What changes are you willing to make for the people you love?

I am willing to learn to cook and do laundry for the people I love, and I am also willing to go to **, so that I can have a good body.

In fact, I am willing to change some of my shortcomings for him, and even change some of my lifestyle, change my bad temper, and want to become what he likes.

I will be willing to open my mind to the person I love, learn to cook, be more tolerant, respect each other's ideas and opinions, and support him more behind his back, rather than hindering him.

I've made a lot of changes myself, for example, I've quit smoking for many years, and now I drink less with my friends. And I'm willing to do even better.

If she doesn't like the smell of cigarettes, I can quit smoking for her, stop being a child, work hard to earn money, give her a stable and happy life and the life she wants, play less games, be more companion and be more romantic.

I am willing to change my shortcomings for the people I love, and I will also make myself better for the people I love.

It's not easy to meet someone I love, so I will definitely make a lot of changes for the other person, get rid of all the shortcomings in myself, and make myself more perfect.

Get rid of your bad temper for the person you love, so that the two people won't quarrel often when they get along.

You can't hide if you like someone, even if you don't say it, it will still jump out of your eyes, and your eyes need to be hot than looking at everyone. It's really too obvious, just the face is attached to the "I like you". Some people immediately state their inner thoughts, but there are others.

In real life, there are still some introverted people who can't express themselves immediately in front of their feelings, but although this group of people doesn't need to say anything, their behavior is very honest. Naturally, this kind of person is more certain. They will also give a lot to you.

If a person is willing to make these four changes for you, then he or she must love you.

First, it will become more perfect, diligent, diligent

Boys can learn to grow in relationships, naturally, it also shows that the woman herself is strong, so that the man is willing to develop and change for the sake of the woman. From this level, it can be known that this man is very attentive to women, and he is afraid that he is not worthy of you in any way, so he will fight with enthusiasm. Therefore, if a man has you in his heart and loves you deeply, then he will definitely be willing to change for you.

Second, will work hard to make you satisfied

Every love must be vividly reflected in every bit and bit. If you really like it in your relationship, your heart is an involuntary and logical thing. It's just that he wants to fight hard and be good to her.

Some people are inherently insensitive, free and loose, and don't think about how to hurt people, but I want to say that it is not easy to win people with heart, only unwilling to win people with heart. If he has feelings for you, no matter how big he is, he must pay special attention to what is going on with you.

3. Cut off contact with other girls

Boys are a very good at playing ambiguous. Married to a red rose, in the long run, the red changed the wall did not smile at a touch of mosquito blood, white or "bright moonlight by the bed", married a white rose, the white is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, and the red is a cinnabar mole on the chest. Once he identified a certain girl, he learned to suppress and converge, not flirtatious, not ambiguous.

The so-called starting over again is just being able to draw a prison for her. It will turn down all the invitations of beautiful girls.

Fourth, converge your own emotions

One thing descends one thing. A guy who is not with you because of love, he will be attentive to you. Because of love, even if you have some petty temperament, or are quite unreasonable in the eyes of others, he can tolerate you generously, because you are the woman he loves deeply, and this alone can make him restrain his emotions.

First of all, he will change his own principles and change his dreams for you. Because such a person is rotten, he will completely put you in his heart and will put you first.

For example, he is willing to change his habits, turn your favorite food into his favorite stool raid, and in life, he will take a round calendar for you to sort out everything, and all your wishes are about you.

One is that it will become more and more mature, hard-working, and motivated;The second is to put effort into satisfying you;The third is to draw a line with other girls;Hanye is the fourth person who will restrain his temper and talk about shouting.

Personally, I don't want to, first of all, why change myself for the other party?If you have established a relationship with the other party, you must have been with the other party for a long time, and you can only be together if you understand each other, which means that the other party will accept the previous you!

Secondly, if you can't adapt to the other party, it can only mean that when you get along with the other party, you show false behavior, and once you get to live together in a rough manner, you will show your true face, causing the other party to be dissatisfied with you, and forcing you to maintain the original disguise;

Moreover, everyone has their own strengths, and casually changing yourself for the sake of others can easily show that you are unprincipled, and even have a sense of hypocrisy and flattery;

Then, the changes you make for others are often for some kind of interests and purposes, if the interests are gone, then the original intention of the change for the other party is not there, and the so-called change will become a grievance;

In the end, if you change yourself for the sake of others, you will inevitably lose yourself in the end! As a worthy self, what scumbag is more tragic than losing oneself? To be the best self-reliant, on the contrary, will make the other party feel face, for the appreciation of the person and love, this is a kind of sublimation of each other's feelings, blindly lead to each other, resulting in unfillable desire, hurt by yourself!

Some people believe that love is selfish and that the person who loves you will not change for you. They feel that they just need to accept each other's characteristics and habits, and not try to change their profile. Otherwise, such behavior can lead to maladaptation, breakup, and even betrayal.

However, in love, love and change are interconnected. Love is a complex feeling, and loving someone will make you change some of yourself for him or her, and try to better adapt to the other person. Of course, this process should be based on respect and understanding.

In a relationship with someone you love, change is not a negative or consuming act, but a positive and healthy phenomenon. This change can make oneself and the other person better, increasing human respect and loving interaction.

When you meet true love, they will pay for your change. They are not here to change your habits and character, but to love you more and respond to you more appropriately. This kind of love is natural and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

I think it can be changed, but there must be a bottom line.

People are changing, for the better or for the worse, and it has little to do with subjective will, but with how much you care about what you experience. Change for the person you love is natural and uncontrollable, because you love him, then things will go in a good direction.

For example, if the object is a light sleeper, and you happen to have a habit of snoring, then you want to make a change for the person you love, or **, or find a way to change, or wait for the lover to fall asleep and then go to the sofa by yourself, this is the change, it is a change to make each other better. For another example, if your lover doesn't eat spicy, you can eat spicy food very much, and for the sake of your lover, you choose not to eat or eat less, which is also a change.

Therefore, under the premise of loving people, change is essential, because of love, so we are willing to accommodate each other and go through this life.

But on the other hand, are there people who don't change anyway? Yes, but the contradiction will get deeper and deeper, you don't like to talk, I have to find a lot of strangers to speak, you like to be quiet, I take you to the bar every day, this is not a lover, this is an enemy.

Falling in love with him is because we understand each other, so falling in love with this person, if there are 10,000 shortcomings in this person and you think you don't like it, then you can't talk about the word "lover", right? Because I love you, I do!

But there is a bottom line for change.

Marriage is like a machine, and two people are like gears, which must be tightly bitten together in order for this home to run smoothly. But in the process, the two gears are not exactly the right size, so there will definitely be a stumble! Until each grinds off some edges and corners, can life be smooth.

However, if one gear is too badly deformed, it may also collapse quickly during operation, so that to a greater extent, damage the normal operation of the home.

Therefore, changing yourself is for the sake of this family, and the same is true for maintaining the bottom line!