In the past, you can not forget, but you must let go of how hard it is to forget

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That person, that incident, I will never forget.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Question 1: When dealing with a relationship, the real letting go is not to forget, but when it comes to it, there is no longer a wave in the heart! No more heartache! Yes, when I mentioned it again, I didn't feel a ripple in my heart at all.

    Downplaying everything is because I still remember these memories, but when I think about it, I no longer feel heartache or discomfort, I don't care at all, and when I think about it, I just smile faintly. Your current pain, in a certain period of time, will disappear. But don't force yourself to forget, go with the flow, think about it when you think about it, but don't forget to live well, enrich yourself well, cherish the existing life, and don't miss it once and miss it a second time.

    I wish you happiness. Question 3: Are letting go and forgetting in a relationship two different things If you can't forget him, don't forget it. Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him. The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed. There are those who cannot forget, but who deceive themselves and say, "I have forgotten him. However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

    One day, you'll forget about him. True forgetting doesn't take effort. One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember. That's forgetting.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

    Question 4: The real forgetting is not to stop remembering, but to think about it occasionally, but there are no more waves in the heart...But if you think about it from time to time, it means that you haven't put it down yet.

    Question 5: Forgetting is not not not remembering, but when you think about it, there are no more ripples in your heart, isn't it? You should not forget, but really let go of the previous feelings, no longer entangled, come out, and understand the emotions.

    To say that forgetting (downplaying is still reality, unless amnesia) is not easy, it is more like escaping and self-deception, and many people always want to end up forgetting certain emotions. Since it is a relationship that once existed, wouldn't it be nice to use it as your past and memories? You've done a good job.

    Question 6: Is it true to let go of the occasional reminder that there are no more waves in the heart? No, people are not ruthless animals, letting go is just letting go of the attachment in the heart, but how can the heart be able to let go!

    For example, you are picking up more and more stones along the way, and then you are overwhelmed and you put down the stones, and from now on, when you think about it, can you say that you forgot the burden at that time?

    Question 7: Have you really let go and forgotten your first love? Yes, it's not that I forget, but that relationship is diluted, and when it is a memory, it will not affect the love in the future!

    Question 8: How can we really forget a person and really let him go?! Grind with time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's hard to forget.

    Oh, very deep love.

    Such love.

    It's hard to forget.

    If it's you. Would you want to forget about it?

    If you can't forget, don't forget.

    Deep scars.

    Do you think that if you don't look at it, it will really disappear?

    The deeper the wound, the more you have to take it out to see the sun.

    Hiding in a dark corner is more likely to grow bacteria.

    The wound rotted deeper and more thoroughly.

    It's better to learn to face it.

    Something. What happens is what happens.

    No matter how hard you try.

    Nor can the fact that it ever existed be erased.

    It's not that you can't forget.

    It's that you simply don't want to forget.

    Deep down in your heart, you are not willing to give up this period that brings you pain, but at the same time, it also brings you many happy memories, and there is no pain where happiness comes from.

    So since I don't want to forget.

    Don't forget. Learn to be relieved, learn to let go, and learn to be open-minded.

    Someday. You will find out.

    This is a memory that you have always wanted to erase.

    It turns out that there are also many good places.

    At that time. You'll be glad you didn't choose to forget.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why do you want to forget it?

    After all, you have good memories too, haven't you?

    If you can't forget it, don't forget it, let it become the nourishment in your life, become your storyOnly people with stories can have a brilliant life.

    Isn't it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The past cannot be easily forgotten, but it can be kept as the best memory in your heart.

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