My boyfriend said he didn t want to take care of me, and he always said I didn t care about him, wha

It's not that your boyfriend doesn't talk or not, but you can't take those words too seriously, sweet words every man is good at, you listen to it and think it's okay, if you take it seriously, you'll be stupid.

Falling in love hurts money, falling in love and talking about money hurts feelings, it's not a question of who is stingy, it's a question of whether he loves you and spoils you enough, of course girls like men to spoil them, but you also have to think about him, whether he really has a problem financially.

If he complains about you, then ......Divide?

I think if you love him, you can bear it, and if you think you can live well without him, you can divide it.

Hehe, be happy.

Don't keep pulling.

Before getting married, he had the trouble of firewood, rice, oil and salt; Before you really get it, you have begun to forget your vows, how can such a man be worthy of your life?

Women, it is used to hurt. I don't deny that in this society, men have more pressure due to real problems such as houses, but I still firmly believe that if you love, then you should naturally bear responsibility and pressure.

According to the landlord, there should be more than one similar contradiction, and it will intensify.

Many times, after the freshness of love, the truth of both parties begins to appear, and the natural shortcomings are no exception to the surface. At this time, you need to think carefully and calmly, whether you can tolerate such a bad problem for a lifetime, if not, please let go. Otherwise, when the interruption continues, it will be chaotic.

Wishing you happiness.

A woman should put the overall situation first, and in front of outsiders, she can give face to the man and show respect for her husband. Your man will also feel very face-saving outside, and his self-confidence will be great.

If you don't give a man face everywhere, the man will also feel annoyed and boring.

To put it mildly:

This kind of love is not worth it, and you will be happy early when you are separated.

Maybe he doesn't like you anymore, so you'd better find another one.

Bullshit! What a guy!

Caring is mutual, if you feel that your relationship is already within your ability, it is enough, what he sees is not real, only what he feels is real. If he really loves you, even a little bit of care, he will be touched. I'm a guy and I know how it feels, especially since the beginning of my relationship.

I think it's his problem when he says that, and you don't have to blame yourself, you can talk about it.

Another point is that men sometimes speak and can't be taken seriously. He always has to find some reason to question your relationship, because if there is no contradiction in love, you won't feel bored? However, he faces the facts in his heart, and you should not easily change your attitude.

Hello, maybe your boyfriend is under a lot of pressure right now.

You can give a certain amount of care from your daily chats or daily life.

Questions. He told me to think about it, and now he can handle my psyche, but I can't handle him.

This thing may be due to its personality.

I have friends who like you like this very much, but they can't express it, and they don't want to care about some things.

Maybe he's joking, or maybe he's serious about taking care of you. If you give him serious feedback on your feelings, I think he will respect you. If you still don't change, it's really vexatious or immature. You have to think about whether you want to continue to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

My boyfriend also likes this, this is his kind of thinking that is a little shaky, anyway, I like to call him like that, I am happy when he is happy, he thinks this is more conquest, <>

Boys are generally like this, it's just that the degree is different, you don't think there is dignity in fact, it's not like this, it's just a couple flirting directly or something, and he will be very excited if you meet his requirements. Hee-hee, if you can't understand this thought, you should talk to your boyfriend and ask him not to ask you like that.

If your boyfriend is sick or in poor health, since you say it, you have to do your girlfriend's duty to care for her and take care of her.

Summary. That's how you can reply, my dear. I can't take care of myself, don't I still have you, I believe you can take good care of me.

That's how you can reply, my dear. I can't take care of myself, don't I still have you, I believe you can take good care of me.

And I will try to take care of myself for your sake and not let you worry.

My boyfriend said that I was going out with other handsome guys, and I was very unhappy to delay my rest.

In my eyes, no one could be more handsome than you. Don't be unhappy, it won't worry you next time.

I say love in my heart every day, I can't share some of your hard work every day, I'm really ashamed.

Why do you think so? I can understand that your heart is inspired, I have received it, and I can feel the love and care you have given me. Our separation now is for a better encounter in the future, so I believe that I will get better and better.

Summary. Dear, hello, my boyfriend said that taking care of himself may mean that my boyfriend is busy during this time, maybe he is on a business trip, he can't be by your side at any time, he can't protect you all the time, he is afraid of snubbing you, so that you can be careful, let you know in advance, so that you can be prepared, which means that your boyfriend cares about you very much. It may also be that your boyfriend is empathetic and wants to break up with you, but he is afraid that he will not be able to think about it, so he will give you a vaccination in advance, so that you can be prepared.

Boyfriend says take care of yourself.

Hello teacher, I'll ask you.

Dear, hello, my boyfriend said that taking care of himself may mean that my boyfriend is busy during this time, maybe he is on a business trip, he can't be by your side at any time, he can't protect you all the time, he is afraid of snubbing you, so that you can be careful, let you know in advance, so that you can be prepared, which means that your boyfriend cares about you very much. It may also be that your boyfriend is empathetic and wants to break up with you, but he is afraid that he will not be able to think about it, so he will give you a vaccination in advance, so that you can be prepared.

Boyfriend is talented, there are a few ex-girlfriends who dumped him after chasing him, he said that he was heartbroken for love, he had paid true love and material and this result, and now he has been dating me for eight months, I refuse to meet, because I am a little talented and still love beauty, and the male bosses are all promoting my type. I can sing, dance, play the piano, and write experiments, but I refused to meet 5 times, and I have been used to being taken by friendship and family since I was a child, and my boyfriend cried and cried.

It's also called lovesickness, and I want half my life, and my eyes are painful and heartbreaking! But his ex-girlfriends are sorry for him, why is he so materially stingy with me.

He also said that no matter whether he is in contact or not, I will always be in his heart, what does he mean, I don't know how to ask an expert.

Dear, if you refuse to meet, he will be lovesick? Materially stingy manifested in **? He said that he would always be in his heart, and he should think that you are too far away for him to catch up.

He asked to meet at the woman's house, even if he loves me s to live, why don't you take food, drink and have fun, I am so uncomfortable What does he mean by this???

Dear, you mean, why didn't he ask you out to hang out? And choose to meet at your home?

That's right, my boyfriend loves me so generously, and my friends around me are throwing a lot of money at me! What does he mean? If you don't love me, let it go, what does he mean.

Dear, your boyfriend is also wonderful. Generally speaking, the first time you ask a girl is to go out to eat, drink and have fun, and you can develop a relationship when you are in a good mood, but your boyfriend does the opposite, and makes an appointment at your house, is he in a hurry to marry you and meet his mother-in-law one step earlier.

I said that I took care of my boyfriend in my heart, and my boyfriend said how to take care of it.

I understand how you're feeling right now. My boyfriend said thank you for giving him the opportunity to take care of him, you can reply: I also appreciate being taken care of by you.

Maybe your boyfriend is young and doesn't have as much experience as you. Dansu, remember, Dansu, he should have an idea of taking care of you, this is a sign of a guy loving a girl, that is, he thinks, he can take care of you. Although this kind of care can be clumsy or very naïve, and it will make you cry and laugh.

But this is human nature, if you like each other, you can't help but pay for each other. To get back to the point, even if he is younger than you, don't take care of him all the time and deprive him of his responsibilities. Let him learn to take care of you, help him grow, let him know what responsibility is and how to love someone.

We shouldn't do this to our boyfriends, we should have more trust and sincerity in each other, everyone has their own independent lifestyle, learn to respect each other to be better, understand each other and make progress together.

Therefore, the correct method of communication between couples, as well as the form of getting along, is very important.

1.Be calm when communicating.

When communicating, it is important to keep a calm mind and not be emotional. Emotionally charged may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication.

If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

2.Be humble and courteous when communicating.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at the very least, you should abandon your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

3.Be honest and straightforward in your conversation.

In the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with the person you communicate with, and there is no concealment, honesty is an important step for you to deepen the cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication.

4.Be clear about what you want to say when communicating.

No matter what the problem is, why, how, what the reason is, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action will be of good help to the development of communication and the next development of the situation.

Do you really care about him, or do you not understand his real thoughts and needs?