How can a person who has closed his heart live happily?

Open your heart and believe that the world is beautiful (in fact, it is quite beautiful, hehe) Don't immerse yourself in it anymore But you will definitely encounter a lot of setbacks and difficulties, at this time you may feel depressed, but don't despair! When you encounter a difficulty, don't back down and overcome it! Believe in yourself, live strongly, live happily, come on! Wish.

Such a person will not be happy in any way, if you treat one person with a hundred sincerity, and that person does not pay attention to your actions at all, and ignores the help of others, I think even if there are too many friends who want to help him, he will not be able to start. The origin of things in the world is two-sided, and it is impossible to complete the whole journey of life by relying on one side.

Try to accept others, your heart is closed, only temporarily, for the time being, you haven't met the person who stirred up the waves in your heart, if you want to live happily, don't be afraid to reveal your true self.

Happiness doesn't make much sense, it's simple. As long as you are optimistic about everything, you can have happiness and happiness! I wish you happiness ...

1. If you can, take him out to travel, see the outside world, feel the beauty of nature, and make him feel that the world is still very beautiful;

2. Then you can mobilize his friends, be sincere, care more about him, talk to him more, talk to him more, warm him, move him, make him feel that there are actually many people around him who care about him, and let him feel the warmth between people;

3. If possible, find him a job, preferably the kind of job that can feel warmth, vitality, and hope in life;

You should also communicate with his dad, hoping that his dad can communicate with him more.

Take your time, probation is not an overnight thing, as long as you persevere, you will definitely be able to refill him with hope for life.

A lot of things come from our hearts, if you want to change, ask yourself if you have the strong determination and perseverance, and make your own decisions in life!

You need someone to get in touch with him, and when you get acquainted with him, you will be able to say anything.

Now you are like me once was. There must be a reason why you are like this, there will always be subconscious unhappiness at work, you must find the reason and overcome it, don't let it develop and cause depression. You have to find ways to overcome it, open your mouth to say hello to others, stay with friends more, don't think about unhappy life, think about things that are worthy of your happiness, just think, if you are happy, you will succeed, no one can easily make you unhappy, no one has this ability.

You also have to accept reality and don't run away from it. Have the courage to explore new things, don't indulge in your own world, explore more, experience more, people will be emotional when they experience less, and you have to suffer a little. You can't live passively, you have to be excellent when you live.

You have to think about it, human life is only once, it's not good to live the life you want to live, always sad, what's there to be sad about, have you experienced any great joy and sorrow in life and death, you can ask for help, it means that you know that you don't want to be sad. Realize that you are wrong, then at the same time, you can also change yourself, don't worry about burying your talent, the real poet is to write happy events, less experience, for the new words will write sad poems, I hope that one day you can accept the reality like me, change yourself, don't stay aside if you have nothing to do, contact more with friends, and think more about the people and things around you! Use your brain more and practice more, come on!

You can, be confident!

Dear landlord.

To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you?

Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you bless him silently, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him.

Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.

Seek help from a psychologist It's better to find a counseling room than a hospital, because hospitals usually lack training in psychological counseling, and it's usually neurologists, especially general hospitals, the largest brain hospitals in the area, and private counseling rooms are much better.

If you have a mental illness or a tendency to depression, you can go to the largest brain hospital in the local area, but don't go to the psychiatric department of the general hospital, as I said above, they lack training in psychology or many common mental and mental illnesses, and only have the knowledge of mental illness.

Psychological problems are difficult to get out of on your own, difficulties and waste time, may waste good years or opportunities, psychological counseling room is the best choice, although ** is not low, but can solve the most difficult things for you as quickly as possible.

You can first go to the Youth Psychological Counseling Center for psychological counseling, and then walk around more, see the harmonious and happy side of passers-by, go to a lively place to feel the atmosphere of the crowd, if there can be public welfare activities or something, you can work hard to participate, slowly change little by little.

Don't you feel the good things in life? Cultivate your own hobbies, although it is very depressing to work outside, but you also have to learn to be busy, I am also more depressed in my heart, but not as serious as you, I also dropped out of school, and now I am staying at home, I think I am ready for the outside world, first work, don't care about the high salary, as long as you can maintain your life, choose the kind of work that is more idle, and adapt to it first.

---What do you mean by saying this??

--Or what do you want to learn??

Personality can change, habits can change--- change is very simple, family --- parental relationship --- have little to do with you. Can you tell me what you want to do?

Change yourself, go out more, go around, hang out with friends, travel and get together. Slowly it will be cheerful.

As long as people are open-minded and have a lot of them, they can live happily and learn to find their own happiness. People live to live a happier and happier life, and a happy life must be earned by oneself. In order to pursue his own happiness, he has the desire to fight for it, and for the goal of life, people must work hard, find fun in their work, make their monotonous work full of fun, make themselves carefree, physically and mentally healthy, live peacefully and comfortably, and live happily every day.

If there is no fighting spirit, faith, and perseverance, people may be subjected to all kinds of means of the world and struggle to survive. Therefore, in order to make our lives happier, we must set a goal in life and do our best to achieve it. First of all, it is necessary to establish a correct outlook on life and the world.

Man is the soul of all things, because man has the ability to think, that is, the extremely complex and rich subjective inner world unique to man, and its core is the outlook on life and the world. If a person has a correct outlook on life and the world, he or she will be able to have a correct understanding of society, life, and everything in the world, and be able to adopt appropriate attitudes and behavioral responses. It can make people stand tall, see far, and deal with various problems calmly and steadily.

Do what you want Without any external interference and constraints, you can be happy by living for yourself

In fact, the sky is very blue, and the clouds will always disperse] [In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore is connected to the other shore] [In fact, dreams are very shallow, and everything is natural] [In fact, tears are also sweet, when your heart is as you wish] I believe that whether you are happy or not at this moment, seeing these words will make you feel much more relaxed! In fact, people living in this world can only experience a lifetime if they taste all the ups and downs, and how can they know what happiness is without pain and trouble! So friends, you have to learn to mediate your emotions, live bravely, and believe that fulfilling every day will make you feel happy!

Good luck.

Closing a door opens a window. Wood has absolute closure, there must be a breakthrough, only the person who knows him best can open the breakthrough, this person may be a girlfriend or a boyfriend or your care. I hope she gets sunshine soon.

For a closed girl, it takes a special person to open her heart, and patience is required.

More contact, more help, more closeness, more understanding, or expect him to be concentrated by the thunder and suddenly his personality has changed greatly.

That has to slowly open a small opening from her psychology.,And then follow the vine.,Find the reason for the closure.,Slowly enlighten.,Of course,This also depends on his skills in enlightening that person.。。。

Follow his hobby, or something else, and slowly approach her, and then... It's good to have a heart-to-heart talk.

Try to enlighten him. Tell him a story.

1.Spend your heart on him

2.Let him do what he is interested in, and at the same time reach out to other people to accomplish it together.

Befriend him or her first, then take him or her to a circle that interests him/her. As long as you don't dislike it, it will be fine slowly!

Talk to him more, he will naturally trust you very much, and after a long time, he will regard you as the person he trusts the most, he will naturally listen to you, and will communicate with you about everything, and slowly the knot will be opened, and he will not be so closed to himself.

Talk to her often about your experiences or take her out to play.

Let him talk to you first, then tell him what he is happy about, then become a preliminary friend, and then find a way to enlighten him.

First of all, you must gain her trust in you, and then share your feelings with her, so that she will feel happy to share and be willing to confide in others!

Heart disease also requires heart medicine, and the bell must be tied to the bell!

Genuine care, silent attention, communicate with her more, and change her through some activities

Care for him when he needs to tell him jokes.

The environment can make a person and change a person, let him change a new environment, can change his environment, what kind of environment do you want him to become.

Talk to him and tell him jokes.

Then you should try to contact her as much as possible, some people have a two-sided personality, and it is good to be cold on the outside and hot on the inside.

Contented people are always happy, don't care about unhappy things, they will be happy Extraordinary does not mean unhappy, depending on what kind of extraordinary you are in, if you are extraordinary because you are better than others, then you can think like this, you can choose to make yourself ordinary, and ordinary people do not have this qualification to say that they can make themselves extraordinary. Then you are superior to others, then you should feel better psychologically. If it is for other reasons, because very many things that have not happened to you, making you feel difficult to adapt and unhappy, then you change your mentality to deal with this problem, and your extraordinary life is destined to be more wonderful than others.

Then think about it backwards and enjoy this extraordinary life.

Nine times out of ten, we should learn to forget. Afford to put it down, think more about happy things, and control your emotions. Method 1; When you're in a bad mood, use your consciousness to change the subject, or do something else, such as listening.

Watch TV. Play. Playing chess, walking, etc., to distract yourself

This can lead to emotional reliefMethod 2; Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, big sandbags, etcVenting the worries that have accumulated in your heart will also be beneficial to your physical and mental health

However, it is necessary to pay attention to the object, place and occasion of catharsis to avoid harming others. Method 3; When you want to get something, or want to do something but it doesn't work, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a proper reason to comfort yourself, which can help you accept the reality in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude. Hope it helps.

At the same time, I wish you a good mood every day.

Be less calculating and be considerate of others. Think more about the other person We have the willpower not to change ourselves, but to ask others. Have a pair of eyes, don't look at yourself, and find fault with others.

This is where troubles arise. Be your own master. Completely mastering one's own behavior will not affect one's inner firmness because ordinary people can't be their own masters, and they can't control their inner thoughts.

Let him fly around. I can't even perceive my sincerity. It's all too scattered in the heart.

So filter through meditation. Scattered hearts. Achieve a central force.

Know your own heart and be happy alone. Not because he has more, but because he cares less. Master your own heart, don't let him, mess around, is to master your own behavior, it is also equivalent to mastering life, learn to smile, learn to be happy, learn to be strong, learn to smile and face everything in life, take your mood relaxed, don't think too much, breathe in the fresh morning air, feel the taste of nature, o(o....

More importantly, don't care about the word "happy", real happiness is actually around you, feel it with your heart, come on. I'm not angry when I'm angry, but if I'm angry, who is happy. There is no one to replace the sick when the gas comes out.

Understand that everything is a condition, a phenomenon that arises from the aggregation of causes and conditions, that it is not fixed, that it is born of causes, and that there is always a time of disillusionment. The Diamond Sutra says that all the Dharma is like a dream bubble, like dew and electricity, and should be viewed as such. You won't cling to the pain.