How can we forget the pain and live happily?

I have a headache upstairs To put it simply, it is difficult to completely forget It can be said that it is impossible Looking for a new beginning will help you forget the previous But more or less there will be a little memory that cannot be erased New beginning, new future Come on!!

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship, every experience, everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

Those who begin to suffer.

It's something you can't forget.

You can only bury it in your heart.

Try to do something that makes you happy.

Let yourself not think about the pain inside.

Hurry, hurry, hurry. 、、Bury some bad memories in your heart at the bottom of your heart) flickering。

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

I. I've just come out of the pain, and I'm really sad, but not anymore, because I've broken through the pain.

In fact, in the first few days, I was so uncomfortable, trying every way to forget him, but I still didn't forget, and I dreamed of him, so I was looking for a way to forget him, so I desperately thought, think about when he was with me, I was really happy, but for some reason I couldn't be together, I really like him, I have to be good for him, I can't be so selfish, think about how good we can spend so many happy days together, it's already very good, at least he left us a happy time.

Also, when you see him, don't deliberately avoid him, which will make you even more sad (I was like this at first, it was really uncomfortable), so it's good to see him as a friend. (It's very effective, I'm just digging this way to get better).

Now that I've figured it out, I'm not sad and painful, because I know that fate hasn't come yet, and we have to look forward to the joy of meeting him next time, maybe a lot happier.

Pain arises.

A source of sadness.

It is the source of the problem.

Suffering. You will only forget if you are really in pain.

will let it go.

It's true. There's a glass cup, you grab it with your hand, and you keep pouring hot water into it, and when you feel pain, you let go. After letting go, over time, you will forget, unless you don't let go, you will never forget him (her) (it).

What is sadness?

It's emotional sadness. It's just sad about something or someone. First of all, you have to know whether what you do is worth it, what will be the result, why should you bother? When you're sad, you can find something you like to do.

Divert attention.

The source of happiness is:

If you can't meet your spiritual needs and don't have a sense of fulfillment, then it's hard to be truly happy... The emptiness of man.

The main reason for boredom is that I have not found a suitable position in the fiercely competitive society, and I have not put my own experience.

Effectively play on things that reflect self-worth.

A lot of times I don't know what to do.

What you do or do is what you don't do.

Willing to do it. This is the case for a long time.

It can lead to numbness to things around you.

and boredom. It's a feeling that many people have, and it's easy to change it.

But to really change.

It's really difficult. But only adjust your mentality.

Change the mood and change the environment.

Find what interests you.

Put your energy into it.

If you go in, even if you don't succeed in the end, you won't feel it at least.

Boredom, looming around you.

Worked hard. You can also go and help some.

Vulnerable people. For example, disability.

Orphans and old people, when helping others.

You will have a sense of satisfaction.

Ay. Whether it's emotionally or professionally, I fully understand how you're feeling right now. I've been, and I still have.

There are many things in the world that we can't change, and only by facing them calmly and adjusting ourselves is what we can do now.

When you are too stressed, you can listen to **, watch a few of your favorite movies, enjoy funny clips, go climbing with friends, and vent your emotions. Or you can just go to bed and sleep with him all day.

The eyes should see more beautiful scenery, the ears should listen more to beautiful sounds, and most importantly, they should pay more attention to appreciate beautiful things. Our hearts will not get tired. May you be in a good mood every day.

When you encounter this kind of problem, it depends on the cause of the problem.

Of course, there is also a reason that there is no reason. If it's sad for no reason, just look in the mirror and cry.

Or talk to the person you want to talk to the most.

Sometimes I feel very uncomfortable, a very inexplicable emotion. First of all, I will call my dearest people to see if anything has happened to them (Zheng Ling is sometimes telepathic), if it's okay, then I'll watch more sad books, TV series, and movies. It's good to cry out.

If it doesn't work, I will quietly think about something, think about this emotion, or look in the mirror and think, think about it for a while, I will feel very inexplicable, and then I will cry (basically shouting that Gao Qi can get himself done with two tears, because I think my own behavior is ridiculous).

This is my experience, I don't know if it is not for you. It would be great if I could help you.

The key is that you have to be able to let go of yourself, it's not a big deal!

Let yourself live a little fuller, and time can forget everything!