I m tired of my boyfriend, and my boyfriend says I m a little tired of it, so let s leave it at that

Beauty,It's normal.。。 I'm like you. But I have a premise. Hehe.

When we were together, I just had a playful attitude, and then I really liked it, but unfortunately he wasn't the person I wanted. And the career is not good. I know it all in my heart.

But after 1 year together, I have feelings, and I can't bear to share, so he went to work in the field again, and I saw each other twice in the first 3 months, and I was together for a total of 5 or 6 days. Now it's divided, because what?? It's a different place, I can't see it, I can't see it, I can't see it, I don't get annoyed, I feel that it's almost the same, I don't feel reluctant, and it's better to divide it if I don't feel it

Of course, maybe you're happy with each other, but it's just because of time, it doesn't matter, after a while, your enthusiasm will slowly ignite again. But life is plain and realistic, and the key is to know what you want.

This is really a headache, and in psychology this is called conflict avoidance. Even if you want to leave him, you can't help it. Once a conflict occurs, it is easy for people to get anxious. If this happens, the anxiety will only get worse.

There is a method you can try, make a list of what your life will be like after you leave him, to write it on paper, not just in your head, but to write two aspects. Where will it be better after leaving him, and where will it be lost! Weigh it up yourself.

In fact, escaping is not a good option, because it is not the best way to solve the problem.

You can try to think of some practical ways to strengthen your relationship with each other. The specific method still depends on your own actual situation, such as a trip. Or two people together set a goal. Next year I'm going to buy a house, buy a car or something.

The reason why people are confused, bored, and have no feelings is because they have lost their purpose. Not sure what to do next.

Finally, I hope you can jump out of this circle and live a wonderful life!

no no no these shows that you love him more and more, so that the fear that comes out of my heart will be fine after a while

And I think it's because he's been treating you better lately than before? And then it seems that the girlfriend is no longer in advance of similar behavior? In fact, you know in your heart that he likes you more and more, and then he is a little different from before.

You've been thinking about him and his ex-girlfriend all the time, so you've been hurting yourself, and then you've put almost all your energy on how to beat the ex-girlfriend in his heart, until now you've beaten or you're tired of beating her in the past, so you're bored and have no goal ......

And tiredness is something that everyone must have in a relationship, as long as it doesn't affect your basic normal work life.

In fact, why not talk to him directly? Actually, you just want to get an affirmative answer, but if you don't ask him, how will he know what you want to ask him?

You must have sensed that there was something about him that made you unhappy! If this aspect is not fatal in life and life, you can not take it too seriously, and it can be solved by communication, if it is fatal, you need to think about it!

Your boyfriend is such a piece of wood.

If he could be romantic, you wouldn't be so miserable.

Find a chance to find out if he let go of his ex-girlfriend, if he hasn't let go too well, you can break up with him, just don't pity him! I live with another girl, and I still think that my ex-girlfriend is too not a man! If he really gives up, you can rationally analyze the pros and cons of leaving him, no, it's good to get together for a long time, and comfort him I wish him happiness!

Your encounter.

Is it fate, or is it an uncorrectable mistake in life?

Maybe. You're lost.

I don't know how to maintain the relationship between you.

Be a bystander.

I advise you to be decisive, and if the relationship has come to an end, give up.

Otherwise, it will be you who will hurt each other.

Many lovers will have this experience. If your boyfriend is a sensitive person, then he should know what to do and how to deal with it. Here's advice for you: adjust your mindset or make an excuse to leave him for some time.

Let's take a look at it separately for a while, it's hard to say, people sometimes just make cheap mistakes and want to be miserable.

Maybe it'll be fine after a while, you just don't have a lot of novelty.

It's a free society, and you can choose to continue or separate.

I want to leave but I can't bear to, what do you want to do, big sister?

Leave for a period of time to let you know how much you will miss each other when you are really separated, and you will cherish the time you are together!

Xiao Bei is like a newlywed, temporarily separated for a while.

You can try talking to your boyfriend.

Summary. Maybe he has encountered something annoying recently, and he doesn't want to talk to you, for fear of annoying you, so he uses this way, but pushes you farther and farther.

Hello dear Lord, do you want to ask how to restore him? Or do you just want to express your dissatisfaction? Or do you want to ask me if the relationship is worth it?

Kiss hello, this may be a temporary situation, I hope you can talk to each other, understand each other's thoughts and feelings, communicate more, and see if you can improve your relationship.

Are you kissing? Are you okay now?

The day before yesterday we met, he told me to help at home, I sent him a message yesterday that I bought something for him, he asked me to return, I said that there was not much of something, he was angry, I went to coax it, sent a lot of messages, ignored me, I went to find his friends, he told me, very annoying, I don't reply to the message to go to them, a little tired, let's do it first, it's already very busy, and this and that.

You can discuss with him whether you can calm down for a while before considering whether the two of you will break up.

Maybe he has encountered something annoying recently, and he doesn't want to talk to you, for fear of annoying you, so he uses this way, but pushes you farther and farther.

Kiss and think about whether there is such a thing.

Is he trying to break up with me now?

He only told me that the family was busy and that he needed to help these days.

Is that so? Okay, I'm embarrassed to kiss if I misunderstood, you can wait for him to calm down for a day before you take the initiative to go to him and ask him if he has encountered anything tricky recently.

He may be in trouble himself now, and accidentally saying this kind of thing to you makes you feel uncomfortable.

I want to ask if he wants to break up with me or if he is angry.

Kiss this is likely to be angry.

If he wants to break up with you, why not just say break up, or just say that's it, you wait for him to calm down for a while and then ask him is the best solution, sometimes the way to play straight can solve a lot of suspicion and anxiety.

Wait for him to calm down for a day or two, and then I will talk to him?

That's right. In this way, everyone can communicate effectively, and if everyone is not calm, there is no way to solve the problem rationally.