How can you control the emotions of liking someone in your heart?

The best way is to stay away from him, and find a way to find out the shortcomings of that person, write them down, and remind yourself all the time how bad that person is. Then devote yourself to life and study normally, enrich your own small world, such as making more friends, reading more books, and even creating some career ...... you like

The second is to wait for the opportunity, not to think about him, to start by not talking to him, not to contact him, not to have any intersection with him, slowly, let time dilute everything - you will have a new life of your own.

The second is to find someone to replace that person ......This method is actually not very good, and it is easy to hurt the "substitute" and hurt yourself.

Love is this thing, the more you control, the more crazy it is, if you want to control your heart to like someone, it is better to choose to keep yourself busy, there is no time to meet the person you like, when you are busy, when you are tired to fall asleep, the love in your heart will be weakened.

Feelings are the most impossible for us to control, if you can, there will not be so many people who can't think about it after falling out of love, but you really don't want to like someone anymore, you don't want to deliberately think of this person, otherwise you will never forget him, arrange your life full, let yourself have no time to think about him, and slowly the feelings will fade.

If you like that person and want to control that kind of like, then you can think about what are the shortcomings of that person, and then you keep these shortcomings back and forth in your head, trying to amplify it, then you will slowly ignore his advantages, so that you slowly don't like him so much.

Liking someone is like getting drunk on a drink, and I'm very intoxicated and enjoy it, but it can also affect my personal life in the long run.

I'll get busy gradually, and when I don't have time to take care of the person I like, I'll slowly forget about it. Therefore, it is very effective to enrich yourself if you want to forget about a person.

Don't think about anything about him.

Keep yourself busy, make your life full, fill all your time, compress the time to think about that person, maybe after a long time, you really forget about him.

Emotions are uncontrollable, so you can only choose to forget them or make them stronger.

Why control the emotions of liking someone? How good it is to be brave enough to confess, even if it is rejected, it is a good experience.

In fact, you should know how to control your emotions, and sometimes don't always think cranky, so that your emotions will not be casually out of control.

In addition, you should also know how to accept your emotions calmly and not always hide them.

It's really much harder to control your feelings for someone than to love someone, keep yourself busy, whether it's learning sports or making yourself beautiful, so that you don't have time to think about him and make yourself a better person than him.

In that case, it should be much better.

Because we really like someone, our hormones may be particularly vigorous, from a psychological point of view, it means that if you really like someone, you will be psychologically uncontrollable to move closer to each other, and then you will pay special attention to some things about the other party.

Because people's emotions are difficult to control, they are generated unconsciously, and this is not controlled by the brain. Sometimes emotions can affect the heart and hormones.

Because they will be particularly interested in each other's affairs, and they will put all their eyes on each other in life. I think that's particularly true, and it's human. There are some things that attract you.

You can't identify yourself, don't agree, don't accept yourself, popularize this psychological common sense, for example, this woman has a habit of cleanliness, the house is cleaned three times a day, the chairs that others have sat on are wiped and wiped, T can't accept that it is not clean, and in T's heart, he feels that others should not be unclean. First of all, everyone's energy is limited, from being small to managing oneself and managing one's family, and it is already very tiring to be able to do these things well. If you still want to take care of unrelated people and things, then this person must be living an unhappy life.

In interpersonal interactions, each of us craves intimacy with people. Intimate relationships include harmonious and harmonious relationships between husbands and wives, lovers, lovers, and both sexes. There are often people in this relationship who break the balance, even solipsism, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

As the saying goes, when the woods are big, there are all kinds of birds, and there are indeed such people in the world, who always want to control others, interfere with neighbors, relatives and friends, think they can, are self-righteous, and seem to be enthusiastic, but in fact they deliberately blur the boundaries between people. This kind of person feels good about himself, has always been relatively good, does not accept bad reviews, loves to come up with ideas, and does not like to be ignored. As soon as something happens, he rushes to the front, often crossing the line, pointing fingers at others, and meddling in things.

Pursue perfection, want to be superior, belittle the value of others to maintain their dignity and authority, show their own difference and omnipotence, to hide their inner emptiness and inferiority, longing for the recognition of others and sometimes feeling powerless. A person who likes to command people is a person who lacks a sense of control over his life and has no boundaries. In their world, their aggression is nothing more than good intentions, and if you don't accept it, you "hurt me" and use it to control you.

It's narcissism, they just like to command others.

It's the same psychologically, the feeling that a person is desperately looking for is often what he lacks the most. Just as a person who lacks love cares about whether his partner loves him, a person who lacks a sense of control over his life cares about whether he can hold on to others. If you're uncomfortable, is there anyone else who feels uncomfortable too?

You need to work together to solve the problem, not to understand the psychology of the person who likes to command others, but to tell him that you are uncomfortable with this way.

It is generally an extremely insecure and possessive mentality, and such a person is also a great harm to the other party and will hurt the feelings between the two.

The desire to control is very strong, there is no sense of security, and I feel that the other person's heart is too far away from me, and I can't control this person.

In the relationship, I always want to control the other party, which is generally a kind of domineering psychology, always wanting the other party to listen to me, and always wanting to dominate the other party's behavior, this kind of person is very domineering.

In fact, such people are completely very inferior, and they are really afraid that the other party will leave them, so they want to control the other party in this way, but in fact, doing so will only be counterproductive.

A person with a controlling personality often has a gradual control behavior, at the beginning he will test the other party's bottom line, and if the other party chooses to accept his control behavior, he will have to step up his efforts. So what you have to do when you meet this kind of person is to resolutely not give in, and let him understand from the beginning that his control over you will not work, and you will not eat his set. If he cherishes your marriage, after he understands your bottom line, he will have scruples and keep not touching your bottom line, so that your marriage is still very likely to last.

In a relationship, I always want to control the other party, probably because it has a heavier sense of control and less automatic sense of security in my heart, and this kind of person has a heavier sense of control.

I think it's machismo, and maybe it's because I love each other too much

This is called the desire to control, which means that you have a great desire to control, this emotion is not good, it is recommended to pay more attention.

In a relationship, you always want to control each other, or you are not confident in yourself, or you are obsessed with people and things, in fact, it is very difficult to control a person, because everyone has their own thoughts, and it is more important to be yourself.

Because love is selfish, you always want to control each other in your relationship, so that the other party will only love yourself alone. I'm afraid that as soon as I let go of my own love, I will fly.

Of course, it's because I like each other.,So I think about each other's existence at all times.,I can't forget it.,Always remember it in my heart.。

It may be because you are insecure, you are not confident in yourself, and you have low self-esteem.

It may be because there is no sense of security, so in this case, I want to control the other party, and I don't believe in the other party, so there is such a phenomenon, and I also hope that the two people can develop very well, so I want to control each other and don't have some other accidents.

This kind of thinking is very bad, and it will affect the feelings of two people, you should calm your heart, maybe your desire to control is particularly strong, so you will always want to control each other.

This is a sign of possessiveness, and it is also a proof that you love each other very much, so you want to do everything within your control.

In a relationship, you especially want to control the other person, which is a very controlling psychology. And this kind of person is generally very possessive. Will treat lovers as their own private belongings.

And it will also limit the lover's every move. It's a scary thing for people who are in love.

I've seen the person who likes to control each other the most in a relationship is a female friend next to me. He demanded that his subjects be on call 24 hours a day. As long as she sends him a message, he must reply in seconds.

And no matter who the boy is partying with, always report the information to the girl. In particular, I have to shoot ** to see it. In this case, the desire for control is particularly strong, because he wants to control the other person in the relationship and make the other party his appendage.

It feels like this girl doesn't really love this guy. Because his love made this boy breathless. And people who live in this kind of love will slowly have some psychological diseases.

It is because they themselves are a little unconfident in themselves and have low self-esteem, so they will have a strong desire to control each other.

I think the most important thing in a relationship is to make each other comfortable. You must feel that you are free at all times, free from other people's constraints. I used to fantasize that my boyfriend was also a very controlling person.

At the time, I thought I would be happy in that situation. But then I saw what happened to my friends, so I gave up on the idea. Because I think people who are very controlling are not very healthy.

What is presented is a pathology. And when they are in love, they often live without self, they don't pay attention to their joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and only care about their lover's attitude towards them.

When you fall in love, you must not put all your joys, sorrows and sorrows on another person. If he says something good to you, you will be happy, and if he says something bad to you, you will be sad. If this kind of love goes on for a long time, you can't hold on.

The most important thing is to be equal to two people, so never be very controlling over him.

I think it is a sign of insecurity to want to control the other party in a relationship, because he is always afraid of losing something, so he will always want the other person to do what he asks, because only by doing what he asks, he will feel safe. On the other hand, I think it is a manifestation of lack of self-confidence, because only a person who lacks self-confidence will want to control others everywhere.

The extreme distrust of feelings, the reason why you want to control the other person, is because you are not confident in yourself, and always think that the other person may betray you, which is caused by this distrust.

I think this should be a manifestation of loving the other person, when you love the other person, you want to control the other person, control the other person's freedom, and always want him to live around yourself.

If you especially want to control the other party, then in fact, this kind of psychology is very unconfident, hoping that you can control others, and then let your heart be satisfied.

This is a kind of person who has a particularly strong desire to control, who is too strong in the relationship, and wants the other party to listen to him. This kind of person is too confident, always thinks that everything is good, everything is right, you have to listen to me.

Summary. Good afternoon, my dear

1. Change your mindset.

No matter who it is, there is a fundamental greed for "expecting to be recognized by others", and it is because of this kind of greed that everyone will be diligent and develop, which is by no means a self-centered bad greed.

Just in front of the eyes of the person you love, this kind of craving will become more and more obvious. Thinking only about being liked by the other party and not having to be disgusted by the other party is very easy to become less and less like yourself, but as if you are wearing the mask of others.

How to control your emotions with the person you like.

Dear Good Seepage Lingwu [Bixin] First, change the mentality No matter who you are, you have the root greed of "expecting to be recognized by others", and it is because of this kind of greed that everyone will be diligent and develop, which is by no means a self-centered bad greed to celebrate the void. Just in front of the eyes of the person you love, this kind of craving will become more and more obvious. Single-mindedly thinking about being loved by the other party and not having to be disgusted by the other party is very easy to become less and less like yourself, but as if you are wearing the face of others.

Finally, liking a person is uncontrollable, don't they all say that covering your mouth will run out of your eyes, since you like it, why control it? If you like it, you have to be bold and cautious, as long as the other party is not interested in the letter and filial piety, not married, and your liking does not cause him a lot of trouble, then there is no need to control your liking for him. If you like someone who can't hide, it's better to say that it's slippery and dry, if you don't say it, how can you know what the other party thinks?

1.Keep an emotional diary. Keeping a journal is a great way to relieve your emotions.

Many times, we can't tell others about our emotions and hearts. At this time, it can be recorded by writing a diary in the rock cover. It also has the effect of confiding and venting.

This is because the act of "writing" has the effect of being aware of and unifying thoughts. 2.Insist on encouraging yourself every day.

The attraction of rough noise between people comes from the magnetic energy emitted by each person. So if you want to maintain a positive relationship as a couple, then make sure to keep yourself in a positive state. And a positive state is inseparable from strong self-confidence.

We can smile in the mirror every day, or say words of encouragement, and this action will form psychological cues and pay attention to the cultivation of self-confidence. than the heart].