I loved her so much that we broke up, and the day after we broke up, I wanted to get back in love. H

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It seems that you are on the spur of the moment! You also know that you are wrong! It's not too late!

    Since I regret it! Use your sincerity to ask her out! Talk to her!

    It's best to make an appointment in the evening! Go to a quiet place and talk to her! Remember!

    Don't be too impulsive! Just tell her what's going on in your mind! Be sincere!

    Good luck my friend!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Think about why she thinks you're annoying and has nothing to say. Love will get tired after a long time, so don't be old-fashioned. Of course, you still have to love her seriously. But as for how to love, you have to guess the girl's heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's hard to help you, I don't know what problems are happening between you, different problems have different solutions, numbness to reconcile is a palliative not a cure!

    It is recommended that you talk to her well, say where the problem is, correct it, and then we can be together well in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now that you've been given a chance. Just think about why she broke up with you and what you didn't do well enough. It will be corrected later.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love her, love her well, your heart is the most important thing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parted? There is bound to be a reason, there is no language between you, then there is a lack of common problems, and we need to work together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's difficult, it's hard to collect when covered with water, and it's hard to break the mirror.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you and your ex are both in love with each other and want to try to salvage the relationship, here are a few suggestions you can try:

    Ask for a reconversation: If your ex wants to, ask them to retalk and be honest about your feelings and hopes in the conversation.

    Admit your mistakes: If you're at fault for what led to your breakup, admit your mistakes and try to make amends.

    Ask for help: If you feel that you are unable to solve the problem independently, you can seek the help of a professional marriage and family teacher to better deal with the relationship problem.

    Try to change yourself: If you feel like you're falling short, try to change yourself and try to become a better person.

    Hopefully, these tips will help you salvage your relationship. Keep in mind, however, that the final outcome depends on the wishes and efforts of both parties, and is not something you can decide on alone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you still like your ex-girlfriend, then you can chase your ex-girlfriend back and let her be impressed by your sincerity. For example, when chasing your ex-girlfriend, you can buy some small gifts for your ex-girlfriend, these gifts do not have to be too expensive, but they should represent your heart. In this way, you will be able to make your ex-girlfriend feel your sincerity and let your ex-girlfriend get back together with you.

    If you particularly like your ex-girlfriend, then you should chase your ex-girlfriend back, so that you will not leave regrets, so that your love life can be very happy, and you don't have to envy their love life. Because you have already been in love, you have a better understanding of your ex-girlfriend's preferences, so you can buy some gifts that your ex-girlfriend likes, this gift is not very expensive, but it must be full of some care, so that you can feel your sincerity, so that your girlfriend can be moved by your sincerity, and she will be able to be with you. Therefore, when chasing your ex-girlfriend, you must not chase with a dead face, and you must show sincerity, so that your ex-girlfriend can feel that you really like her, and you can make your ex-girlfriend change her mind.

    In fact, girls are relatively easy to be satisfied, only boys really like girls, and that girl can be with you.

    In the process of chasing his ex-girlfriend, the boy must talk to his ex-girlfriend and solve the misunderstanding, so that love can start again and let us feel the beauty of love. If the boy still insists on his own ideas and does not change his mind, then the girl may think that the boy is too stubborn, and it is possible that some boys will be together. Therefore, boys must make girls feel that they have changed, and let girls feel their sincerity, so that girls can change their minds and let girls get back together with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you should confess to the woman, in fact, you should also explain your attitude, so that you can be better together, and it can also make your life better, in fact, you should also make more changes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you should apologize to your girlfriend, and at the same time make changes, and let your girlfriend see your corrections, so that you can better redeem her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should tell the other party about your thoughts, and you also need to prepare some gifts for the other party, and propose in front of many people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since she chooses to break up with you, maybe she has no love for you anymore, because most girls don't break up with their boyfriends casually, it's all deliberate. If you still want to make amends, then you must first figure out the reasons for the breakup, so that you can improve and give each other a little more time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have all broken up, and if you want to redeem it, it depends on whether he has you in his heart? And is he sick? If he doesn't have you in his heart, he can't redeem it if he wants to.

    Still is? Find someone to communicate with you first and see if he has you in his heart? If you really don't have it, don't try to redeem it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your girlfriend broke up with you.

    You want to redeem. The best thing to do is to change yourself.

    It is also advisable to find out what the reason for the breakup was.

    Then adjust the symptoms.

    It's possible that your girlfriend will change her mind when she sees it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do you know what the nature of love is? That is - concessions and sacrifices. The psychologist Fromm said that love is not just an experience and a feeling, but an ability.

    The reason why many people in this world don't feel love is precisely the embodiment of their "love inability". In other words, when we learn to give in and sacrifice to the people we love, we actually have the ability to love. Do you have the will to make "concessions and sacrifices" to that girl?

    Love involves two people, and she is a matter of two people. It's not like you'll be able to chase it. Love is not something to be chased.

    There is a certain process for the generation of love. First by acquaintance, then acquaintance. Finally, there is love, and in the whole process, the foundation is generated by contact, understanding.

    True love cannot be produced without contact and understanding without contact. I can't help but remind you that one of the signs of a person's maturity is "learning to give up". Because life is always incomplete.

    Many people suffer a lot precisely because they don't know how to give up. When you have the wisdom to give up and clean yourself, you will suddenly open up, and life will immediately show you a completely different picture. There is a very classic sentence in "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon":

    When you clasp your hands, there's nothing in them, and when you open your hands, the world is in your hands. Many times we should know how to give up, there are few times in life when we can have both fish and bear's paws, and every time we give up is to get more rewards next time. Clasp your hands, there will definitely be nothing, open your hands, at least there is hope.

    Those who have the courage to give up are shrewd, those who are willing to give up are smart, and those who are good at giving up are clever. Learn to give up, let go of the pain of loss, give up the hatred left by humiliation, give up all the unspeakable load in your heart, give up the energy-consuming quarrels, give up the endless explanations, give up the competition for power, give up the greed for money, give up the struggle for fame, give up the troubles, get rid of entanglement, and immerse the whole body and mind in relaxation and tranquility. If a tadpole is always showing off its tail and is reluctant to give it up, it will never grow into a free-jumping frog.

    Don't forget, giving up is to have better. Giving up is a kind of detachment, a kind of bearing, but also a kind of sublimation, a kind of realm. Love is indeed what we pursue all our lives, and family, friendship, and love constitute the connotation of life.

    However, when there is a lack of love, we can only re-examine ourselves, improve ourselves, and perfect ourselves. When we show our value to society and to others, we can regain our love in love. You know, if you choose to give up, in fact, you haven't given up love, because you still have love in your heart, otherwise you wouldn't be so miserable.

    Give up this love and find another love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since you can't forget it, keep trying! Who told you to say those two words easily...

    No matter what she says or does, you don't give up on a principle, give yourself time to work hard, even if it really doesn't work, I don't think you will be so painful at that time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If this is a relationship breakdown, it is really irreparable, you can try to change your work and lifestyle, think more about the happiness after leaving, and don't dwell on the memories of the past, which may be forgotten gradually!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How is it possible, if it is true love, it will definitely not be returned, you must be lonely, or someone else has hurt you, so you want to eat back grass

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Now it's up to him to feel about you, I think, it's better to fight for it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Scorpio man,,, Alas, brother, be alone for a lifetime.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't force anything, feelings are the same, after a long time you will find that it is a good thing to be separated, you will be separated, there must be a reason, and this reason, is not a trivial matter, otherwise it will not lead you to break up, look at things and things correctly, everything is so beautiful, when we encounter a mountain that is difficult to cross, we all have to be strong to go through, because our life continues, I hope you make the right choice. Thank you!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Admit your mistakes, whether you can be together or not, it is necessary to admit your mistakes, otherwise you will be a sinner in a lifetime who hurts the person who should not be hurt in the most disgusting way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Even if you think about it, you can't go back to the past, why not just let it go and let each other be happy Feelings are like a blank sheet of paper, once there are folds, you can never go back to the beginning, and retention is not the most useful.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Have you ever wondered why she broke up with you? Is it her or your own? Of course, there are external reasons. There is no right or wrong thing about feelings

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He's also waiting for you to turn back. It's just a matter of face and who will be sovereign later. Take the initiative. Even if I was rejected, at least I tried my best. Fought for. Don't let yourself regret it ...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let's see what the reason is, so that we can "prescribe the right medicine".

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hey, let it be, don't force it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

    True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

    True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

    Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

    If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

    Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

    Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

    If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

    Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

    It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

    It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

    In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

    With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

    It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have yet...

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Since you know that she still has you in her heart and loves you, why do you want to break up with her? Breaking up is very emotionally hurtful and very sad, unless there is no emotion at all. If you want to redeem yourself, find a suitable excuse to meet with her, or invite her to dinner, and talk to her about your true thoughts!

    Tell her that you don't want to lose her, you can't lose her, you want to love her well, but it must be sincere! If you don't want to have a good relationship with her, but you just want to continue playing with her because you feel that she still loves you, and you just want to have fun, please let her go!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It is relatively easy to recover the breakup you have just broken up, but you must pay attention to it and use the right method to redeem it, otherwise it will only push it further and further. I have the following suggestions that I hope will be useful to you.

    The first step is to face the fact of the breakup, and stay calm and reasonable. After suffering a breakup, many people want to escape the fact of the breakup, thinking that they will not break up if they don't admit it; Some are ghosts crying wolves and humblingly trying to keep each other, hoping that they will not leave.

    Either way, it is not a practical measure to avoid or give up everything to save the other party, and the result will only make the other person more disgusted. If you can face the fact of the breakup and treat it correctly, the other party will not run away because of your abruptness.

    The second step is to find out the root cause of the disease and analyze the specific problems. Let yourself calm down first and analyze the reasons for the problems in this relationship. If the breakup is caused by one's own unilateral reasons, what you should do during this period is not to quickly recover, but to work hard to correct your own shortcomings and make up for your previous mistakes.

    For example, some girls like to do it, and in the end they make their boyfriends leave in complete despair, they always think that boys are good to them now, and they will never leave them for the rest of their lives, but in the end there is nothing.

    In addition, if it is a boy's problem, then try not to disturb them as much as possible during this time period, and at the same time reflect on whether they have their own reasons for their problems, such as the improper way they deal with problems themselves, which indirectly leads to the aggravation of the problem. Therefore, find out the specific reason for the breakup in order to improve the chances of recovering him.

    Redeem the third step, change yourself, and attract the other person a second time. When the above two points are achieved, it can be said that "everything is ready only to owe the east wind", and this east wind depends on the timing on the one hand, and on the other hand, it needs to rely on itself.

    When you clearly realize the reason for the breakdown of the relationship, you change your temperament and image, appear in front of each other at the right time, increase your boyfriend's good impression of yourself through the improvement of your internal and external image, and finally be willing to reconcile with yourself, which is the charm of the second attraction.

    The love life is very simple, so simple that we just look at each other in the crowd and determine eternity; But it's so complex that we not only hurt others, but we also hurt ourselves.

    We must always believe that a good love is not about two people with equal conditions combining each other, but about being willing to be better for each other even if they are far apart. May your love always win and be undefeated, and your lover always by your side.

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