Grandpa passed away, and the next day, people came to pay the gift

Grandpa passed away, is it okay for someone to come to the deputy manager the next day? When your grandfather dies, he will be buried if he finishes his account. It's OK. If the eggs are laid, later. The next day, someone will come to you for care or pay you again.

is not acceptable. It's not good for you to say it. You can't collect money, so it's okay to have me on the day of my burial, and it's past the day. It's not good for you to make up the gift in the collection, don't accept it.

Yes, as long as the person dies and is not buried, the person who comes can pay the salute and mourn, but generally not after the burial.

Relatives and friends can come to give gifts the day after the grandfather's death, but they can't give gifts after the funeral.

Yes, people come to give gifts with sincerity, and the festival is smooth.

It's okay if someone comes to take care of you the day after you're there, but not after you're buried.

This is okay, in terms of etiquette, there is no consideration, such a thing, as a family and friend, it is best to send it on the same day! Hope.

There's nothing you can't do, it's impossible for your grandfather to know and come just after he passed away, it takes time.

Yes, as long as your grandfather is not buried, you can worship

When the old man dies, the family will discuss how many days to keep filial piety, and then find a "correspondent" to report the funeral to the homes of relatives and friends, telling them how many days to keep the funeral, when to cremate, and so on. If you come in advance, keep the account first and inform the funeral time.

There are local customs and habits, and you can do this kind of thing, and the main people who come to pay the gift are your relatives and friends, don't refuse.

If the family is done with the funeral, there is no need to collect gift money.

The funeral should be a gift on the day of the funeral, not to make up the ceremony, let alone to the ceremony in advance, if it is a wedding, you can make up the ceremony in advance, remember!

Yes, as long as you don't bury your grandfather in the grave, you can go to the deputy manager, and this kind of thing is also very appropriate.

When a loved one dies, it is normal for others not to arrive in time to make up for the gift afterwards. Absolutely.

It is not possible for people to come to pay the gift the next day after the grandfather dies, and according to tradition, it is not possible to make up for white things, because it is unlucky.

Summary. Hello kiss, I'm happy to answer for you, kiss if you participated in your grandfather's activities, is a relative at home, no matter what to do, you can't participate, Chinese custom is to take filial piety during the period, do not participate in various happy events of relatives, most of them have this taboo, pay special attention to oh, the older generation of people are particularly particular, can not destroy this custom, otherwise it is called taboo. If it's not about the various relatives in the family, it's okay to participate casually.

If others don't know, it's okay, if you don't say it, it's okay, you have to pay special attention to this matter, otherwise it is taboo in the ancestors.

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Hello kiss, I am happy to answer for you, kiss if you participated in your grandfather's activities, is a relative of the family, no matter what to do before the mountain thing, you can not participate, Chinese customs are filial piety period, do not participate in various happy events of relatives, most of them have this taboo, special scum regret burn do not pay attention to Oh, the older generation of people are particularly particular, can not destroy this custom, otherwise it is called taboo. If it's not about the various relatives in the family, it's okay to participate casually. If others don't know, it's okay, if you don't say it, it's okay, this matter should be paid special attention to, otherwise the taboo in the ancestors.

If you go to Dai Xiao, you can't participate in the happy event, and it's okay if others don't mind, but I'm afraid that people will mind, and they will blame you if they encounter anything bad in the future.

The actions of the two elders are obviously unreasonable, because the money is not their own, but should be more than one person. Even if it is custom, it should not be collected by the elders, it should be collected by the direct children of the deceased, for funeral affairs, generally collected by the eldest son of the deceased, why do Chinese favor sons? It's not because you can rely on men to raise and send you to the end of your life when you're old???

All matters of the funeral should be handled by the son of the deceased, and this is the custom throughout the country, including answering the salute and doing it.

Seventh, there is no son who can be handled by his daughter and other matters, and other people in the family can only assist, not when they are old, even if they are your grandfather's own brothers.

So the two elders are unreasonable both in terms of custom and law. The correct custom is that the funeral of the landlord and your grandfather should be presided over by your uncle, both uncle and uncle, and if you do not have an uncle, it should be presided over by your mother.

It seems unreasonable to listen to you say this, but there is no fixed thing in this matter, there is no absolute right and there is no absolute wrong!

And there is no legal provision for this kind of thing, so no matter what, a lawsuit can't be fought!

It can only be said that it is an internal matter of the family, if such a situation really occurs, it is recommended that the family hold an internal meeting and negotiate the arrangement in a unified manner!

The customs are different in different places, and some places treat funerals as unlucky. There are not many people who are willing to come, let alone not receiving gifts.

If you say that, it depends on the local customs, and you'd better ask your local respected elders, because they have a basis for what they say.

It should be a gift for whoever you want, and the gift money should be for whomever it is.