After a breakup, I asked my girlfriend for money. Is it appropriate to break up with your girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your girlfriend is really good, and the cuckolds have been brought home... It doesn't matter what she does, what her tone is bad, it's not that you did it wrong, what she does, what you care about, even if you do something out of the ordinary, it's nothing. If you want it, you want to be white.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Did you lend it to her?

    This woman is clearly taking advantage of you.

    The purpose of being your girlfriend is to borrow money and fulfill her mother's wish, she is too selfish, too much of that, and if I exchange it, I will find her to pay it back. Such a woman is really hateful. Owing flat!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, even the brothers have to settle the accounts, of course it is natural to owe money to repay debts, the tone is very bad, it is likely that you don't want to pay back, you are miserable and have become a debt collector.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Dude, you're being taken advantage of, so you should be looking for a J

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't ask for it, we don't care about these, it's piao.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This isn't a girlfriend.

    Breaking up was the right choice.

    You can disappear for a while.

    If you can't afford to provoke, you can only hide.

    And that so-called pigtail.

    Never care about that.

    Even if your family knows, it's nothing, after all, it's always a family.

    Man. Be yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Friend, I don't think you should give him money, you should go with him, you see what I said is right, even if you break up, you have to be right for yourself and others, and there will be no regrets in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If she asks you for money, in what name, if it is tightly compensation, it is reasonable, if the reason she puts forward for asking for money is unacceptable or coercive, it is blackmail, you must know that blackmail is not a trivial matter.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't give! After having one time, do you feel that there is no second time?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hey, it's clearly for the money!

    Let's settle things sooner!

    When you first looked for her, you didn't realize how much she loved money more than you ?!? you

    I've been with people so many times, what's wrong with giving some money?!?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How did you fall in love with such a girlfriend?? I'm puzzled, don't you know her when you're in love? It's so wrong for her to do this, how can there be such a thing?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you break up, if you want the other party to repay the money, it is a matter of course, after all, you are the person who kindly lent money to the other party, if the money is not a lot, there is no need to entangle, and the man wants to ask his ex-girlfriend for money to spend, it is not appropriate, depending on what your situation is.

    Personally, I think that if you have thousands of dollars, you can communicate with the woman to pay it back, after all, whose money is not blown by the wind, of course the two of themTry not to rush to communicate about this matter

    Many people in love after a breakup will be anxious to repay the money, because both parties voluntarily spend money for each other during the relationship, but the repayment depends on the circumstances under which the money was borrowedWhether there is a basis for itAs long as the other party admits that this part of the money lent out, it is possible to get it back, after all, everyone still has to pay attention to feelings, most of the boys if they don't lend too much money to each other, they won't be unhappy for a little money.

    There is also oneAfter the man broke up, he turned his face and didn't recognize anyone, The man who asked you for money actually had many girls ignore each other, and they were glad that they broke up in time. In the process of love, it is impossible to calculate who will pay for whom, after all, it is both parties who are paying, which is not a good thing, only a scumbag will do this.

    Falling in love is actually a good memory, but after the breakup, the man's request makes the heart dislike this relationship, and it seriously becomes a money transaction.

    In a relationship, if at the beginning forThe other party spends money as a kind of business, after the breakup, I feel that the business is lost, so this relationship might as well continue.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the relationship stage, spending money is usually unavoidable. I broke up with my girlfriend, is it appropriate to get the money spent on her back? Let's take a look at this issue together:

    In the process of falling in love, spending money on the person you like shows that you value her in your heart and care about her, if it wasn't because she cared at the beginning, there would be no such things. Since it is love, whether it is because of this relationship or his own face, he should not ask her for money. If you don't want to lose yourself, you should not spend money at the beginning, and you should not fall in love.

    AbsolutelyEveryone will have a different idea. Some people may feel that since two people have no relationship, they should be clear, and then put aside the relationship and go their own way.

    In fact, how can it be calculated? There are some things that don't have to be counted in the first place. Feelings are all things you want me to do, and so is spending money.

    Since something is over, let it end. On the journey of life, there are always some things that become the most profound lessons in your heart, and the gains and losses will also make you grow faster.

    You can use the above information as a reference. We're not the parties, we can't relate to your feelings, and we don't know how much you're spending. But if the amount is large, you can try to solve the problem through communication for valuable things.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your girlfriend spent a lot of money with you when she was together, you must explain to each other before you break up, if we can become a family, we won't ask you for money, but now we have broken up, so you have to give me back the money. If you spend some small money, then it is not necessary, it seems a little too stingy to ask for it, and it will also affect your reputation, so it can be more appropriate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not good to ask your girlfriend for money after a breakup. If he used to take a lot of money from you, then you can explain it to him. Say we've broken up, and you should give me back the money you borrowed from me.

    If we could be a family, I wouldn't have asked you for the money, but now that we've broken up, you have to give me the money back, just tell him. If you don't have the money to spend and want other people's money, then you're wrong, it's not appropriate, you're a big man, you shouldn't ask for money for someone's girlfriend after a breakup, right? I wish you a happy life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It doesn't seem appropriate to break up with my girlfriend and ask for money.

    After all, when we are together, we also love each other.

    What she spends for her is also her own willingness.

    If you want money.

    Then there will be no memories of the previous relationship.

    So if it's not a big amount.

    Then don't ask for it.

    When they are separated, they are all right.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course it's inappropriate, because after a breakup, you can't ask her for anything, let alone money, and you shouldn't disturb her life, and if you break up, she won't give it to you, because it's also in the past between you, so it's not appropriate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not suitableSince you put a question mark, it means that you also know that you know to break up with him, and it is inappropriate to ask him for money in the future, no matter what the reason, you actually broke up with your girlfriend and it doesn't matter if you two of you, you can't talk about asking him for money again.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is it appropriate to break up with your girlfriend and ask her for money? If it is the bride price of the two of you who are engaged, and the man proposes to break up, the money cannot be asked, and if the woman proposes to break up, the woman must also return it to the man. If it's the money you two spend together, whoever proposes to break up, you shouldn't ask for it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think since I broke up with my girlfriend, I still don't need my girlfriend's money, because a big man dares to act, don't worry about women, this money will be used as a gift to him, slowly your girlfriend will figure it out, if you want to give it is two different things, he will hate you for a lifetime, if you don't want to, he will treat you as a friend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it is not suitable, they are all right, they do not interfere with each other, and they go their own way, which is not good for pestering others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what kind of money it is, how much it is, if it is the money that the two spent together during their relationship, then there is no need to ask for it back. If the amount is relatively large, or the money borrowed from you by your girlfriend, and you have a transfer record, this situation is okay.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think it's appropriate, even if you're played, man, there's no reason to get something back if you give it away. But if you need it, I think it's very unlikely.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know what money you want, if it's when you are dating, it must be appropriate, if it's the cost of you going out to play together, then forget it, this will leave the other party with the image that you never loved her, and it's better to break up decently, if you have a common circle of friends, then you're going to die.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Since we got along once, we broke up. There's no need for a little money, if you borrow money, you can ask him, and if you give it, don't ask for it back. Acquaintance is also fate. It's also normal to spend some money on you. It's too stingy for you to come back.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you break up with your girlfriend, if you don't give her valuables, it's best to dispel the idea of asking her for money, because it's not easy to ask for money, and if you don't do it well, you will be infamous for being scheming and stingy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If it's a voluntary expense during a relationship, or a gift transfer, it's certainly not appropriate to have it after a breakup, because it's all voluntary.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It must be very inappropriate, if this money is from you and your girlfriend, I think you can get this money back, or you will be completely separated from your girlfriend, don't think about it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not suitable, even boyfriends and girlfriends shouldn't borrow money like each other, let alone break up, what is it like for a man to ask for money like a woman!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's definitely not suitable, since it's a breakup, it's going to be broken cleanly, and there can be no more contact.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Of course it's not appropriate, how can you have such an idea! I don't know what kind of money you want.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If it is a couple's daily expenses and break up, there is no need to care about the other party's money. After all, we are all adults, you and I will. If you bought a luxury item or a large amount of money for the other party, you can apply for it back.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course it's not suitable, since there is no fate, they have broken up, so why do you have to ask people for money? It doesn't fit at all.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Just use the money to buy memories, there's no need to go back, it feels like it's too stingy.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I broke up with my girlfriend, is it appropriate to ask him for money? If you let me say, you and your girlfriend are not married, it is the time to fall in love, you put money on the girl, and you don't have much money, if I want to say, you broke up with the girl, you can't ask the girl for money, then it's not appropriate, right? After all, the two of you have been in a relationship for a long time, and that's it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    His girlfriend broke up, is it appropriate for him to ask for money? This must be inappropriate, since they have broken up, how can they ask people for money?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If it has been decided that you will break up with your girlfriend completely, then I can ask him for money, but if the cost is not particularly much, there is no need.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    No, that would make you look stingy. I'm afraid that after you ask for it, girls will say bad things about you to others and affect your reputation.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you give it voluntarily, forget it, if you borrow it, you will definitely have to get it back.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you have a lot of money, you can ask for it, if you have little money, then you don't want it.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Summary. The money transferred to your girlfriend may not be able to be returned if you break up. Expressing love to the other party during the relationship, especially transferring money to the other party on special holidays or transferring amounts with special meanings, will be recognized as a gift to the other party, and cannot be returned after a breakup.

    If it is a gift to the other party for the purpose of marriage, and it is a transfer in the nature of a bride price, then the two parties can get it back if they have not broken up after getting married.

    Legal basis] Article 5 of the Supreme People's Court's Interpretation (1) on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section, where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained to fall under the following circumstances:

    1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

    2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

    3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

    Can I get money back to my girlfriend after a breakup?

    The money transferred to your girlfriend may not be able to be returned if you break up. Expressing love to the other party during the relationship, especially transferring money to the other party on special holidays or transferring amounts with special meanings, will be recognized as a gift to the other party, and cannot be returned after a breakup. If it is a gift to the other party for the purpose of marriage, and it is a transfer in the nature of a bride price, then the two parties can get it back if they have not broken up after getting married.

    Legal basis] Article 5 of the Interpretation (1) of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section, where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; 2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; 3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

    Ok thanks.

    Can I show you the ** Zhang, which has a breakdown on it.

    Even if there is a ** and a detailed item, it may not be possible to come back. to be in accordance with laws and regulations.

    Okay, thanks.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Summary. The gift of small amounts of property or daily consumption expenditures during the period of love shall be regarded as necessary expenses for maintaining the relationship or joint consumption of both parties, and should not be required to be returned, and the gift of large amounts of property is often a gift for the purpose of marriage by one of the parties, and its gift may be regarded as a gift with a condition for dissolution. It is recommended that both parties negotiate and settle it first, and if the negotiation fails, it is recommended to entrust a lawyer to intervene to collect relevant evidence, such as IOUs, notes, etc., and then sue the court in time to request a solution, so as to protect your legitimate rights and interests to the greatest extent.

    I broke up with my girlfriend and spent the money, should I get it back?

    Hello. This is a pro who doesn't want to come back.

    The gift of small amounts of property or daily consumption expenditures during the period of love shall be regarded as necessary expenses for maintaining the relationship or joint consumption of both parties, and should not be required to be returned, and the gift of large amounts of property is often a gift for the purpose of marriage by one of the parties, and its gift may be regarded as a gift with a condition for dissolution. It is recommended that both parties negotiate and settle it first, and if the negotiation fails, it is recommended to entrust a lawyer to intervene to collect relevant evidence, such as IOUs, notes, etc., and then sue the court in time to request a solution, so as to protect your legitimate rights and interests to the greatest extent.

    And the money you spend during your relationship is not protected by law.

    The money spent voluntarily by individuals and the money transferred to give red envelopes will not be returned.

    Hope mine is helpful to you, dear

    The problem is that she broke up.

    Kiss. You have an absolute right to get this money back.

    You can ask for this money.

    I spent more than 60,000 yuan in half a year.

    But if the other party gives it or not, I don't know if I pro.

    You can ask for this money, but whether the other party gives it or not is her business, and you have to negotiate.

    Even if you go to court, the chances of your money coming back are relatively small.

    It took 6w for half a year, which is indeed a lot.

    You can ask her for this money.

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