Pretend to love when you don t love, and pretend not to care if you really love someone

A lot of people are like that.

When she was a child, boys liked girls and bullied her if they didn't know how to express them.

Not all of them express their feelings well.

Maybe it's because I care too much.

That's why I pretended not to care.

That's why now we're learning how to express our truest selves.

Sometimes, it's because you're afraid of being controlled and you're afraid of losing.

I wish you happiness.

He is a very face-saving person, he wants the other party to listen to him obediently, machismo, afraid that he will love you first He will be embarrassed, afraid of bowing to women, afraid that after bowing his head, he will be led by the nose all the time, this will be his weakness. If you grasp this, he will be obedient to any man you want to like.

It may be disguised for fear of injury, and the fact of feelings is difficult to explain at once.

Generally speaking, if you like each other very much but pretend not to care, it may be because you don't feel worthy of the other party, so you can have an inferiority complex at this timeIt may be because of some factors that cause you to have no sufficient intention to chase the person you like, so you have an avoidance mentality, in general, in most cases, it is your own psychology that is at work, so it may also be because of the following psychological reasons. <>

1, obviously like to pretend not to care, most of these people are out of inferiority. In fact, for us, most people with low self-esteem are obviously very sorry for each other, but they dare not tell each other, for fear of refusal, so it is precisely because of this that they will pretend not to care, and it is precisely because of this psychology that these people will be more willing to do so, and for them, the reason why they dare not confess and choose to pretend not to care is because they are deep down in their own inferiority complex. <>

2. The reason why I pretend not to care may be because of my lack of confidence in my own image. In fact, for us, the reason why we like it very much is that we don't care, and in most cases it is because we are not confident, because we feel that we are not worthy of the other party for the people we like, so we pretend not to care at this time, or because we dare not face each other, so we say that this is essentially because we are not confident in our own strength, so we will choose to escape. <>

3. Deep avoidance psychology and self-esteem. In fact, for us, sometimes we like a person to pretend not to care, not because we don't like him, nor because we dare not confess, but because we are afraid that our image will be damaged and face will be damaged by being rejected after confession, so these people choose to avoid it out of fear that their image will be damaged, but in fact, it is because of their own self-esteem, so these people are also because they care too much about face, so they will choose not to care.

In general, it is necessary to analyze the specific problems, most people obviously like each other but pretend not to care, but also because of the psychology of inferiority, I pretend not to care because of my own strength, or because I care too much about face, afraid that my image will be damaged, so I pretend not to care because I am too self-respecting.

Explain that you are introverted and not good at expressing feelings and communicate more should help.

Very shy, usually like this, looking for opportunities to be alone with him.

It's waiting for the other party to confess, it's a matter of face.

It's like dying to save face

Because I'm afraid of getting hurt. There are some sad memories. Creates shadows in the brain.

will shake your current goals. Even if you like it, you don't dare to pursue it. Because I'm afraid of getting hurt.

So wrap yourself up. But this will only make you unable to escape the bad memories and shadows of the past. Be clear about your thoughts.

Be brave enough to prove your goals. to make yourself happy! ~

It's because I like each other that I pretend not to care. Because she is afraid that if she cares too much about him, she will cause misunderstanding among others. Well, that's pretty hard to understand, let's put it this way:

Although I like him and her, but I refuse to confess to him, this is because I am afraid that after I confess to him, he and she will refuse, in this way, I will be embarrassed to see it later, this is a kind of consciousness that everyone has, thinking that after confessing, it will be rejected, and pretending not to care is because I don't want him to know, I don't want him to know that she likes him and her, and she just wants to look at him silently behind her back.

Love this thing bai

No one can du

I can tell you why, why you love zhi, why you don't love, why you love dao but don't love it, why you don't love it but you love it.

Obviously love but pretend not to love the reason:

1. I love you, I really love you, but I can't see the future, I can't give you the happiness you want, I'll just love silently, you have always been in my heart, but never appeared in my mouth, I love you, but I don't want you to regret it. This kind of man has low self-esteem.

2. I love you, I still love you very much, but you love others, I know, I understand, I'm not your favorite type, why should I bother your life, I love you, I don't want you to be embarrassed. This kind of man is generous.

3. To love you is to love you very much, you know? You love me too, but none of us want to take this step first, we will miss it, so let's take this as a good memory. This kind of man is selfish.

There should be many reasons, the biggest possibility is because of psychological factors, because I am more introverted, so I feel a little inferior, I am afraid that I will be hurt in the future!