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Maybe in love, loss is always not because of one aspect?
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I also yearn for the love that accompanies me to old age, but what does the love that accompanies me look like until I grow old? Many people think that the end of love is family affection, but in fact, there is not only family affection.
No matter how passionate love is, there is a dull day, which is a reality that many people can't accept. When love goes from hot love to dull, it does not mean that love is over, but it means that a relationship should enter a deeper mental state.
It's just that many people will have some psychological changes at this time because of the emotional changes between themselves and the other party, and they begin to question love, not knowing whether this love has entered a cold period or the other party is not in love.
It is easy to tell whether love has entered a cold period or is not in love, and it is easy to see from the other party's mentality and behavior.
1.Whether there is a sense of dependency.
The relationship has entered a dull period, which does not mean that the relationship has disappeared. Since love exists, it means that the other party's dependence on you has not changed.
On the contrary, because two people will establish a deeper communication after entering a quiet period, this sense of dependence will be deepened.
But if you don't love it, this sense of dependence will disappear, and the other party will begin to become independent, and when you can solve it by yourself no matter what happens, it means that the relationship may have moved towards the moment when love disappears.
2.Whether there is a sense of responsibility.
The sense of responsibility does not disappear with the end of the chemistry, and it does not change if the other person still has feelings for you.
He still wants to be responsible for your present and future, which is a normal state of mind between couples.
If the other person treats you very casually, it also means that there has been some kind of transformation between you.
The difference between the cold period and not loving is still very big, and many people will carry out some self-deception in the relationship, for example, they know that the other party no longer loves themselves, but they will still deceive themselves and just enter the emotional dull period.
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A loveless marriage can survive, but in the long run, it may face some problems. Here's what dating experts have to say:
The foundation of marriage: It is difficult for a marriage without love to become a partner in the true sense, not only lacks an emotional foundation, but also may not be able to meet the psychological and emotional needs of the other party. In such a situation, it is easy for marriage to become monotonous, insipid or even lose its meaning.
No common interests: If both parties do not have common interests or career pursuits, then it will be difficult for them to form a deep emotional bond. Two people need to have a point of mutual attraction that makes each other feel valued and meaningful in order to maintain an attitude of giving and acceptance in marriage.
Valuing communication: A successful marriage requires good communication, but in a loveless relationship, communication can become more difficult. Without a common topic and emotional support, conversations can become dry and tasteless, making it difficult to achieve true communication and understanding.
Rational thinking: In a loveless marriage, both parties need to rely more on rational thinking to deal with problems and make decisions. It may be easier to make the right decision due to the absence of emotional influence, but it can also lead to a lack of some human touch and warmth.
In short, a loveless marriage can be sustained, but it requires more effort and patience on both sides to deal with the problem, and care is taken to maintain an attitude of mutual respect, understanding and support. If two people can overcome difficulties together, establish a stable foundation for life, and care for each other, then their marriage is also likely to become beautiful and happy.
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If two people have lived together for a long time, although there is no love, but they have children who have been sold by the same bank, and they have a family that has been running together for many years, if there are no major changes, they can also be infiltrated for a long time.
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After a long time in love, love feels that it can't be felt, in fact, this situation is relatively common, some people feel tired because of love, so they don't feel so loved. In fact, it is not necessarily that you don't love, you just want to calm down or relax, and when you calm down, you still love each other very much. And some people really don't love anymore, so in this case, it's better to choose to break up, after all, a relationship that doesn't love can't enter marriage, so it's better to end it early.
When many people first fall in love, they think that love is really beautiful, and then they will be happy when they see each other, and when they don't see each other, they will think about it in their hearts. But after being in love for a while, I found that this feeling slowly faded, in fact, it was mainly due to the fact that two people have been together for a long time, and the freshness is gone, so life will return to the dull, and the feeling of making your heart pound will slowly become less. And this situation can actually be adjusted in some ways.
For example, you can work hard to create some small surprises, because a relationship needs to be romantically maintained, and small surprises are the first step of romance. When you are romantic, the other party is willing to cater to you, and this relationship will be maintained, this is not actually not love, but when you are tired in your feelings, when the feeling of tiredness is erased, then love will reappear, so you must know how to manage your feelings well, and you will go longer and longer. Although in a relationship, not all couples can get married, after all, two people in life are independent individuals, with their own personalities and habits, but after coming together, the two sides are not very good, so in this case, even if there is love, it will grind to the end.
Then it also shows that you don't love each other, or you don't love you anymore, and this situation still needs to be considered appropriately, whether you want to let go. Maybe let it go, and both parties will have happiness.
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Hello dear, love has no time limit for personal perception of the broadband: the feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally no longer lonely, at least one person thinks of you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is prudent. But slowly, as you get to know each other better, you begin to discover each other's shortcomings.
Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always trying to pick up a suitable one, but how do you know when you can pick it up? Its practice is imitation, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, as long as you have the heart, have the courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have.
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Loving someone is actually a kind of attachment and has no time limit. You are the person I love but can't love, but it's worth my waiting, I know it. Because of you, everything in this world has become very beautiful.
You have warmed my heart. I keep a promise for you. I miss you, the person I love the most, waiting for you in the years is my life's obsession.
I don't love you for two or three days, I want you to have endless thoughts. Love you and miss you, love is endless, miss someone, there are sweets and bitterness, tears and pain, tears are the proof of missing! Love is the warmest and sweetest emotion in life, and everyone who wanders in the red dust will have an expectation of a beautiful love.
In the world of love, no matter who meets the person they love, this person is a bud that blooms in the depths of the heart, which is the happiness that only belongs to their own life, and no one knows how to share it. I love you, my beloved, I don't love you for two or three days, I think you have endless tenderness in your heart. Love and think, this is love without an expiration date.
When I miss you, the faint thoughts spread endlessly, and the flying ...... spreadThe sweetness of love is a kind of attachment in the heart, which is an emotion that cannot be reluctant, once a person meets someone who touches the heartstrings, he will spare no effort to pursue it. Because this is a fate that can be met but not sought, true love will have a deep attachment to the wheel, if this love is separated, the person who waits will have a strong longing. Loving someone is not a matter of two or three days, if the heart is deeply loved, it is a lifetime of dependence, the person in the heart I love you, it's good to have you in life, and you are the greatest happiness in life!
Love is indefinite, thinking is endless, it is an emotion with obsession. In the world, there is a kind of love that knows that it can't go further, but it is still an attachment that is addicted to the heart, and this unbearable emotion sometimes makes people feel helpless. In the rolling red dust, there is a kind of love that has never been embraced but is a deep imprint in the heart, which is a lingering feeling.
I love you, you are not the person who accompanies you on the pillow, but you are the favorite in my life; I miss you, you can't be by my side, but it's the lover I don't want to lose. When I met you and fell in love with you, you will be the only one in your heart from then on. Hope mine can help you <>
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