well, but after stabbing this floor of windows, we didn't get anything at all.

It's just a loneliness, a loneliness, and a sadness, like a maple leaf in late autumn.

Keep the status quo aesthetically ---

Wait until the autumn breeze blows, and wait until the green fruits grow.

When the time comes, go and pick it again, it will be sweeter

Go build a time machine.

What do you help?!How can this kind of thing help?!Can you go to the toilet for him? At most, if you say a few words about this kind of thing, it's still a question of whether people listen to it or not

It's best to leave this kind of thing alone When I was chasing girls, I hated it the most when someone was involved Disrupting my thinking and ideas I personally think this kind of person is annoying And the classmates around me all say that chasing girls is your own business, and you can't let others help or have someone to participate The landlord advises you not to participate in this kind of thing Let your classmates develop on their own It's normal for early love to happen It's something that everyone will go through in life You don't need to make a fuss.

Tell him that early love will not end well, the two of them will not be together again after they are together now, how many long-term early love are there? This can only be a waste of time and energy!

You first have to understand why he likes that girl, and find out the details before prescribing the right medicine. Explain to him first and tell him how this will have a negative impact on his study and life. Then analyze their relationship and tell him that they are not lovers but good friends.

Ask him out to hang out or do something funny to reduce the amount of time he spends with the girl.

If he does fall into it, he can't help it, unless you are the bad guy and wreak havoc.

Tell his parents, or teachers.

It's best to start with a girl first, a girl should be soft-hearted, and talk to her first.

Puppy love is an obvious manifestation of adolescence, and its psychological behavior is normal, but it is very important to look at puppy love correctly, if you want to help your classmates, you must let him deeply understand the impact and far-reaching nature of puppy love, whether it can maintain that relationship in the past, and whether it is good for both parties.

Be sure to calm down. At this time, don't be angry with your child, don't blame excessively, and your child must communicate with your child slowly.

I think that when encountering this situation, first of all, parents should not strictly stop their children's behavior, they should communicate with their children more, show the main reason why the other party does this, and also tell their children that good love is the common progress and growth of both parties, if love regresses the grades of both parties, it will not only attract severe punishment from parents, but also make two people break up.

When you find this situation, you should judge it first, and if it is said that the child's learning has no impact, you should leave it alone.

If I were a class teacher, I would take the following steps to deal with the issue of puppy love in students:

1.Establish an open class discussion: I organize an open class discussion in the class to let students understand the dangers and consequences of puppy love, and guide them to establish the right values and outlook on life.

2.Communicate with students and their parents: I will communicate with students and their parents to learn more about their situation and reasons, and provide them with help and advice accordingly.

3.Establish healthy extracurricular activities: In order to divert students' attention from early preparation and filial piety, I will organize some extracurricular activities, such as group sports, **, art, etc., so that students can experience different fun and establish good relationships with their classmates.

4.Establish class rules: I work with the class to create a class rule that includes rules such as prohibiting puppy love, so that students can follow them.

In summary, puppy love not only affects students' learning and interpersonal relationships, but also negatively affects their physical and mental health. Therefore, class teachers need to take effective measures to guide students to develop correct values and self-awareness to help them develop healthy behavioral habits and lifestyles.

Mr. Dong, a senior family counseling expert at Confit Youth Development Center, reminded parents that children's performance and love may have different meanings for them, some children are looking for emotional sustenance from the opposite sex because of the lack of love in the family, some are because of face, showing off their charm, some are very innocent friendship, and some are rebellious, parents and teachers oppose it and want to try, and some are indeed very mature and rational in love. Therefore, it is necessary to first send out the psychology of impatience and worry, calmly try to communicate with the child, understand his study and life at school, what he likes about girls, in order to explore and see what the child's early love is, and then reflect and guide the child to face and deal with emotional problems. The general principle is that it is advisable to be sparse rather than blocked.

First, as a parent, you should be calm when communicating with your child, and don't speak unscrupulously and communicate violently because you are angry. This will only make the child more rebellious.

Second, parents should reflect on why their children have early love, whether they are not doing well, or whether they have something in their hearts recently and have less communication with their children.

Third, as a parent, we should strive to create a warm family environment for our children and pay attention to their care.

Fourth, don't put a lot of pressure on your child. Tell the child that early love is not good, junior high school is the stage of learning, and after this ** learning stage, there will be no regret medicine in the future.

Fifth, give your child full trust. Tell your child that the parents believe that the child will be able to handle this puppy love affair.

Sixth, communicate with the school teachers, so that the teachers pay more attention to the children, and communicate with the parents in a timely manner if there is any abnormality. But also pay attention to the way, to pay attention to the child's self-esteem.