When did you start feeling mature?

When everyone else is afraid of something, but you are not afraid of it, it proves that you are mature.

When I was young, I was afraid of some things in every level, and gradually, as we grew older, we had some knowledge, and as a kind of confidence, we learned not to be afraid of these things. It's a kind of growth. But it's still far from maturity.

When I was a little older. We learn to do a very small thing on our own, and we feel mature, like little adults, but it's still growth, not maturity.

When you reach a certain age, you won't impulsively charge for those so-called buddies or some things because of some things, you learn to think, you learn how to make choices. At the same time, your concerns will grow. Always think about yourself, your family, and the people you love.

When your friends encounter danger and difficulties, you don't rush to them at the first time, but think of solutions and do your best to save them. That's what kind of maturity is. And from the moment I passed away a family member, I really felt what maturity is.

It's something I'll never forget, but from that moment on, I feel like a different person. Joy, anger and sorrow are not things that everyone often puts on their faces. When you are sad, you will choose to be calm and deal with some things calmly.

The sadness of loneliness will not be shown on my face, and at that moment, I truly took on everyone's expectations and responsibilities for me.

At the moment of maturity, I actually don't know it, and I will have mature capital only after experiencing painful grief. In short, the road to maturity is destined to be sad.

To measure a person's maturity, I think it should be a standard for yourself, others say that you are mature, but others have witnessed your growth, but they don't understand the depths of your heart. I understand that maturity should be to have a certain ability to think, to be independent, and to bear things that I couldn't bear before.

When I was in junior high school, I always spoke in the tone of an adult, pretending to be a little adult, and the girls were a little precocious, and I always dealt with problems with a rebellious mind, against my family, against my teachers, thinking that I could stand alone. That day, I was shopping with my good friend from junior high school at that time, and when I was buying an item, because of my friend's bargaining, I said a few words, and then the clerk was not happy, and a few ugly words fell on her head, my temper was short, and the ensuing quarrel, but my friend was indifferent. When I went home alone at night, I thought about today's events, I was very fragile and cried, and it was very coincidental that my mother came in and pounced on my mother like a kitten, and I felt that my family was so good at that time.

I started to stop running around, so that my mother rarely worried about me, and I also learned to be stronger in the face of some injuries and empathy.

When I was a few years older, I participated in some activities, because I was more active and had a great interest in activities, and soon I had some heavy tasks, and at this time I always had a feeling of powerlessness, afraid of not doing well, afraid that my ideas would be rejected, and there were many times of loss. After that, I took the time to go outside and found that there are many people who are busier than you, many people who work harder than you, and no matter what status people are, they have their own life tracks. I think what I choose, I should also be positive, keep cheering myself up, build confidence, I can.

Everyone is growing, and maturity is the standard that they give themselves. One day, when you feel like I'm still far away, maybe it's a sign that you're starting to mature.

Mature, there may be people who are very mature at a young age, and some people who are very old but immature.

This is different from everyone's experience, and maturity is different sooner or later, so let's talk about me first! I remember when I first came out to work, I was about 20 years old, I didn't accept anyone, and I liked to raise the bar with others, I always felt that everything was easy, I didn't care about anything, and I didn't like to stay with adults at that time, and I was always alone in another city. At that time, I only thought about freedom, I didn't like to be tied down, and I did what I thought.

At that time, I still fantasized about love at first sight every day, a lifelong love, never abandoned, once for a relationship, I didn't come out for many years, and every day I went to the place where we stayed together, the place where we went to work together, the road we walked together, and the place where we ate together......

She said to look forward, don't keep thinking about the past, after experiencing this unforgettable relationship, I slowly understood a lot, no matter how good the two people were, they may not see each other for a lifetime! Life still has to go on, I can only look forward, and then I became reticent, no longer arguing with others about meaningless things, and I am not so arrogant, and I slowly know that only your family is really good to you, and I don't ask for anything in return.

I used to dislike to contact your family, but now I have more contact with my family, when you have nothing, your family is still by your side, when you are tired, your parents are still waiting for you to come home, when you are sick, your parents take care of you, when you have no money, your parents give you money. I've experienced too many things over the years, so I've become a lot more mature, maybe it has something to do with age!

I used to cry for a relationship, I couldn't sleep for a day and a night, but now I may never cry again, now it's more about fulfillment, I see it more lightly, and now I think more about making money, running, reading and studying.

<> "When did the scholars with Gao Qiqiang begin to mature?

1.When you suffer from the narrowness of your mind.

A person's inherent concept has been reshaped, but when he grows the fastest, it is not that the original concept is wrong, but maturity is to begin to know how to accept other ideas and constantly broaden his own ideological pattern.

2.It's time to start looking for and creating your own value.

In fact, creating value doesn't have to be complicated, anything you output has value. Breakthroughs in skills, career achievements, family fulfillment, your precipitation has given these things value, and yourself, work, and relatives have gained benefits, which are the values you have created. Those who understand this and take value creation as their orientation must grow very quickly.

3. When you start to work towards a goal that your current ability cannot achieve.

This goal is not something that can be reached by trying to reach out, but you need to jump up with all your might, only to find that you are always a little bit behind. For example, your goal is to become a "project team leader", but your performance is always a breath behind, your ambition and unwillingness will continue to urge you to achieve this goal, and the sweat you pay in this process is not proportional to the goal, that is to say, compared to the goal reward, your growth will be much greater.

4. When you come into contact with the other side of people.

Learning to see the other side of people is the beginning of growth. Everyone is not black and white, there are no absolute good people, and there are no absolute bad people. These things may be difficult to understand, but when you really understand them, you will find that everyone is like this, and you will start to be more vigilant and think about the world.

After thinking about it, you will appreciate people who are simple-minded even more, and finally experience the joy of getting along with people.

5. When you come into contact with a lot of things that you couldn't see or touch before.

A person's level lies in the circle it touches. Your vision, knowledge, and pattern can all be obtained through circles. Maybe you can only be a listener at first, but over time you will be able to use your own knowledge to output your own ideas, which will undoubtedly be great for your growth.