There is always reluctance to graduate, how to step into the door of society, how to be a person?

It's graduation season again, and every time I think of myself who just graduated, I have not only the reluctance to leave the campus and classmates, but also the expectation and apprehension of the society I am about to enter. As a senior social person, I have the following suggestions for students who are about to enter the society, hoping to help them integrate into the new environment more quickly.

1. Don't panic when you start your career, everyone has an adaptation period. As a newcomer to the workplace, I will definitely be a little nervous when I first enter the workplace, whether it is an unfamiliar state for the working environment or personnel relations, and I need to learn and adapt slowly. And because you are a new recruit, the leader will not give you a lot of work at the beginning, or give you very important and high-tech jobs, which may be different from your imagination of the workplace before you joined.

I would say that these are all normal, you just need to calm down and allow yourself to adapt to the environment and work, after the first three months of adaptation.

2. Talk less at work, do more things, and prove yourself with results. In society, talking less and doing more is the most important way to survive. When newcomers have not yet understood some of the potential rules, environment and interpersonal relationships in the workplace, it is best to speak less, so as not to inadvertently say something offensive to others without knowing it.

When you first join the team, don't rush to get along with your colleagues, because after all, you are in the workplace, and everyone values your ability to do things more often. Therefore, as long as you do things well, you can win the respect of others by your ability, and then as you deepen your work, you will naturally become familiar with your team members.

3. Try not to let personal matters and personal feelings affect your work. I think it's important to have a clear distinction between public and private affairs in the workplace, and it's a basic professional ethics not to let private matters and personal feelings affect your work. Because every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, the purpose of everyone's work is to make money, in order to do a good job, if your work is affected by your personal affairs or feelings, it will be easy to leave an unreliable and unprofessional impression.

Be humble and cautious. Social people are not as simple as students, and they must learn to be modest and cautious, so as not to offend others.

Be a down-to-earth person, treat others down-to-earth, and do your part in a down-to-earth manner.

Then you need to let yourself have a certain social ability, and you must also let yourself slowly understand a lot of human feelings.

We must learn to be obedient, we must analyze what other people's real intentions are, and we must turn our brains quickly, we must learn to respect, and we must be sharp in our hands and feet.

When stepping into the door of society, we must remember: do not harm others, but guard against others. After all, society is really too complicated.