Would you end the relationship because of a long distance relationship?

Two people who are emotionally stable and in a long-distance relationship is actually a big test, and two people who are emotionally unstable or in a long-distance relationship at the beginning is more of a death. Because of the concealment of different places, coupled with the fact that they are not around each other and do not see each other all year round, even if the relationship is stable, the feelings are easy to fade, and if there is external intervention at this time, it is easy to have an emotional crisis. And even if you have a good foundation and have been in contact for a long time, even if there is no external intervention, it is possible to break up for other reasons.

At this moment, if one of you is in a state of insecurity, you will definitely collapse in the end, because everyone can only do 50% of their own, and if any one of you can't do it well, it will end up being a breakup. There are many reasons for the success of a different place, but the core is the test of the inner security of two people, if you are both very secure people, the probability of breaking up is very low, and if you are all in that naïve state, or even only one person is in a naïve state, it will end in a breakup.

The most important thing about maintaining a long-distance relationship is that the two of you must have a common goal for the future. I think there's only one way to keep a relationship going "boyfriend and girlfriend" in the name of "boyfriend and girlfriend", and that's if the two of you have decided to create a future for both of you together, with the same goals. If not, but just "like" the other person, then I think it is the best choice not to bind the other person with a name, and to retreat back to being a friend.

Having a strong common goal will be the motivation for the two of you to fight loneliness and move forward together. There are often many couples who take the step of long-distance relationships, but in fact, two people do not have a common goal for the future. If two people's hearts are not the same, and they only maintain a relationship because they "like each other very much", and they don't have the consciousness of wanting to go with each other for a lifetime, then the long-distance relationship will be very easy to be unbalanced, and the last two people will end unhappily.

So if you judge that the goals of the two of you are not the same, it is the best choice to retreat back to "friends" and propose to break up on your own. This way you are not bound to each other, and it will be easier than ever to get back together in the future, because the relationship has not been broken.

I was in a long-distance relationship a year ago and am single now. The topic of long-distance relationships is heavy for me. Perhaps only by experiencing it can you appreciate the ups and downs.

As for whether to break up or not, it depends on your experience. If you can stick to your love then continue to connect, if you can't do it, only pain, I suggest you have a good conversation and talk about your thoughts. It's either a long-distance relationship or a breakup, and there are also long-distance relationships that are happy together.

But there's no denying that a long-distance relationship requires considerable courage and determination. In the dead of night, you can experience the taste of longing, and think more about the person you like by your side. After experiencing it, you will know that "the pillow is full of moldy dreams, and the dreams are full of people who can't have them".

So, in the end, he is not a single dog but lives the life of a single dog.

I'm also in a long-distance relationship at the moment, and it's just started. The boy in a long-distance relationship is my classmate in my first year of high school, in fact, when I was a freshman in high school, we had a while, he was the kind of boy who was very naïve at that time, he had to know all kinds of QQ passwords or something, I was a year older than him, and I didn't like someone to discipline me, so I broke with him at that time. Then after we were divided, we were divided into arts and sciences, I was in the liberal arts class, the class was on the first floor, he was in the science class, the class was on the third floor, and it was the kind that couldn't be bumped into no matter how you walked.

Later, in the college entrance examination, I was admitted to an ordinary one, and he failed, I didn't know it at the time, after all, I had been separated for so long. Later, he repeated the study and finally got a good one this year. He said that he would fall off the list because of me, and in the past three years, he has never let go, and of course he doesn't want to be separated from me from now on, and he will fall off the list because of psychological entanglement.

Later, he came to chase me again, because of his insistence and my little guilt, I agreed to be with him, and I was only moved at that time, but I didn't like it. After we were together, my personality was very sensitive and I liked to think a lot, but he would explain me over and over again, comfort me, tell me little jokes, and my feelings for him still didn't change much. It wasn't until he came to see me during the holidays and got along with me that I gradually liked him, so a long-distance relationship is not terrible, it's not about breaking up, it's just that distance is really a problem, you have to meet him more, and if you don't meet, you also need to communicate, communicate more, let him or yourself walk into each other's hearts more.

A lot of things are not one or two things, but also think about how he usually treats you, how you treat him, and the financial problems of long-distance relationships. Of course, if you express this need, and dozens of kilometers are not far away less than an hour, I think I should go as a boyfriend. If you choose a person, you should also choose to trust, care about each other's feelings, and consider each other for each other, rather than making each other feel more and more tired, otherwise the resentment will explode when it slowly accumulates to a certain extent.

Learn to communicate, learn to express your dissatisfaction instead of suppression.

The pressure of long-distance relationships is very high, their own psychological pressure, the rejection and opposition of their parents and family. These can be obstacles. The biggest obstacle is their own uneasiness, and the relationship between the two people is always very far away.

I can't help if I have a problem. Slowly, I will feel insecure from my heart. So I'm not optimistic about long-distance relationships at all.

In the big world, I saw me a year ago, I was repeating like you, she was in college, and she was about the same distance. Now she and I are not as beautiful as a fairy tale, but we have extended the time in a different place. Not in the same city to go to college, not in the same channel of the weather, only under the same sky.

If you want to get along with her, you must be sure to be in the same university or in the same city as her.

I've always been discouraged from long-distance relationships, and I feel that long-distance relationships require a test of two people's patience. A lot of people are backing down halfway. I don't want my feelings to be so entangled.

The main thing is that there is no sense of stability. Always uncertain, not wanting their future to be weighed on by this hopeless relationship is.

My boyfriend and I have been away from home since high school, and now it's been almost eight years, and there have been times when I wanted to give up, but I persevered.

Because of the differences between men and women, there is a big deviation between boys and girls in the comfort of long-distance relationships, and boys feel that long-distance relationships can't be together from time to time, so they should usually be busy with each other, and then meet or contact when they are free, which makes girls feel very cold. And girls feel that since you can't accompany you often, you should contact more and stick to the loser more, which makes boys annoyed. So many times there are signs that a long-distance relationship is coming to an end, and the boy may not be aware of it, and the ending of the breakup is actually hidden in some small details.

1. Long-distance relationship girls don't do it

Many boys may feel that their long-distance girlfriend is very pretentious, they have to say good morning when they get up early, share food and talk with her at noon, say good night when they go to bed at night, and need to enlighten her when they encounter troubles, and feel that they can't finish all day long. But the guy has to understand that the long-distance girlfriend is still willing to do it for you because you are a special person for her, otherwise she may be a different person.

Braised beans: My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, I found that the two of them occasionally say hello, I think the two of them are very cold, but he feels very comfortable, as if he is busy with his ideals, there is a little daughter-in-law at home and waiting for him like a sock, but although I also have my ideals, but I hope to be able to share all aspects with you usually, if you can't do it, it is better to be single. When I get close, sticky, he cooperates, I feel very hot, but soon he doesn't cooperate, I want to do it, if I don't do it for a long time and don't stick, then my heart will be cold.

There is a boy who is also in a long-distance relationship with his girlfriend, and when it comes to the back, when the boy feels very comfortable and stable, suddenly his girlfriend mentions breaking up, saying that he is ambiguous with his little brother in the same office, because he is too lonely. The boy looked confused: I thought everything was fine?

Second, they are unwilling to communicate with each other

Long-distance relationships are inherently maintained by communication, as well as a sense of trust and security. Look at what the other person is like! What are you like!

Then both of them give way to each step! Girls learn to be independent, and boys learn to accompany. Or find a way to be compatible!

Isn't that what a long-distance relationship is, work hard to run in together, don't hold it for too long and then break out. And in the process of running-in, if both people work hard, there is no problem, if there is a clan elder who is not hard enough, or is unwilling to communicate and make concessions, the ending is basically goodbye, because the person who is willing to give in will break out one day. Then, seeing the other party's efforts, you will have a sense of security, generally long-distance relationship girls need a sense of security, and when the sense of security is enough, then you can rest assured that you can spread it casually.

To summarize the signs that a long-distance relationship is coming to an end, on the girl's side, it may be that the boy is cold, he can't stick to it anymore, and he wants to change someone. On the guy's side, it may be that the girlfriend is independent and well-behaved, giving him a lot of time to do what he wants to do.

Although the place of work is in two cities, it does not affect the continuation of this relationship, and the long-distance relationship is not so terrible, and there will be no problem in facing it correctly.

1.First of all, both parties in a long-distance relationship must choose to believe in each other and respect each other. In this way, even if it is a long-distance relationship, it will not cause too many contradictions due to suspicion and other reasons, I believe it must be the premise, so that there will be no problems in long-distance relationships.

2.Strange signs of love to communicate more, through**, voice, ** and other ways can be. Through such communication on a long-term regular basis. It allows both parties to understand each other's lives and integrate into each other's lives even if they are in a different place.

3.Long-distance relationships are not scary, the main thing is to put your mind in order. If you miss each other, you can also go to each other's cities to see each other. Now transportation is so developed. Long-distance relationships are not as scary as imagined, just face them correctly.

4.For some trivial things in life, you can share them with each other in a timely manner, and your happiness and sorrow can be felt by the other party even if two people are not together. There won't be too many problems either.

Because of the distance between me and the other person, I gave up the person I liked for a long time. When we were in middle school, when we were together, the teacher said that we couldn't fall in love, because falling in love would affect learning, and the two of you couldn't come together in the end, but at that time, I really didn't believe that falling in love would affect learning, and I also felt that if the two of us insisted on the choice, neither of us could affect the relationship between the two of us. But now that I think about it, it's not unreasonable for the teacher to say those things, because he is from the past.

Maybe it's because the two of us have been together for longer and longer, so there will always be some inexplicable contradictions, and there will always be quarrels over trivial things, and when I encounter these contradictions again, I don't know how I should solve them correctly.

The long-distance relationship is really hard, we didn't get into the same university, and the two of us were not in the same city in two different provinces. So I think when we encounter some problems, the two of us can't do anything at all, okay, my sister used to have some conflicts when she was in school, which could make the two of us angry for a long time. Maybe it's because we're too young and don't treat feelings particularly maturely, and sometimes we really need a hug from each other, but it's because of the distance between the two of us, which makes our hearts more and more tired.

In the end, I chose to break up with the other person, because I felt that it was much easier for me to find someone who was in the same school as me during the four years of college than to like someone who was very far away. But it turned out that I was wrong, and after the breakup, I realized what was most important to me, and I didn't have the time and energy to meet someone again, to like someone again. I can't give up the relationship between the two of us, because after all, I think the two of us have been together since middle school, and the relationship between the two of us is relatively pure and beautiful.

I also envy those couples who are still in a long-distance relationship, and I hope that all lovers can eventually become married.

It depends on the situation, if I am in love, I will say, "I will give up my current job and friends for the sake of my partner." Go to a strange city. "But in a sober state, I'll think about it carefully.

For him to give up his job, he must not make a decision impulsively, but if two people really want to be together, but they are really troubled by a different place, then they still need to analyze the current situation rationally.

It depends on the nature of your work, your work experience, if it is very good, not the kind of easy to give up, then you can also let the other party quit and come to your city, I think it still needs to be compared, if both people are excellent, then I believe that it is very easy to find a job that you are satisfied with in the new city, after all, it is not easy to protect a sincere love, and don't be stingy where you can pay, in love, you sacrifice a lot in this regard, then I believe he will make up for you.

In my eyes, going to his side is not only to accompany him, but also to have someone to accompany me. Love, in my eyes, will be more important than work after all. If the other half is really worth your stay, you can find a job again if you don't have it, and it will be difficult to meet the right person if you miss it, so why stick to one city.

And if two people don't live in each other's circles for a long time, their understanding of each other will slowly decrease. Everyone will grow at different times and in different environments, and their thoughts and emotions may change. For long-distance relationships, the other party may be a fantasy person, who is not around when they really need each other, if you are frustrated and hungry, a timely person may appear by your side, give you warmth, give you encouragement, and help, I believe that this person will slowly enter your heart, will you still stick to a person who is far away from you and can only give you a few words of comfort, or that you can control yourself but how sure you are that you have always held on like this, and how sure are you that the other party is also as persistent as you?