I care a lot about my girlfriend having been with a 20 before

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To be honest, there's no need to care that much. All you care about is whether she really loves you now. Only you know this in your own heart.

    She's beautiful, so it's normal to have a boyfriend before. If you've had a virgin girlfriend before and kissed her. Then you said that after you broke up with your girlfriend, wouldn't your girlfriend be wanted? Let go of the dots. It's okay. Cherishing the present is the most important thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have to say, you're stingy, but it's at least better than being indifferent, at least you care about her. It is recommended that you talk to her and express your feelings, maybe it will be better. In addition, I suggest you take a look at "213 Degrees Dragon Prince", in which the heroine and the three male protagonists have kissed ......In short, you have to try to be as open as possible and think more about the good aspects.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I care about this because you love her!!

    But the past is all in the past, and it's useless to care!!

    The more you think about it, the faster it will be to part!

    Don't think about it, it's useless.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What do you care about, it's good if the girl is good, the key is not to raise flowers in water, everything else is secondary.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The past is gone, don't always live in the past, especially someone else's past You ask yourself if you love her? Do you care about her before or now. I think you'll figure it out.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are too conservative, too conceited, too stingy, and I doubt that this woman will be happy with you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find a beautiful daughter-in-law, don't worry. The important thing is to believe in her.

    Find a drop that is not pretty, you are unwilling.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Oh o( o....When the moon is full, it will be lost, and when the water is full, it will overflow! Things can't be too perfect.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    All I can say is that you're a stingy man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you're 、、、 to make an inappropriate analogy, you're a bit of a "cleanliness fetish".

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think the same thing as you, but when you think about it, it's nothing, at least you're together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's too stingy, isn't it!!

    If that's what you're calling, then you can find a 6 or 7-year-old child

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the beginning, I will care, but if I like it in the future, I will not care, but if the other party has someone from the past in his heart, he will care. Everyone has a past, as long as the past is not a problem, I don't think there is any need to care, the past is the past, and I have a past, will the other party also care? When two people are together, the important thing is the present and the future, if the other party has already let go of the past, why should they be obsessed with their own lack of dust, and use things that have nothing to do with themselves to affect the present and the future.

    I think I should look at my own and each other's past objectively. If I love him very much, I won't care about his past, because his past has nothing to do with me, I care about his present and future, as long as he truly loves me.

    If one day, I know that he is still in contact with his ex-girlfriend, has a close relationship, and pretends to be dismantled and leaves without looking back, the best choice for me is for me to leave, because I don't want to be with a person who betrays love and has no dignity, which is the biggest insult to me. We look at him as a person, look at his character, and look at his future! People are not saints and sages, especially when they are young, they are full of enthusiasm, sometimes they can't grasp themselves, they make mistakes, they recognize it, they change it, they are good comrades!

    Since this question is asked, it means that there is a person in the heart of this situation, and at this time, we must be optimistic about this person's character, which is the key, if it is the kind of "dog can't change the way to eat", how far away are you!

    It's easy to say, but not much is really done. When the two of them are sweet, they can't feel it, but once there is a conflict, they just wait to turn over the old accounts. Love is selfish and domineering, because love is more than in the past because it cares, which is normal, just don't be endless, the other party thinks once or twice that you are still very happy because you care, and after many times, you are tired, and you don't want to explain anymore.

    I don't think this is what everyone wants to see, because it is a lifelong regret to lose the people who should be cherished in the past.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm more concerned, especially when she mentions the people she's talked to before. After all, I am going forward and succeeding, and it is normal to care more about the people in front of me.

    In fact, there are certain benefits to this, and the purpose of our care is to understand what our girlfriend's former partner is like, how they got together, and what happened to separate the two people. By understanding these, you can find out how these things happened, why, and who is at fault, so as to understand whether this is the cause of your own object or the reason of her ex, if it is her own object, you can find out if she has similar mistakes, if it is the reason of her ex, you can review whether there are similar mistakes in yourself and in her behavior. If we find out, we can put an end to this mistake as soon as possible, with only one purpose, to prevent the two of us from repeating the mistakes of our predecessors.

    However, there is still a certain limit to this kind of thing, because this practice is a kind of scumbag after all, otherwise it will only be more than worth the loss, I think everyone is not willing to talk about their ex by others all the time, so, if you care about it very much and often mention it, it will inevitably cause her disgust, and in the end it is very likely that you will also be reduced to an ex.

    In closing, I would like to say that those are secondary, and the important thing is the two of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This question, if you don't care about it at all, is definitely false. If this object only appeared in his girlfriend's mouth, then he forgot about it, after all, his current life has not appeared, then to your current me, it is also an illusory character, why should I not get along with an illusory person? If my girlfriend is too ambiguous when she tells the story, then I will definitely be unhappy on the spot, if my girlfriend can observe what she says, she will not talk about it again in the future, but I can't be unhappy, and I can't do anything to the person who existed in the past, let alone ask my girlfriend to erase the past.

    The ex is always a strange animal. In fact, I have no grievances with me, but I know another one, and he has become my hostile existence, so it's best not to see each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I must care, because he talked about it before, so the other party didn't have me in his previous memories, so he must care.

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