My boyfriend is too rational, and my boyfriend told me that he was very rational, what do you mean?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-05
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It should be that he is afraid, such a boy should also be a person who has been hurt in his relationship. Be optimistic, he should be a responsible person, my boyfriend is the same, we have been together for almost a year, and I haven't made any promises to me again, and we don't talk about the future, because he always says that no one knows what will happen in the future, in fact, such boys are very lonely in their hearts, they need a girl to be able to enter their hearts, but their protective psychology will also be strengthened, such boys, maybe think about what they say in the literal sense, seemingly without a sense of responsibility, In fact, it is precisely because they want to be responsible for us, so they say this. You can consider whether he is a responsible person from the small details he usually takes care of you, instead of being entangled in whether he gives you promises, feelings come from life, and a man who can live is a good man.

    Another point is that they are afraid of hurting us, afraid that one day, they will not be able to afford it, in a sense he is doing this because he loves us.

    Cherish the present by your side and care for the people you love from the details, then the future will follow, provided that both of you have a firm heart.

    I am such a person, if you don't know whether a thing is good or bad, then please believe in the good side, at least five or five points, I think you should be kind, you will be a lot happier, and believe that the people around you are good people, even if they have a bad side, it should also be forced by life, be tolerant. I will be relieved myself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Responsible He told the truth, and he didn't lie to you. It's not good, but it's better than lying to you, right? You'll be happy if you love each other, don't think so much. Let's enjoy the happiness of the present first...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a responsibility.,If you don't report anything, of course, it's a good coax to say something nice, and then take the opportunity to cheapen you.。。。 Hey,,, women can't do without promises after all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The first floor is finished, It's hard to say how your boyfriend is, but at least he is a person who makes promises, so he refuses to promise you easily, and he is afraid that you will be sad.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Communicate with him and tell him that he is upsetting you by saying that. And ask him if he wants to marry you and if he really doesn't want to break up with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I wouldn't have any commitments to women either

    Haven't you learned the first lesson yet?

    A man who can only say that promises is a man who can't do it far away.

    Only by silently accompanying you and showing your concern with actions is a man worth relying on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think he is a very responsible person, and he is also very realistic, because reality determines everything! I wish you all happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What did my boyfriend mean when he told me he was rational?

    Hello, rational refers to people who are not emotional, and are usually very reasonable. This kind of character can be said to have advantages and disadvantages, and it will be fair and just to do things, and there is no selfishness. But if in special circumstances, when you can be emotional, this kind of person still does not act emotionally, and still deals with it very rationally, which is what we usually say is not very benevolent.

    Such a guy will not be indecisive in terms of feelings, he understands what he wants.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If a boy who is too objective and rational can fully consider the general needs and psychological activities of ladies and even personal behaviors when falling in love, and create small cares and small attention that he feels unnecessary in a timely manner, that is to say, some ladies love to listen to words, so that women can clarify the affection of men for her, then rationality and sensibility can be extremely integrated.

    The advantage of most objective and rational men in a relationship is that they are not easy to force you to have sex, and they are not easy to ignore bread for love. Objective and rational boys are very objective in everything they do, even in love. A man can balance emotions and other things very well and objectively and rationally, and he is very worthy of relying on!

    Therefore, objective and rational men are very suitable for girls to get married, because they deal with feelings or work and other various things, they are generally an objective mentality, and the sense of mission is also stronger!

    In fact, objectivity is a rare ability, because of objectivity, boys may not be easy to smoke and drink, not easy to play games and indifferent you; Because of objectivity, boys may be coaxing people to take leisure and plan everyone's future very early; Because of objectivity, men are not easy to speak ill of others when they have disagreements with you, and will take into account your differences with him and deal with them effectively.

    But also because of objectivity, after a boy stops his loss in time one day, he will quietly leave his delicate girlfriend, and then find a girlfriend who is more suitable for his temperament.

    Objectivity does not mean that they are ignorant of the world, and boys who will deal with objects can also be sober-minded and objective.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Being too rational You will often quarrel with the person you like, and you don't think it's necessary, but the whole thing is that you are too straight to make the other person feel uncomfortable, even if you are acting out of a good attitude towards the other person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A man in love who is too rational will make people feel the existence of feelings, not quite like they are in a state of love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Fate is too shallow, so it is true that the gains outweigh the losses.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love cannot be rational, regardless of men and women. If you are too ideal, you will lose interest.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If my boyfriend is a rational person, I will be happier, after all, a rational person can have a better way to solve problems when facing them, I don't need to do anything, I just need to seriously accept and support his rationality, which will become a stepping stone for our relationship, and it is worth looking forward to cutting the good side.

    In the process of two people in love, it is not feasible to rely on emotional output alone, and there needs to be a person who is full of rationality to solve the problem, after all, I am not a rational person, so I just complement each other at this point, which is a point worth being happy about. I don't think it's because of his rationality. Any resentment and doubts arise that doubt the feelings between the two of us.

    At the same time, because we know his rationality, we can predict the possible run-in points and contradictions in advance when facing our feelings, and we can also roughly know the way he may face problems.

    So in the future, if it is a woman, I can accept it if it solves many problems, but if he can solve it emotionally, it will also become a surprise in our relationship, which makes me feel that it is because of my existence that it has changed from female to emotional, which is worth looking forward to and happy about. At the same time, women have always been an excellent point. A superstitious person can face many problems calmly, will not be disturbed, will not waver, can be a real decision-maker and responsible, and have a sense of security.

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    It is said that feelings and family are places of intercession, not reasonableness, but many times there is still a need for a person to have a clear mind to face all the problems around him. It is not enough to solve the problem with fair taste, once the relationship between two people is not as strong as it was at the beginning, trying to resolve the problem with feelings becomes a difficult task. It's just that there is a rational person who can stand up, objectively analyze the problem, and solve the problem, but it has become a help in the relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I would have chosen to break up with him, and if I was very rational about everything, I would definitely hurt myself, especially during a fight.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I will choose to enlighten him slowly, and I believe that he will become an emotional person after being with me, and I think it will take a certain amount of time to get along.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will choose to tolerate him, because I have to be more tolerant when I get along with such people, otherwise it is easy to have problems.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I will also become very rational in life, and two people will become very wise in life, and they will become very harmonious when they get along, and there will be no pressure.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Boyfriend says I'm too rational solution:1. If both parties are rational, it is fine, once one party needs a sense of ceremony.

    There will be contradictions, and there will be a lot of problems.

    2. If you are too rational, you can't live together, and it's difficult to get along, so it's not suitable for marriage at all.

    3. In fact, rationality and sensibility.

    There are two opposing states, but it does not mean that they are completely intransversible. A person can be both rational and emotional, people who are too emotional are bumpy, people who are too rational are lonely, and most people fluctuate between these two poles. When we are facing academic and career pressure, we tend to show a rational side, and when we are deeply emotionally unable to extricate ourselves, we often show an emotional side.

    Everyone has these two sides, it's just that they account for different emotional proportions.

    For relatively rational people, they have the advantage of being calm and rational and having strong logical thinking ability, and they can calmly analyze and deal with difficulties when encountering problems. But in the process of getting along with people, especially in love, being too rational can have the opposite effect. People often say that "love does not know what to do, and love is deep", love originally originated from an inexplicable feeling, and this inexplicable feeling is actually an irrational or partially irrational result.

    Whether it is because of the attraction of appearance or temperament, two people are sensual and play a role in the front, so being too rational may make the other half feel that the other party does not like each other enough, so that they will suffer from gains and losses, and have no sense of security.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. What does my boyfriend mean when he says I'm rational? It means that you, speaking means being thoughtful and capable.

    Rationality refers to the ability of people in a normal state of mind to calmly face the current situation with confidence and courage in order to obtain the expected results, and quickly and comprehensively understand the reality, analyze a variety of feasible solutions, and then judge the best plan and effectively implement it. Rationality is based on existing theories and derives certain results through rational logical deduction. Otherwise, it is anti-rational.

    The essence of reason is negation and doubt.

    What does my boyfriend mean when he says I'm rational?

    What does my boyfriend mean when he says I'm rational? It means that you, speaking means being thoughtful and capable. Rationality refers to the ability of people in a normal state of thinking to calmly face the status quo with confidence and courage in order to obtain the expected results, and quickly and comprehensively understand the reality, analyze a variety of feasible solutions, and then judge the best plan and effectively implement it.

    Rationality is the result of Wang Jie's deterministic derivation based on existing theories. Otherwise, it is anti-rational. The essence of reason is negation and doubt.

    For example, if someone asks you to borrow money, you first consider your own savings situation, and then consider the other party's ability to repay, carefully learn the legal knowledge of lending, and then decide whether to borrow money after the relationship between the two parties. Once borrowed, what is the probability of repossession, and the length of time it needs to be calculated! It's not because the other person is someone I like or dislike to decide right away!

    Talk about bending.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello subject, I am very happy about this question, men are generally very rational, will weigh the pros and cons, and think about the problem from an objective point of view.

    Men are engaged in a lot of social chores, and through experience, they have to deal with things rationally and calmly, not impulsively and recklessly, so men do things calmly and steadily, and they are not chaotic in the face of danger. Women must show their sensibility at work, whether it is in the platform, or in marketing, and interpersonal communication, in order to reflect the charm of women, be appreciated by men, and improve work efficiency.

    Men are in love, physiological urgency and impulsiveness, strong blood and blood, **rash, take the initiative to chase, want to catch and indulge, flirt and scold, **full. And most women are not frivolous in love, twisting and pinching, shy and reserved, love in the heart, but passive and subtle, and then do not take, take but not enter, so that men chase hard, the more men chase women, the more valuable they seem, the more comfortable they are, the more difficult it is for men to chase women, and they will be more focused, and it seems that love is not easy to come by. At the same time, it enhances the woman's high posture to control the man, and the high-profile foundation is after marriage.

    This is the advantage of a woman's rationality in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think so. There are many men who are mindless and have no reason at all.

    If you think I'm right, please give it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not that men are all rational, there are many women and women. It's just that for the most part, men are a little more rational than women. But it's not absolute.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    High-grade green tea, Lin Youyou has a reference, you definitely don't like to listen to it; If true love leaves you silently, and you are not embarrassed, how can you still send Liang Jingru's (courage), saying that she is a person who values feelings, do you guess if she is betting that you see it, let you take the initiative to make mistakes, your wife will only say to the man who shares the little things of life with her every day: Neurotic.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Men are not all rational, in fact, men and women have the same distinction between sensuality and rationality, but this society requires men to be rational, rational, not impulsive, promised, calm and generous. So most men are working on this in order to gain a sense of social identity.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Men are generally more rational than women, which may be a replay of gender, but people are not machines and they are irrational.

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