My boyfriend said I wasn t generous and wanted a plan

It feels like two immature children are in love, you don't have your own career, or you don't have a job that you are very willing to do, you are helping the family business, and you have no life goals to be ruthless, so you don't have a common language, a common goal, and no common struggle! I just want to think about how to be happy together again, after a long time, there are fewer happy programs, and I start to play distrust and quarrel, hehe. Don't mind if I say that, it's the opposite word!

One of you is 20 years old and the other is 18 years old, do you think you still love him after 5 years? Will he still love you? The plan is for the two of you to make together.

What others have decided is someone else's, not yours. What do you love about him? Have you seriously thought about it?

If there is no reason for love, I would also like to say that true love does not distrust. It is a firm follow-up and appreciation! Do you have one?

In a word, you didn't grow up!

One side is weak and the other is strong.

See who does the weak.

See who is strong.

You are a cultivated and quality person, so you have this requirement, and your boyfriend does not have this quality of you, it is recommended that you talk to your boyfriend well, I hope he will change, if you do not change, it may also affect the quality of life of your marriage in the future, in short, it is best for two people to have the same three views.

Obviously, you and your boyfriend have different concepts, and the two people are not the same in their behavior, mentality, and living habits! In the long run, it can only be a more painful life experience.

The two have lived for a long time, and even the way of squeezing toothpaste can become the fuse of the war. What's more, you have such an obvious difference in views of right and wrong, life is a spiritual journey, but your little friends and you are not on the same path!

Yes, you are not the same way you behave in the world.

Obviously, your boyfriend is egoistic, and you are the kind of person who pushes himself and others.

First of all, the boyfriend really doesn't understand the needs of girls;

secondly, the boyfriend is more serious;

In the end, this kind of personality is difficult to change, so you can change yourself.

I'm the same with my ex-girlfriend, it's not that I can't say sweet words, it's that I don't plan to live with her for the rest of my life at all, I always play some boring sex, it doesn't matter if I coax or not...

Everyone has their own personality, and everything is done in the direction you want, so is he still a man? Do you think you can afford someone who doesn't have an independent personality? When a man is the only one who is obedient, it is when you want to dump him.

You're right, he's going to let you, but you're wrong, he's not going to let you. Because he didn't want to suffer this grievance.

He's just too selfish. Won't think about your feelings. It won't hurt you. Spoil you. Love you.

He can't save face, he's embarrassed to say something, and he can't say something he wants to say.

Such a person is not suitable for love, but suitable for marriage.

It's just that you're not important enough to need him to change.

What would you do if you met your ex-boyfriend on the street? Maybe it's a laugh Maybe say hello Your boyfriend didn't say anything He just wanted to tell you It's very simple to tell him Don't contact his ex-girlfriend If you don't see his ex-girlfriend, you're going to get it It's just a game No one can see anyone It's okay Friend If I were you, I'd be careful, but I'd laugh it off If your boyfriend really wants to do something, he won't tell you You're right? Hope to adopt Welcome to ask.

If you love him, believe in him, men need to trust.

You can create an account to play with him.

Well, how is this question so similar to the question asked by a guy before?

You should be happy, it means that you have grown up in this relationship, and learn to tolerate the most important thing in a relationship is to be considerate and tolerant of each other, because boyfriend and girlfriend are not one party to make sacrifices, the other party to enjoy each other, but two people to help each other, respect each other, respect each other, love each other, give each other, so that in the relationship, two people can grow better, you should thank your boyfriend, it is his tolerance and spoiling, so that you can grow, I would also like to thank this relationship for bringing you happiness, and finally wish you a long relationship.

may be really generous, so that your boyfriend feels very relaxed, you can reply to him to understand each other.

If you like your boyfriend and want to continue this relationship with him, you can say that the one who is close to Zhu is red, and the one who is close to ink is black, I have always been with a generous person like you, how can I become ungenerous?

It shows that he thought you were stingy before, and now because of something about you, he thinks you are generous, so it's okay to say it like this.

You are him, people will change, become generous, and it depends on what is going on.

It's up to you.

After all, the situation is different.

As long as you tell the truth.

People will change, those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to Zhu are red.

People will become, some people are getting better and better, some people are getting worse and worse, and they will be eliminated in this competitive world, so people will also learn to change with the rhythm of development, keep up with the rhythm of life, and be a useful person to the society.

I've always been very generous, but you didn't notice it before, and you didn't care enough about me and didn't pay enough attention to me before, so you said this about me!

People who are stingy with you will become generous. It's all your work!

Didn't I use to be so stingy?

You reply to him that I used to be petty, and beat him up.

You can say, thanks to your help, thanks to your teaching. That's why I'm able to be so generous now. aqui te amo。

So I asked him, "Did I be stingy before?" ”

It can be seen that you should be your first love Everyone has a lingering past It's just that you haven't reached that time There is a saying that people grow up in training and experience more naturally You can see more Love is not a kind of training.

I used to be like you, always living in the shadow of dealing with the past, feeling wronged, but in fact, the most important thing for two people to be together is to value the present, cherish the present, don't mention the past, and don't force the other party to recall his past, you will be happy.

Then you just break up and change to something that you didn't have before. Then let the other person mind you before.

Lose calmly, gain indifferently, strive for its inevitability, and go with the flow.

This is a common problem of women! If you don't care, it's not called a woman, it's a matter of degree!

And don't say it's him, it's the same for anyone! People are like this, and it feels good to lose it! Besides, it's normal for you to say such things during a quarrel! You can say anything in your anger!

It's good to relax! You believe not only in him, but also in yourself!

Even if he doesn't say it, his heart will be os

I think the root of the solution is that you have to change.

First of all, I will explain one point: true love has many tribulations, and love has many tests. However, the test is not the stinginess of life described above, in fact, a man with a magnanimous heart and bearing may be a very shrewd and rational person on the outside, but at home he is very kind and kind to his lover and friends, if he really loves you, he should support you when you do some career hobbies, and you will enlighten you where you have shortcomings, and your other people are worse than ordinary friends, what do you think there is to continue?

Now that this is the case, how good can it be for you to get married and have children? It would be wiser to suggest that it would end early. After all, love is meant to be happy.

Boyfriend? Are you not married? If you don't have patience with you if you don't get married, then you should think about it.

As for the question of generosity, it is understandable that he cares about you very much, but it is not a good thing to be too cautious, and it will give each other a lot of reasons to quarrel. Finally, marriage is not child's play, and small problems before marriage are big problems after marriage!

Hehe. More understanding, more tolerance.

If there is a fate, there is no fate.

If you're still young and can't let go of him, make do with a boyfriend and girlfriend, if you want to get married, it doesn't seem to be an ideal marriage partner.

If you love him, it's okay. If you just like him or don't like him very much, break it.

Don't be too nice to him. See what his reflection is, and if he doesn't have any reflection, just say goodbye."

Not being generous is the essence of the past, don't you see that your boyfriend is good to you?

Please explain how you are impatient?

It is recommended that you chill him for two days, and then get together with other male friends, preferably so that he can see it. So he knows what it's like. Also, it's best not to put too much thought into him and develop your circle of friends.

1. Ask him how you want to change it, and correct it under reasonable premise.

2. Break up.

It's that he's not right, you don't need to say it, and he doesn't have to be enthusiastic about others.

And said that your attitude is a bit bit

You are also enthusiastic about other boys, and see how he reacts.