Would you fall in love because you were lonely?

It's hard for me to choose to be with others because I'm lonely, and it's always been like this, and it will still be like this.

Since I can remember, since I have been single for more than ten years, why do I need to start a relationship inexplicably because of a moment of loneliness? So when many people say that they are lonely, I sometimes laugh, haven't I always been alone in junior high school or high school? Rather than following the trend and finding someone to spend four years, or feeling very lonely and finding someone to go through for a period of time are inexplicable reasons.

If one day you find the meaning of life, will you still give up this relationship?

So I cherish the beginning of every relationship, I can't have a good impression of each other, and I definitely don't try any love easily, because love is a matter of two people, when you start absurdly, the other party is likely to be serious, and when you spend your whole life to love all your life, you find that the other party just has a playful attitude is extremely irresponsible, which will cause a heavy blow between two people.

I've met women who have pursued me for several years, and I'm sorry that I don't have a liking for them, but I haven't been able to confess them, causing them to spend a lot of time on me. I also began to pay attention to my words and deeds, to avoid causing harm to some people, love has never been a reasonable thing, but we are reasonable people, if you have no feelings, please avoid hurting the person who chooses you in the vast crowd.

I have also been in love with the woman I liked, although in the end it could not continue, but that feeling has always lingered in my heart, that is the original beauty, it is the early spring tree, the fragrance of the lotus flower in midsummer, the autumn sun, the winter plum blossom.

No matter what others think, I regard love as a sacred thing, not to be faced with absurdity and jokes, but to exchange sincerity for sincerity, and to seek freedom in a lifetime.

I don't fall in love because I'm lonely. My family is now in pairs, except for my younger brother, who is younger than me. Every time I see my brother-in-law's husband and wife singing and following me, I "kneel and beg" not to show affection and abuse our single dogs.

The two of them always laughed and said, if you feel lonely, find a boyfriend. I always laugh off the subject, because my heart is: "Don't."

> I think that love is really something that can't be asked for, and prayer can't come. Love depends on fate, and I probably haven't met the other half who makes me very excited yet. My family is also busy working for me, finding a "blind date" for me.

However, I never met the kind of person who made me feel excited, so I rejected them one by one. They always told me not to be overly critical and not to say no first. You have to be with these "objects" first, and it's good to talk to someone if you're alone.

However, I'd rather be bored talking to myself than chatting with someone who "doesn't talk more than half a sentence". I think it would make me feel bad if I had to talk about something with someone who didn't have a common topic at all. I like to chat, and I know the horror of loneliness, but I'm even more afraid of the embarrassment and coldness that I can't talk about.

So, I'd rather talk to myself, watch TV, and sleep by myself than accept someone I don't like. In this way, I will feel very wronged by myself, and at the same time, I can't stand the other person.

Therefore, I am determined not to find someone to fall in love with just because I see others in pairs, but I am lonely and lonely, and then I am very anxious in my heart. I think it's a blasphemy against love. At the beginning, it was a grievance and a promise, so what should I do in the future.

What do grievances and exquisite love rely on to sustain it?

If it's really lonely for a long time, it's possible, because if it's really too lonely, it's good to find someone to accompany you, but if you're in love, you have to take it seriously.

In fact, today's love will be called fast food love, that is, because before we fell in love, we didn't have a deep understanding of each other, and then we hurriedly started a love, and many people started a relationship because they saw loneliness. So why is that?

People will always feel lonely at a certain moment, but some people will choose to endure loneliness, and then find a person who is really suitable for themselves, but some people will choose to start a relationship because of loneliness, maybe the other party is not the person they like, but it seems that it is not so lonely to have his company. In fact, this is also because in today's society, there are many people who fall in love, just to cope with their parents, and they may also be very lonely, so they accept their parents and then start falling in love.

And for some people, falling in love is a pastime, they can get a sense of happiness in this relationship, and they can no longer be so lonely. In fact, there are friends around me who are like this, just because they are lonely, so they start a relationship, not because they really like each other. And the people around them are constantly falling in love, and some are even married and have children, in such a situation, they may be even more panicked, thinking that they should also fall in love as soon as possible, get married as soon as possible, and then have children.

The feeling of loneliness is actually very ethereal, and we can't even describe it well. But it is true that some people choose to start a relationship because of loneliness, because at this time we will feel that falling in love with someone is not a bad choice, and in this process, we can feel very excited and can fill the emptiness in our lives.

Because the feeling of loneliness is very painful and can make life worse than death, so they need to get rid of this bad emotion, so they fall in love with a purpose. Especially nowadays, the Internet is very developed, and you can have a relationship by hooking up with others on social **.

Because they are lonely, they experience the feeling of helplessness and silent crying at night, and they want someone to be with them, even if it is to talk to them and have someone to talk to.

Because I am afraid of loneliness, I want to find someone to accompany me to share my loneliness.