I broke up with my girlfriend under special circumstances, and I don t know how to get it back

It's really hard for you to achieve the results you want to achieve in your current state. I don't want to let go, and there's no good way, only the fish die and the net is broken... You have such thoughts that it means that your heart is still nostalgic for her first, but you feel very unwilling, because you feel that you have paid a lot for this relationship, and she was originally chasing you, but now she has given up, which makes people feel a little lost, the glory of the past or the loss of being loved.

If you want to grasp a handful of sand, as long as you gently hold it, the more you hold it, the more it will leak, so you might as well try the other way around, that is, let go, if she really loves you, she will come back sooner or later... Maybe you will say, what if she doesn't come back, it proves that she is not worthy of your love at all, let alone worthy of your sacrifice for her.

There are also some so-called love experts who will choose to be a husband who is suitable for a husband, and a lover who is suitable for a lover, that Lin Huiyin is like this, she and Lu Xiaomanbi, I still prefer Lu, I don't like women like Lin, real love is to pay, and some people want everything, it's too selfish. My former girlfriend said that she loved me after breaking up, I couldn't listen to it, I wasn't that stupid... It's far away.

In short, I think let's give myself some time first, and then think about ways to keep it, and don't do stupid things, because it's not worth it.

Let's talk about it sincerely...

After all, it's not easy to really like someone.

What do you think?

Perhaps there is a kind of love called letting go.

Don't be impulsive....You are now so understandably dripping....Dead hearts, right? You do your best to redeem....If she still loves you....Will definitely come back to drop....She's still young, though....It's hard to say....If it's not good, you can't...The regret drop must be her....Just do your best....Don't regret it...It's too realistic, after all....An idea doesn't last forever....Good luck....

The saddest thing in a relationship is the complete loss of the love that has been obtained, the loneliness of losing the love of life and the despair of not getting it, are very painful things, it is very painful to break up, but it is a kind of torture for lovers who are still emotional, and they want to try to redeem it, but they can't get a response from their girlfriend.

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1. Steps for emotional recovery

1.The biggest obstacle to emotional recovery is the breakdown of trust, which is the foundation of how couples get along. When there is no trust, it is the easiest time for couples to break up.

2.When your girlfriend proposes to break up, it means that she has completely lost her trust in you. If you try to redeem it at this time, it will only make your girlfriend have negative emotions such as resistance, disgust, and disgust.

3.When getting along, you should make your girlfriend feel comfortable and feel that you won't interfere in her affairs. In short, you should gain her trust. This is known as building trust.

4.After trust is established, many people's emotional recovery psychology is exposed. This intention will create a conflict with your girlfriend, so your girlfriend will ignore you completely.

In order to solve this problem, at this time, you should try to chase the girl, don't be too anxious, and slowly break through the psychological defense line of your girlfriend.

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2. What should I do if my girlfriend completely ignores me

1.After the girlfriend proposes to break up, there will be strong resistance due to the boy's emotional recovery, so it is not wise to go directly to the girlfriend at this time. In the proximity effect, people tend to build relationships with people they see often, and can then use their girlfriend's best friends and girlfriend's best buddies to create social situations – such as parties and plays.

Get in touch with your girlfriend through these methods.

2.In the process of recovery, you must remember to provide value. The girlfriend completely ignores you just because your actions seem to have a purpose and intent. In fact, this is the most taboo in redemption. What boys should really do is provide value.

3.While the boy provides value, he will also get positive comments and praise from the people around him, which will play a great role in guiding his girlfriend to change her views and impressions. In the process of getting along with your girlfriend, it is very important to grasp the communication signals, so that your girlfriend and you can rebuild their relationship.

The steps to save emotions are to apologize to the other party first, admit their mistakes, and then buy the other party some favorite food or favorite bags, give them to the other party, and promise the other party that they will not do it again next time, so that you can save the emotion; If you ignore you completely, you need to reflect on why the other party ignores you, whether you are not good enough, find out these problems and then communicate with your girlfriend, and promise your girlfriend that you will not make such mistakes in the future.

You should apologize as soon as possible, and you should also write a letter of guarantee to tell the other party that you did something wrong, and you should have a particularly good apology too much, you can also order takeout for the other party, say some nice words to the other party, you can say some love words, take the other party to go shopping and eat, and you can also take the other party to travel.