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Sorrow is an emotion that will be experienced at all stages of life, when you are young, you are worried about learning, when you are young, you are worried about money, you are worried about your family when you are middle-aged, you are worried about your children when you are old, or you are homesick, you are missing, and you are sorrowful.
1. Worries when I was young, worries about studying, and worries about homework.
Countless night battles, countless exam failures, the sorrow at that time was the sleepiness of the next day after staying up late to study, and it was also the timidity of holding the report card in the palm of his hand and wandering in front of the house, but this kind of sorrow was carefree, he had no pressure from life, no exclusion from society, and the sorrow at that time, even if it was sorrow, there was no pressure.
Second, the sorrow of youth, the worry of money, and the future.
I just graduated from college, I have no job, I have no hope for my partner, and I am afraid of adding a burden to my family, so I am worried about money and my future.
Looking up, it is the future that I am confused about, looking down carefully, I can't find the way I want to go, this kind of sorrow is the sorrow of the first time I have arrived in society, and I am worried about myself.
3. Sorrow in middle age, worry about family, worry about life.
When people reach middle age, they are often running for their families and careers, lacking the sharpness of youth, but they have to grit their teeth and hold on, telling themselves that they are the sky, and the sky cannot fall, and the family knows that they are not only the sky, but also a hand that supports the sky, which is the sorrow under the squeeze of life, perhaps only ten minutes in the car before going home, can I control my collapse, and change a smile to say to my family that I am fine.
Fourth, the sorrow of old age, the sorrow of children, and the body.
At this time, I don't worry about myself, I am only worried about whether my children are tired, whether I will drag down the family, the whole family, and the descendants.
As the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and if it is subdivided, everyone has endless sorrows. Who knows that teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow, and teenagers also have teenage sorrows, but everyone has their own sorrows in their hearts, and it is rare that other family members are unwilling to tell it, and it is for their families to swallow sorrows.
Everyone has their own sorrows at every stage, if you were asked to look at this sorrow, what would you think?
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Different stages of life will have different "sorrow" tastes, but these are the only ways to go through life, so face it calmly and look at it with a calm attitude in order to spend it peacefully.
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There are really many unsatisfactory times in life, so we must adjust our mentality and face everything with an optimistic attitude, and you will find that life is very beautiful.
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Positive and optimistic attitude, although different stages of life have different sorrows, but we should treat it with a positive and optimistic attitude.
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I think we should look at the sorrow in this stage of life with a very open-minded attitude, because only open-mindedness can make oneself happy.
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We should look at these things with a positive and optimistic attitude, and only when we have this mentality will our lives be better.
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My view and understanding: life is either to survive or to live, the meaning of survival is to live, life is to live at a higher level than survival, or to live better, everyone has struggled to survive and think about how to live, this is a process.
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Life is a mixture of joy and sorrow, there must be joy and sorrow, you have to look at it correctly. You must know that those sorrows are arranged by God to hone us, to see if you can get through it...
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Ideals, goals, and processes are all things we have to have on the journey of life. Feelings are just the weather, and he can't stop you from moving forward.
In fact, there are still a lot of good people in this world, but it is not excluded that there are some germs, and nothing is perfect, just like you can't get 100 points in every exam. We find many things incredible, but we have to learn to get used to it, because you can't change it, so you have to change yourself, change your attitude, change your mood. But remember, more smiles, less wrinkles, many things and many people, in fact, it is not worth our sadness for him at all.
It is necessary to learn to understand the elders, respect their thoughts, know how to think from their point of view, and discuss what they say, what makes sense and what is inappropriate. The second is to be yourself. Parents care about themselves, the starting point is for their own good, if you do well, excellent in all aspects, even if you do something different from them, they will still understand you.
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Everything is constantly changing, as long as you have a little bit of attachment, you will have pain, because our life is as changeable as the weather, but we have adapted to it, and we will not be in a bad mood because of cloudy and rainy days! Therefore, we should face everything that happens every day with a casual mentality! Just like the grass, quietly enjoy every sunrise and sunset, sunshine and rain, wind and rain, spring, summer, autumn and winter, life and death!
Even in fact, it is very normal, not that I can change this phenomenon.