It is recommended for friends between 20 and 30 years old who have rich emotional experience! Thank

Hello. I've read your story very seriously. Now that you are old husbands and wives.

Then they know each other well. Judging by the comparison between you and that woman. Your husband thinks you don't understand him.

Men are annoyed by women's chatters. So now she happens to be mature, sensible, and sensible. I don't talk to him like that.

If you want him to come back. It's not a stalk. He actually asked you to help him get that woman back.,It means that he really doesn't feel for you at the moment.,Or he doesn't feel it for a while.。。

I think you should be perfecting yourself and keeping a distance from him. The relationship between men and women is also like a spring, and if he cares too much about him and sticks to the lake, he will have a sense of depression, and coupled with chattering, it is easy to have disgust.

Maybe with you until the business starts to go downhill. He was certainly dignified as a man, and he was also frustrated. As soon as you say it again, he's annoyed.

Keep a little distance from him, let yourself be mature, sensible, and sensible. You can be friends, but don't help him reconcile with her, and of course don't sabotage, just friends, ordinary friends.

Now that you have decided that you have to accept him no matter what kind of person he is. Accept his shortcomings, including his lack of motivation. Or cold to you. Only when you don't care about these things, he will not feel oppressed.

Let it be. Give him some space, and don't be kind to him. When he notices your transformation, or suddenly becomes unaccustomed to your coldness, or he and her begin to contradict. I think he came back naturally.

You don't understand him, he doesn't encourage him, he doesn't care about him, so he doesn't feel happy with you at all.

You say he doesn't talk to you, even if he talks to you, can you make him happy?

In fact, the two of you should communicate more when you are together, no matter what, you must understand each other.

If there is no way to change the shortcomings of your personality, you can only say that your personalities are incompatible and not suitable for being together.

You have to learn from your rival, and you should be able to win back his heart.

In fact, having said that, you also have an unshirkable responsibility, you let your husband lose interest in you, try to change yourself, dress up more, be more gentle with him, don't always say that he is not good, give him the trust and care that other women can't give! Men are afraid of this.

Don't eat back grass!!

There is no good man at the end of the world, why choose him alone.

The more you are like this, the more he doesn't know what to do!!

I've obeyed you, what's so good about that man.

One night I saw you say this question with three numbers...

It's because you met me! When you meet others, you will live like a year.

It's okay, it's faster when you run 4.

Time flies, and only a good attitude is what we don't change.

Even if the years are barren, I am willing to wait quietly with you.

No matter how fast time flies, you are still you.

Are you happy? Are you happy as such a you? You're a good person, as long as you live in peace. As for your girlfriend, you're only 17 years old, what's the hurry, it's normal to fall in love and break up, you'll meet Bole.

You need someone who understands you, especially your lover, who must learn to understand you!

Are you really 17 - if ......I still have to tell the truth!

Grasp the present and live in the moment!! Be kind to each day!

Perseverance, the most valuable quality.

Always look forward

There is no regret medicine in the world

There are four stages that a mature relationship needs to go through.

A psychologist once wrote that there are four stages that must go through a mature relationship that qualifies as true love, and that is:

Codependent

Counterdependent

Independent

Interdependent

The time it takes to transition between phases is not necessarily and varies from person to person.

Phase 1: Coexistence.

This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (your) other person (she) has become your (your) closest person.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, like this.

The second and third phases will be shortened.

It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily.

The two got together because of fate, and they knew each other because they had a heart, and they really had to cherish this blessing, let alone break up.

If you don't stick to the past, then it means that you have no fate.

It is important to know that twisted melons are not sweet.

Men lie basically depends on how much sweet talk women need to listen to.

No one has never fallen on the muddy road of love, only stupid women or stupid men still like to get entangled with the mud on the ground.

She or she should be glad that she didn't fall into the well instead of complaining about the mud on the ground staining her clothes.

What kind of woman likes to find a man.

There are women for every virtuous man.

What kind of broken feet are what kind of broken shoes are worn.

It's not a family, it's not a door.

It's just like like to gather like things.

In fact, many things or tragedies are actually caused by oneself.

The wretched will have something to hate.

Mourn its misfortune and be angry with it.

So each other, each other.

Men don't have to be pitiful, and women don't have to be speechless.

Feelings are actually easy to gather and disperse.

After talking about feelings so many times, and being deceived by others, or having to drill into the fire pit, who is to blame?

I can only find the specific reason from myself.

The is self-deprecating, and the is self-agnossing.

If a person is a shit, he will always find a fig leaf.

A woman is a pig, and it all depends on men; Men are born cheap, and they are all deceived by women.

The wretched will have something to hate.

Love is not endless forbearance and compromise, nor is it accommodation and numbness.

Lovers should choose mutual tolerance and understanding, and at least learn to respect .........

17 years old is just an ignorant age, not very mature but very simple in terms of feelings, and everything is often imagined to be very beautiful. In fact, it's normal, everyone comes from this age, and there is no need to have too much burden. There are no fixed rules and standards for emotional problems, and no one can say that they must be right or wrong, but feelings must need fate, and they can't be forced.

It's also an asset to go through something. As for what you'll think when you're 20 years old, it's hard to say, because as you get older, you change, and it's unknown what you will become. "Handsome" is only one factor in love, by no means the only factor, let alone a decisive factor, because there are many more important than handsome, such as personality, sense of responsibility, ......

In the eyes of the lover, this is normal, girls will like handsome guys, you like him, think handsome, think he is good at everything, but others may not think he is handsome, you are still young, you should focus on learning, if you waste your studies because of this, the gains outweigh the losses, and besides, you like him, he may not like you, or study hard. When you are successful in your studies, go find your significant other.

17 years old is an age that seems to understand whether you understand or not, and you are still in the time of innocence, thinking that everything will be too beautiful, naively thinking that the handsome is the best, but between boys and girls is not good-looking and handsome, it depends on the character or suitability, and when you grow up a little more experience, you will understand more, don't worry, people will grow up one day, then you will understand a lot of things.

The relationship between two people can't be measured by being handsome, and it's the most important thing to live a life, everyone is my handsome guy, I don't know how many boys are going to be singles. People are different from each other, and people with diverse appearances and personalities are everywhere, and not everyone necessarily has to be handsome to talk to. Some people are handsome but attentive, some people are not handsome but are excellent in other aspects, in short, you have to talk about fate, you can't blindly pursue the line, you have to consider many aspects.

In fact, it's normal for you to like handsome guys, not to say hurt this age, many women are so like handsome boys, it's just that some girls don't say it, and some girls are particularly introverted and shy, so they never say it, but girls looking for a boyfriend can't just look at the appearance, but also understand the character of the boy you like before making a decision, so that you don't eat Kui!

On this topic, there are great people who love beauty, of course, everyone likes young and handsome, whether it is a man or a beautiful one, but this is a wish, if you have been with him for a while, you will not think so, why? It's not unreasonable for you to be worried, no matter what, two people are together, and they also need a certain economic foundation, if this man is handsome, and he refuses to be motivated, what's the use, and he is not excellent in all aspects, is it useful? When two people are together, the most important thing is to care for each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other, so that they can live a good life, of course, they must rely on themselves to fight for it, they should be able to think about problems, learn to be independent, and don't always rely on others to do the best.

17 years old, a life full of contradictions and difficulties, children's shoes, please use positive knowledge to take care of your immature mind. Don't look at **, go see the ** of celebrities, then you will accompany her or him through the rest of your life in the book. You will use your ingenuity and ingenuity to correct the trajectory of your life.

There are many kinds of energy in a person, but life energy is consumed the fastest.

Because when people look at people, the first thing they see is always their faces. People yearn for beautiful things the most, and being handsome can certainly attract people's attention. And girls tend to have weak resistance to beautiful things, so for this, handsome boys are very popular.

Of course, finding a boyfriend depends on your final choice, and the person you identify is your choice, whether it is right or wrong.

Young men and women like others more intuitively, that is, they look at their faces first and pay little attention to other aspects. At your age, it's normal to like handsome guys. And it's often easy to lose your mind for the sake of feelings. As you get older, you become more and more rational.

Thinking handsome is just your subjective consciousness, if you think he is handsome now, he may not be seen by everyone in the future. At the age of 20, you may like to be sunny and handsome, and at the age of 30, you may like to be responsible.

In fact, I think everyone has a love for beauty, and this is not your one's aesthetic tendency. But we should realize that it is not that being handsome means that a person's morality and psychological quality are good, these are two different things, and they cannot be confused. I think it is more important to observe a person's heart, which is what a woman should pay more attention to and pay attention to in the second half of her life, thank you.

This is normal, the first thing a person sees must be the face, good-looking people are always liked, girls like handsome guys, boys like beautiful women, there is nothing wrong with it, however, appearance is what attracts you, but it can't be something that retains your heart, because the outside will change over time, when he is not handsome, will you still like him.

I like to be handsome, beautiful, and everyone has a love for beauty, which is understandable, and it is normal, but you are only 17 years old, is it early, or focus on your studies, and when you succeed in your studies, there will naturally be no shortage of handsome guys and beauties around you......

You can't eat it when you fall, the key depends on how the person's character is, whether he has any responsibility, and how he is too much for his parents and the elderly It also depends on whether he is good to you, and his appearance is like an embroidered pillow, it is useless, and he wants to find a real person who is married and does not need a gorgeous appearance, but often many people are confused by the first impression.

It's normal for little girls to like handsome guys. But it's better to find someone who is reliable and good for you. It's good-looking, and you can't eat it as a meal.

Ignorant girl feelings are always connected with simple naivety, appearance oriented to love, and so on in a few years, with the growth of age and rich social experience, it will not be so simple to look at problems and think about things, in addition to appearance, there are many aspects such as personality and economic income.

Either..

1. Fancy your money.

2. Normal desires.

The woman who is mature and experienced takes a fancy to this, and the 30-year-old has the advantage.

And also.. A 30-year-old man is looking for twenty to have fun, looking for thirty is to get married [not including lustful men] [nor including money men], looking for forty is asking for money, and he may leave after taking the money! And all the people in their forties are old, a good man unless you are virtuous and virtuous, cooking and laundry are all-inclusive, and you have a good heart, no one will want it!