How do you get out of the way? 20, How can I mix my head?

Brother, I used to be a jerk and now I'm a full-scholarship international student. First of all, I'll turn your questions in turn, but the decision is up to you.

1. If you want to really mix, what you have to do is very simple, pretend to be that (harmony, b), and have the strength to pretend to be that, because in this process, you may be beaten, you may be beaten by the group (harmony), so your own strength is the most important thing. Friends with the so-called bosses in your mouth, know a lot of the bosses, and gradually you yourself will become a little famous. Remember, don't do these things deliberately, try to keep the bosses interested in you, and I suggest you check out Dale Carnegie's The Art of Speaking

2. Look at this problem, you are yearning for social development, society is not better than school, you must remember that no matter what you do in society, you must have a skill. Look at those gangsters outside, don't think that they can't do anything, among them, the basic condition is to dare to fight, really do war. Even if they are very weak, they dare to do it, just like when you see someone you don't like, do you think you can beat it hard, but these, especially when you see that you don't like it, you can fight, it's just a matter of gangsters.

It doesn't matter if you have money or not, you can get people to be interested in you, that's the most important thing. Because that's how you can make "friends".

3. I don't want to say much about this, every boss comes out of a gangster himself, and he is a gunman under others, which is incompetent, if you are really capable, the boss will treat you as a brother, not as a subordinate.

Having said all this, I've taught you the basics anyway, and you have to mix up the rest to feel it yourself, and you won't be able to understand it just by teaching you. It's like momentum, pretending, and being experienced, you can see it at a glance.

As I said above, I am now an international student on a full scholarship, because I let go, because I used to think I was very good, but I met a person who really knows martial arts, 19 years old, more than 10 of us with sticks and steel bars can not beat a bare hand, I am now that person's apprentice, the most important thing that the master taught me is to be humble.

Seeing so many of you in everyone, they are all persuading you, as a person who used to mix well, I just want to ask you, have you ever thought about your mother.

You are a good student and do not be in the same circle as them. It's all right.

No matter who you talk to, respect everyone, go out to play and talk as little as possible, and say something real, and if you say too much, you will lose.

This classmate, I want to tell you, you don't have to mess with any boss to have a good time, go to school is to study, not to mix with society, study hard, don't regret that you don't understand anything when you enter the society in the future, you haven't learned anything, the important thing is that your family spends money to let you study, you shouldn't let them down, you should do your best to study hard, learning is only good for you, so don't always want to mess with any boss like a little adult! Kid, I'm a person from the past, and it's hard to find a job now, so you have to study hard! I'm not worried about you for your points, I'm just watching you ask such questions and worry about you!

Hope mine can wake you up!

Take a look at the Crazy Boy series, you can do it, buddy!